Pay attention!! This is to the idiots that keep sending friends requests (they will just get deleted and it also shows me that you have not read my profile....doh!!). How can you be a friend when we have not met?? lol lol

Please do not contact me if you are aged under 38. Nothing personal, I just find that men under that age do not mentally, physically or emotionally get me.

I may meet, that is of course if I feel it is right for me to meet and he can give me what I want/need. Vanilla is boring......Inspire me :)

NOT interested in married/attached/almost single/or any other form of commitment to another person. I do not deserve to come second best.

Hiya. I am Merry. I am a SSL.....a super sexy lady...and I have belly and stretch marks. I am also a straight fem aged 45. Im 5ft 9" red/brown hair, size 14/16, brown eyes, glasses and freckles over face and shoulders. I am loud, bubbly, outgoing and honest. I speak my mind and say what I think or feel.

I have submissive (Submission not subservient) tendencies (NOT slave).

A person 1st, a woman 2nd and maybe....if you are lucky....sub 3rd.

" if a women is not submissive to a man it is not because she lacks the ability to submit, rather he lacked the ability to create for her a place in her heart and mind to fall to her knees." anonymous