Well done to Roger for making this very clear.
The first thing you have to realise is, there's more men looking for sex online than there are women. Lots more. Swinging-Heaven is continually growing but at the time of writing, the number of adverts in each category was:
Women seeking Men: 147
Men seeking Women: 5,226
Couples seeking Men: 575
Men seeking Couples: 3,155
We read this last night and when you actually do the real figures it means
that there are on average 35 males after one female and males after couples.
This does not take into account the number of males who don't have adverts and just reply only. We would suggest that this would probably double the figures above.
Tis no wonder that the majority of males never meet anyone. When we have advertised in the past, it was very clear from the replies that there are a lot of very frustrated males on the swingers scene. Lets face it, the swingers scene is really all about couples on couples and in the start never involved singles.
Again a grerat article Roger, you spent a lot of time on this one. This really should become a STICKY so as to stop so much frustration. At least then the facts are known
