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mazandden
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 43
Straight Male, 48
UK

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Quote by buckingfabe
Yes COAD and COPD are the same thing, chronic obstructive airways disease or pulmonary disease. He was diagnosed as COAD, but I think COPD is more of an American term.
I'm so glad I smoke as it gives my dr something to bitch about, not forgetting the morbidly obese thing as well. How awful it would be for him if he actually had to find a reason for my ilnesses. Still he always seems to manage a few good misdiagnoses even with my habitual smoking to hang it on

Still, the majority of my patients admitted to hospital are smokers, or are obese, and are usually admitted due to a 'lifestyle' related illness, that is that most reasons for my patients illnesses could be avoided by making simple lifestyle changes.
Sometimes when you deal with that everyday, and see people die from these kind of things everyday, you feel you're banging your head off a brick wall when you try to show people what a good thing a smoking ban is!
I think if your GP is giving smoking as a reason for your illnesses, then 9 times out of 10 he's probably right!
ps COAD is more a laymans term used as airway is easier to understand than the pulmonary part of COPD (oh, and den should know that!lol)
m xx
now i dont know for sure but i'm pretty certain that the criteria on who can and cant give blood is probably back up by some form of research/risk assesment? As opposed to someone being homophobic?
we chose maz for the lady because its latvian for " a little amount" and she is only little.
and we choose Den for the man because it is "the lair or shelter of a wild animal, esp. a predatory mammal." which speaks for itself really.
we were going to just use our names but thought that would be dull.
we are both physios, pretty sure the professional body wouldn't be overly chuffed with our faces on here!!
err, not that it really stops us!!
Quote by Drewxcore
Yeah,the contents of the bag should be enough to keep you going until you get to Edinburgh!!! lol

of course hunni.........but come on admit whats in yours..........lol
In my bag (its a manbag) i have my phone, my keys, condoms, lube, antiseptic cream, a knife (its for work!) my laptop when i need it, a bottle opener, wallet, credit cards, cash.
the usual....nothing strange like kates bag....
antiseptic cream and knife?! what do you do hun?
m xx
lol that was den!
I don't take a hand bag when i go out-scared I'll lose it! although that went out the window when my wallet and phone got pinched in bulgaria- i think i would've noticed if I had them in a bag!
My bags are usually covered in some broken make-up, filled with kirby grips, and usually some form of nuts or crumbs that have spilled out the packet into the depths...........
Yeah,the contents of the bag should be enough to keep you going until you get to Edinburgh!!! lol
Den here now, and as Maz said a smoker(loads)!
But i think the smoking ban is a great idea.
People who dont want to breathe in smoke(and its a fact that passive smoking kills)have that choice now.
People who do want to breathe in smoke can go outside and do so.
Therefore everyone has a choice, which is surely right in a democracy!!
Years ago, drink driving was seen as not such a big deal, lots of people done it. Now thats its less socially acceptable there as less people dying as a result of it. The same thing is happening with smoking. Just because i am doing something wrong and dangerous, doesnt mean i should be able to inflict that damage upon people who have no choice in it.
Why is it more acceptable to kill someone slowly with your smoke than to drink drive and kill them instantly?
den x
Quote by Drewxcore
I've been lucky so far....but then again i'm only nearly 19 so im sure ive got alot more to come.
June last year i got hit in the face with a bowling pin. It smashed a few of my teeth out of place, killed one of them and smashed another in two. Oh the joys of the orthadonist, they are fine now.

Lucky so far drew? i read your child hood one- ouch ouch and OUCH!!how the hell did the bowling pin one happen?!Ouch to you too sercher!
I think I'm the same as you TLF (ouch by the way!), not many childhood injuries, but now I'm old and scared, I've had so many gymnastics injuries, mainly from me chickening out half way through a tumble.
My most recent was landing on my head, with one arm behind my back, and hurting my neck during a vaut gone wrong.
Because I couldn't move my head, i couldn't see how swollen my elbow was, which didn't really bother me until i got it checked out 2 days later and turned out it was fractured!
I also have stress fractures in my feet probably from dancing, but they never really bothered me!
I was also out for months last year after a knee cruciate ligament injury sad
Maz xx
One other point (phew! can you tell how much i love smoking yet?!)
I'm not saying that there isn't any reason in the world why someone would want to smoke.
Of course not.
I get that people feel the need to be relaxed by a fag, it calms them down, it can help to destress in a busy day, so like alcohol, perhaps the odd one is ok, but are you as a smoker really happy that it's a habit/ addiction that you don't really have an awful lot of control over?
How many of you automatically light a fag when you buy your pint/make your cup of tea/when eastenders comes on/when you finish your first course/when you're waiting on the bus etc etc? Not because you REALLY need one............
woaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!!
How many of you actually think I was serious when I said that?! (please see my other posts!)
But, can I ask, If you really had the choice, and could stop smoking tomorrow without any issues of addiction etc, would you still continue to smoke? Or if given the choice to go back to the day when you started smoking, would you do so again?
Would you be happy for your young children to start smoking?
I just fail to see the benefit that someone gets from it, apart from it being an addiction that you don't have so much control over????
Did I ever say smokers were'filthy' minx and couplefun? Den is a smoker, so I certainly don't think that. I do however, have relatives who have died of smoking related illnesses, and I have a great aunt who has has bilateral amputations with horrendous infections becuase she has peripheral vascular disease, probably due to her 40/day habit.
I do live in a country that has the correct attitude- in Scotland we are seeing the benefits from smoking ban in public places,so I don;t need to move elsewhere, I am happy with the law as it stands now, although i still think that it would be better if cigarettes had never been brought in in the first place, but that isn't the case so I'm very happy with the new ruling now.
I also agree that drunks, antisocial behaviour etc shouldn't be tolerated, at least something has been done about the antisocial behaviour of smoking.
Den was a 40+ a day smoker, and he stopped, which was made that much easier by the ban.
As soon as we were in Barcelona this week, he started because of everyone smoking around him.
Too hot, thank you! I also agree with your comments :thumbup:
Quote by buckingfabe
I hope that the ban leads to a complete ban on smoking all together, the world would be such a bette place me thinks!!
M xx

Hey good idea Maz and how about we have a world wide ban on drinking too .. eating as well, as both are bad for you. And while we are in a banning mood lets ban wars, intolerance and whinging as well :twisted:
I was waiting for someone to come along and pick me up on that!
It was obviously tongue in cheek (you didn't add in the part where I said 'den will be along to correct me', he is a smoker, so I know how difficult it is for smokers to see the reason behind that and clearly smoking will never be banned in my life time!)
No, drinking and eating are not bad for you if you drink moderatley and have a balanced diet, therefore I have to completely disagree with your argument about banning these too.
Whilst both of these activities can pose health risks, in moderation they are fine, smoking, even in moderation is definately not fine.
I also don't care about the health risks imposed on those that do the smoking, it's when that smoke affects those that choose not to that concerns me.
As a healthcare proffesional, I witness daily the effect that smoking has on peoples health, perhaps if you saw it too, you may think slightly differently.
I agree, drinking may also has a secondary impact on those who choose not to drink, but perhaps smoking more so.....
Dekn tan, I also have to disagree with the point about the government taking control- I wouldn't think for one minute they would want a total ban- think how much money they would be losing out on taxes........
As for freedom of choice, the non smoker has that taken away, at least the smoker can still smoke, just not in the prescence of others who will be affected by it!
still, kisses to all you smokers out there (so long as you brush your teeth first!), and buy yourselves a cosy jacket for outside the pub!! wink :P
ooooooooo send it to me!!!! pleeeeeeeeeeeeease- sounds like just my cup of tea!!!!!!
lol lol
maz xx
I'm so glad we already have the ban in Scotland, it makes all the difference! You feel completely different if you go on a night out now, and implementing the ban doesn't seem to have been an issue here.
We're in barcelona at the moment, and a while ago Den had quit smoking, but as soon as he was in a bar here, he started up again- grrrrrrr!
After being out last night, we both felt horrible this morning because of how smokey the bars had been.
My nose was all bunged up and my clothes and hair stank, so it makes me wonder how anyone has ever been allowed to smoke in public when it makes others feel so minging!
I don't like how many smokers say that a ban takes away their freedom of choice, when smoking in a public place means that a non-smokers freedom of choice is being taken away.
As you can see I don't like smoking much!!!!!
I hope that the ban leads to a complete ban on smoking all together, the world would be such a bette place me thinks!!
(I'm sure den will be along soon to correct me though!)
M xx
Quote by firelizard
Someone do me then??? Oh....erm.....well you know what I meant redface rolleyes

I hope I know what you meant!!!!
When do I get to do you?......
oh, and can we leave the boys at home?! :twisted: lol
Maz xx
ok, no hard feelings arnie, was just at the wind up, as you were earlier with the rugby jibe, have a good night!
Den
ok, now this is not name calling its logic.
If you have the size of an ice hockey player, average about 15 stone, but you have managed to loose(spelling)the muscle, does that just mean your chubby?
Den
ok, so pet names not allowed now, will revert to drew instead of chunky then.
no offence intended, honestly!
drew claimed yesterday he had the build of an ice hockey player. they are chunky. therefore his new name, but if thats a problem!!
Doubt anything i have written is outwith the aup so dont really see where ass kicking would be appropriate?????
oh that! i already told him. i think it suits him.i thought we had moved on from that.
Quote by Drewxcore
whats your point?

Eh? what do you mean whats my point? i was just saying i liked the film?
Did it have to have a point?
Or is it wrong to just post random apparently meaningless nonsense all the time? chunky.