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mistress_sassy
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 47
Straight Male, 56
0 miles · Greater Manchester

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There are so many to choose from, but the highlights would have to be:
My first ever munch/social in Manchester. I was so afraid walking into that room alone and could only stay an hour as I had to go to work, but I had a great time and met people I'm still friends with today.
The crazy halcyon days of the Manchester social's scene, midweek and weekends, attending and later organising, they were some of the best moments of my life. I laughed more then than I ever have, before or since those days!
- Jinty the rug, condoms out of windows and many more memories of the hotel on the corner!
- My first time going back to a room after a social and being showed a crop - and someone breaking it when trying to show how flexible they are!
The Flat - living in Manchester city centre and having all kinds of crazy moments, including a mixed anne summers party and the kitchen photo shoot.
Blue's parties - the warm up games! (and everything else)
Camping - WRAT's camp and later swing camp
Going about my then job as a union official and meeting two people,(both working for the same company and SH members) on a picket line when they were on strike and introducing them, leaving them to ask questions like, "sooo, how do you know Sassy?"
All kinds of crazy moments with friends. Wonderful people who I met here but who are now 'real life' friends who we see away from this scene.
There are so many more wonderful moments - I will save them for my memoirs!lol
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Chief Whip - mistress sassy whip

This sounds like a great job! Right up my street and I've even got my own whips!lol
I'll keep you all in order.:twisted:
Anything creamy and with a kick!
White Russian
vodka and kahlua or tia mia with milk and/or cream
Screaming Orgasm
vodka, baileys and tia maria/kahlua (amaretto which is optional) with cream and/or milk
You can also add Frangelico and creme de cocao to the above to give it a chocolaty taste.
Toblerone
Baileys, Kahlua/tia maria, frangelico, cream and honey (again vodka and creme de cocao can be added to this also.)
I also love black russians (vodka, kahlua/tia maria & coke) and a simple amaretto & coke.
Well they certainly haven't done as well as expected in their key areas! lol
In Stoke-on-Trent central where they were standing their deputy leader they have only increased their vote by 324 or around 0.1% and in Stoke South by 457 or 0.4%
In Barking where Griffin was standing the percentage voting BNP has actually gone down by 1.7%.
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The demise of the unions perhaps?

Union membership fell steadily from the heyday of the later 70's and stabilised at it's current figure some years ago. It has since then gone up and down, but not to any significant degree.
I believe that the fall in membership last year can be attributed to one principal reason, the number of jobs that were lost in tradition (unionised) industries due to redundancies and workplace closures as a result of the economic recession.
The trade union organising agenda is alive and well in many unions, meaning that efforts are concentrated on growing the union, both in terms of membership but also in terms of influence and organisation. This shift in focus to the 'organising' approach over the past ten or so years is actually one of the primary reasons that membership figures stabilised.
The continued concentration on this agenda means that in the long term union membership will grow again, however external influences will always make a difference, such as a recession, which may cause fluxes in the trend.
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Think I have more than answered your question.
I think Griffin was arrested and faced I think two trials, but as far as I know he was never found guilty.
Will wait and see if any MP's are found guilty of theft or fraud over their expenses.

It was his statements denying the Holocaust in The Rune that led to Griffin's conviction in 1998 of distributing material likely to incite racial hatred. He was given a nine-month prison sentence suspended for two years.
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Yes fair points Sassy but...
Out of nearly a million people who voted for them last year, surely a few incidents does not make them all thugs?
As I have proved and there is plenty of other evidence out there, it is not only the BNP who can be violent., or issue threats.
It was only recently that a group were banned as an organisation for their violent views.
I am in no way condoning any BNP member who resorts to this kind of act, there is no excuse whatsoever, but sometimes the media hype surrounding them makes them out to be the only ones who act this way.
Feelings are running high in many areas and anti campaigning surely is a dangerous thing to do?
Once again I make no excuses for any person who resorts to violence in the manner which has been mentioned here.

I think the vast majority who voted BNP are not thugs, they are not fascists and many will not even be racist. They vote BNP as a protest to the mainstream parties or based upon single issues such as local housing, jobs or immigration.
I would even go as far as to say, that in my opinion and experience many of the members/supporters are not these things either, but there is a hard core centre that is based on hatred, fascist beliefs and threats, bullying and intimidation.
As I have already said previously, I hear and see far more instances of violence and threats from BNP supporters than from those from other parties. I am not saying it doesn't happen elsewhere, but in comparative terms there are a higher proportion of instances of BNP attacks particularly highlighted when comparing the size of their party to the mainstream ones.
Anti campaigning may be dangerous thing, but ask yourself why? If I were campaigning against the Tories or Labour would that be a dangerous thing to do? Would I really face the attacks and abuse that I already have? It's only dangerous because of who I am campaigning against.
Also, it is my democratic right to campaign for and/or against any party I choose. Why should I not do so? Feeling may be running high, but since when should that matter? Surely if the BNP were the respectable party they like to portray themselves as they would debate those who stand against them rather than attack.
True there is no excuse, however as someone who works in 'politics'(and not for a political party!) I can tell you that it is far more common from BNP members/supporters. I literally hear about cases at least once a week and in times like now (elections/campaign periods) far more regularly.
We're also not talking about just threats but actual attacks. I am one of the many thousands who have volunteered my time to do anti BNP campaign stuff during this election and so far when I have been out campaigning this year I have been followed, had someone try to rip my car number plates off, abuse shouted at me and I have been surrounded by a group of men acting in an intimidating manner asking 'what I was up to'. Previously, my picture has been taken and put on websites and I am just a normal person campaigning along with thousands of others right across the UK. I am one of the lucky ones, I haven't been attacked or like a couple of people I know, my name, address and job details put up on websites for people to target me.
Also it depends on the nature of the threat. A local resident telling Labour to sod off and making some sort of threat is very different to being grabbed and pinned against a wall and told that you and family will have your throats cut if you persist in running your campaign in 'their' town. Maybe I will 'google it' to find out, but I have not heard of other political parties supporters doing things like that.
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But of course as it was " apparently " a BNP thug who shouted it out, she had to post it.
Newspaper links eh Kaz? You seem to believe them when it suits!

It was not "apparently" a BNP thug, it was definitely one. I know the person who was
attacked, he is lovely guy and wouldn't (and didn't) provoke an attack.
What the article reported is true, during the assault, the attacker shouted pro-BNP slogans and as the person who was attacked is a rather high profile anti BNP campaigner it doesn't take a genius to figure out that the two are related.
Another campaigner was attached in Croyden a few weeks ago and told their throat would be cut if they did any anti-BNP work there. The same attacker (a well known local BNP member) has just been found guilty of assaulting people who were campaigning in last years elections.
Google all you want, but I know people who have been attacked. For exercising their right to campaign against something they don't believe in. The last time I checked, that was called democracy and it's obviously something the the BNP don't believe in. You only have to look at the blog of their deputy leader to see him ranting about the campaign against them and how they are unregulated and would be outlawed under the BNP.
Firstly, they are regulated and registered as a 3rd party organisation for campaigning in election purposes and as such limited to amounts that can be spent etc. and secondly what are the BNP afraid of? If you are so confident of your convictions stand by them and answer those who speak against you with debate and argument and not with your fists, threats and bans.
Insanity by Oceanic. Great dance track and a biggie from my days of working in a nightclub, which were some of the best times I have ever had.
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I am a convert. It hurts less than waxing and in the long run is cheaper! The bikini area alone (all hair off like a hollywood wax) is only £455 for a course of six treatments. (£765 for both bikini and underarms). You may then need the odd treatment, maybe only or twice a year (if at all), only if any dormant hairs grow back, which are around £60 a time. Now it sounds a lot in one go, but compare it to waxing at £25-40 a time, which needs to be done every 4-6 weeks, it pays for itself within a year or so.

Id be really interested to know how it looks and feels in a couple of monthts and a year or so. How many extra treatments you might have had etc. I'm considering it as mine are so sparce now after years of regular waxing that it would be great to be done with it alltogether. But it is a lot to shell out. Would you perhaps post a thead later in the year?
I am having 6 treatments roughly 6-8 weeks apart, so will keep you updated and let you know what it feels like after a year or so, but so far so good. Oh and you can shave or use cream to get rid of any hair that grows in between treatments (but not wax) as the hair only has to be a 1mm or 2mm for the laser to work.
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i can't help but think that a few decades ago the idea of being bi was most unheard of. people had 3somes or moresomes.
so i think that now people see bi people as the people who are going to fulfill the fantasy of a good old fashioned 3some.
which introduces another layer of obstacles and successes. so one wonders if an encounter as a 3some is remarkably different to 2 plus a bi?

I disagree. You may be correct in swinging terms but not in regards to wider society.
There have always been women who like women, men who like men and those who like the opposite gender (just not the labels Lesbian, Gay and Straight. So too, there have been people who are attracted to both the same and the opposite sex. Again long before the label bisexual appeared.
I have threesomes, foursomes and moresomes with people of the same and opposite gender because I am a swinger. I am a sexual being and I enjoy it. I also happen to be bisexual.
I would be bisexual if I never had a threesome, as that is not what being bisexual is about. Sexuality, no more and no less, is about attraction. I am attracted to both the same and the opposite gender, ergo I am bisexual. Because I am swinger I like them both together. Not all bisexuals do. In fact many, if not most, do not and would be extremely offended by any assertion that they do.
In my experience, as an out bisexual woman, we are simply people who are attracted in some capacity to both genders, but generally are with one gender at a time. I dated and had sex with both men and women separately long before I ever thought if putting them all together. If I never swing or have sex with a woman again, I will still be bisexual.
Is a threesome different from two people plus a bisexul? Depends on the situation and people. If everyone in the threesome is straight, or it's a bisexual woman and 2 straight men or vice versa then yes, that would be a vastly different experience to a meet including a bisexual person, as it may include same sex play.
Well said that woman!lol
That is exactly how it went down, as while I wasn't there (I was working on both occasions, or I would have been otherwise) I know easily 50 people or more who were at each of them and thats exactly how they report it too.
The more recent one in Dudley went without a hitch at all, well from anti-fascist protesters anyway. It is the EDL who have been condemned for their behaviour on that one, while UAF were commended by local officials. Did this make the news in anywhere near the same capacity - did it hell. rolleyes
Oh and before it's said - no I am not in UAF.:lol:
First laser treatment (of six) is done and I can honestly say that it hardly hurts at all, just the odd sensitive bit, but once they move on to another area any pain goes.
They use a cold air jet at the same time as the laser to cool the skin as they go and the best way to describe the sensation of the laser is like tiny little needles prickling the skin or like plucking hairs. It is no where near as painful as waxing!
It's really quick, they did full bikini area and underarms in about 15 mins at the most and the best bit, it doesn't hurt afterwards at all. I have really sensitive skin and normally am red and bumpy for days - not after this!
I am a convert. It hurts less than waxing and in the long run is cheaper! The bikini area alone (all hair off like a hollywood wax) is only £455 for a course of six treatments. (£765 for both bikini and underarms). You may then need the odd treatment, maybe only or twice a year (if at all), only if any dormant hairs grow back, which are around £60 a time. Now it sounds a lot in one go, but compare it to waxing at £25-40 a time, which needs to be done every 4-6 weeks, it pays for itself within a year or so.
Just to throw some further confusion into the mix.... lol
For me, sexuality is about actual attraction and not just the sexual act.
I have been an 'out' bisexual woman since I was 18, but I didn't have sex with a woman until I was 20. I had met lots on the gay scene, kissed in night clubs and even went on the odd date, but never sex. I was still bisexual, even tho I wasn't having sex with women.
I am now married (to a man) and what I like is that those who haven't seen me in a while have to ask if it's to a man or a woman. I am still bisexual, even if we were monogamous and I never have sex with a woman again, I would still be bisexual and still say I am bisexual, as the attraction doesn't go away, you just no longer act upon it.
In the same way there have been lesbian nuns and gay priests for example - who have never have acted upon those feeling, but they are there and therefore they are still gay/lesbian or bi.
Well tonight's the night! Had the consultation for laser yesterday and the first treatment is tonight.:eeek: I am somewhat nervous, but the nurse assures me that if the pain is too much there is a numbing gel that can be used. Now - why don't they use that for waxing!
I struggle with this too, so far everyone's hands have been too big.
Funnily enough tho, although I know how to do it, I've never actually done it to someone else, which just might work as I have the smallest hands of anyone (adult) that Ive ever met!lol
I take both paracetemol and/or ibuprofen a little bit before, just to help with any pain. That said, it really only hurts at that second and not really afterwards at all, or at least thats what I find, but maybe that's the painkillers kicking in!lol
I am going on Monday for a consultation and skin patch for laser hair removal as I have had enough of waxing, can't wait to see how much that's going to hurt!:shock:
NWC Thanks for organising another great night kiss and for the compliments, althought it's getting ever harder to suprise you with my costumes I shall prevail! lol
Great to catch up with people and special thanks to my munch buddies for the laughs and giggles. :lol:
I was sure I had put us down for this, but I am too lazy to trawl back through all the posts.lol
So can I ask (again?) if we can come too please?:lol:
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Unfortunately Kenty you will always get groups of people who have identified themselves as victims, they have taken on board that mentality and are frantically reading through any strong or controversial debate looking for anything they might be able to find offensive. It is all to do with political correctness, the empowering of the weak, and the stifling of any opposition to the liberal agenda.
People are dragging us back into the dark ages, there is no need for bleeding hearts in a country where those who might have been persecuted in the past are protected by laws that seem to make them more important and protected than those of us so often described as ordinary.
So I can be described as an ignorant knuckle dragger, just as long as I can be appropriately censored, I won't complain because I'm used to it. My usual reaction is to simply point and laugh, which is one surefire way of infuriating an idiot.
We are heading for some very interesting times, some of us are more ready than others. One thing I am certain of, censorship never won an argument and it never will.
BG.

Censorship can take more than one form, including shouting loudest and longest so that no one else can be heard.lol
I am sure that there are many who would comment on this thread but don't want to get dragged into the undercurrent. I am more than capable of holding my own in any political arena but even I feel like I need a life vest before wading in here! So... with life vest firmly on, toggles tied and whistle and light tested..... wink
I think it is somewhat offensive to describe those who don't agree with your views as "identifying themsleves as victims ... looking for anything they might find offensive."
I have never been a victim and certainly have better things to do with my time than to trawl forums frantically searching for things to take exception to. Either we have two (or more) sided sensible and constructive debate or we don't. Just because I or others may not agree with your opinion, why does that suddenly become some sort of liberal left censorship conspiracy. Come on, seriously? That is just ridiculous. About as ridculous as me bleating on about a right wing conspiracy.
I rarely post in this forum, just lurk and watch :lol: even though I am extremenly passionate about politics and most definately have a strong view on pretty much everything, as I feel too often rather than engaging with the discourse and argumemts it descends into labelling and name calling.
I am not ashamed of my political convictions and I am more than happy to argue them constructively. I don't need to be dismissed as a bleeding heart or loony lefty, quite frankly that's your opinion and while your entitled to it, do you really need to point it out as an answer to dismissing my point of view? I might think your politics crazy but I wouldn't go round calling you a 'right wing scumbag'. :lol: I would debate you, challenging your ideas and in my opinion, your misconceptions. :wink:
I know I am lefty liberal, I am proud of it and stand by my political convictions. I don't need it pointing out or used to simply dismiss my views.
So, lets get the discussion back to the subject matter at hand and let the strength of our arguments do the point scoring!
Freedom of speech is a right, but with these rights come responsibility not to oppress others. You may find two men kissing not to your personal taste but as long as you are not declaring that they can't do it or treating them differently for doing it then it's simply about your personal taste. I am sure there are many gay men who find a man and women kissing to be not to their taste too.
Homophobia does still exist. We still live in a society where people are attacked and even murdered because someone does not like their sexuality. This is fundamentaly wrong and a damning inditement on the society that we live in.
I believe that issues such as gender, race and sexuality should be covered in schools and from an early age which will help to combat the prejudices of society that children are exposed to as they get older. Very young children don't 'see' the colour of someones skin, their gender etc, they simply see people, their friends. It is society, parents, family influences etc that begin to breed into them hatred and intolerence.
Yes previous generations may be less accepting of homosexuality, but ones before that thought that black people should walk on the other side of the road, that women should be seen and not heard, that only the rich should vote and that that the world was flat and the wheel and fire were the epitomy of modern technology! Times change and society moves on. Gone are the days when a black person has to give up their seat to a white person on a bus. We even a black man as president of the USA. Somethings that was completely unimaginable only a generation ago.
By educating people we can change society, creating a more tolerant and accepting culture and ensuring that in future generations people are free to be who they are without fear or oppression.
I normally avoid this whole forum to avoid rowing about politics, but what the hell.lol
Not speaking especially about the postal workers, but more generally, anyone who thinks that in this day and age that a decision to stike is taken easily, has, in my opinion no idea of the process for taking action and the thoughts and feelings of the workers involved.
First of all, unions are not an organisation with a guy at the top throwing his toys out of the pram and making a decision to strike. The decision is taken by the ordinary working men and women in a democratic vote. The process of balloting and organising a strike is in fact extremely complex and takes weeks, during which you are still trying to sort out the issue with management and come to an agreement.
Strike action is always a last resort. No one wants to lose pay, especially in the current economic climate, but sometimes it simply gets to the point where you have to take a stand. Either roll over and let your management walk all over you, or take action to improve your working life. Once talks are exhausted and no movement is forthcoming, working people have nothing else to bargain with, than their labour power.
Posties, BA workers, IT workers (who are also currently balloting for strike action) and the many others who take some form of strike action every year, are just normal men and women like you and me. They are worried about their jobs, homes, families and so on and many are fearful of taking action, have never done it before etc but have come to the point where they feel it is the only choice they now have. We should all ask ourselves what our limits are and how much we would take before we vilify those who are just the same as us, standing up for themselves.
cool Sitting back and waiting for the blast to hit! :lol: