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mistress_sassy
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 47
Straight Male, 56
0 miles · Greater Manchester
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I am not bothered either way, shaven (waxed) or trimmed, either is fine. Personally I tend to do whichever I can be bothered with/feel like doing at the time.
What I cannot abide is stubble. I find it itchy and irritating so I can't shave, only wax and it also prickles your bum when your cuddled up to someone who has stubble! (He has been instructed to shave it again to avoid said pricking instances happening again.)
What I cannot abide is stubble. I find it itchy and irritating so I can't shave, only wax and it also prickles your bum when your cuddled up to someone who has stubble! (He has been instructed to shave it again to avoid said pricking instances happening again.
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Quote by midsprincess
I got up an hour early and watched Strictly come dancing on fast forward with my daughters boyfriend who couldnt stop laughing as i kept getting the fast forward bit wrong and spent most of the hour going forwards and backeards coz i only wanted to see the dancing bits
I am soo glad it's not only me who can't get the fast forward right! I always miss the start and have to rewind back and end up watching half the ads anyway.
I went to bed later than usual, so spent the extra hour sleeping. I am so boring.
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Anne Summer's do a small silver bullet, similar to the one that goes in a rock chick. It is the best toy I have ever had, all my friends have one now too and a steal at only £10!
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I am very political, work in a political arena and involved on various campaigns in my spare time too. I always thought I would end up with someone as passionate about it all as I am, but funnily enough that didn't happen!
He isn't really bothered at all about politics and often switches off when me and my mates start putting the world to right. That said, he has many of the same values and is used to being dragged along to help me when needed. I did get him used to it early on tho, the third weekend we spent together, I made him get up and attend the may day march in Manchester and carry the banner with some striking workers.
Maybe it sounds shallow and pretentious, but I could not be with someone who was too far away from me politically. I would find their views repugnant and politics/campaigning has been such a big part of my life.
He isn't really bothered at all about politics and often switches off when me and my mates start putting the world to right. That said, he has many of the same values and is used to being dragged along to help me when needed. I did get him used to it early on tho, the third weekend we spent together, I made him get up and attend the may day march in Manchester and carry the banner with some striking workers.
Maybe it sounds shallow and pretentious, but I could not be with someone who was too far away from me politically. I would find their views repugnant and politics/campaigning has been such a big part of my life.
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Quote by poshkate
I've always thought that you're most likely to find love when you're not looking for it.
I think that's the reason for people finding each other on here.
:thumbup: I was happily swingle, having lots of fun and had made some amazing friends.
Literally the night before I met Duracel, I was with some of these friends (naked happy feet... oh the memories!
) and we were talking about the future. The four of them (two couples) had met via swinging. I was absolutely insistent that love was great but not for me. The next evening at a party (advertised on here) that I wasn't sure about going too as I wasn't feeling great, I met him. I invited him back to mine and I've never got rid of him.:lol: We got married in October and have a whole group of amazing friends, many of whom met here while not looking for anything.
Do not seek and you shall find!
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Have fun! We're already engaged elsewhere otherwise might have been tempted to pop along.
We're already engaged elsewhere otherwise might have been tempted to pop along. Sex God
Hidden platformed shoes and gel insoles are the way forward boys. Looking forward to watching the tottering.:lol:
Looking forward to watching the tottering.:lol: Sex God
Quote by noladreams
I do two dance classes a week. Latin/ballroom and salsa. Great fun, great workout and sexy, well in my opinion anyway.
You are brave. I really want to do a dance class but keep bottling it as I would be on my own.
I'll take you. It's not hard, everyone is friendly and it's so much fun.
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I do two dance classes a week. Latin/ballroom and salsa. Great fun, great workout and sexy, well in my opinion anyway.
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Anyone who thinks that Europe is a pointless waste of money and other resources needs to actually understand what we have benefited from it.
Firstly on an economic front, the EU is the largest single market and British businesses take full advantage of it, with over half of our trade coming from Europe and millions of jobs depending on this.
Secondly, being part of Europe has also meant the introduction of measures including: paid holidays; a right to parental leave; extended maternity leave; the right to request flexible working and the same protection for part-time workers as full-time workers as well as the working time directive, ensuring breaks and maximimum working hours.
Firstly on an economic front, the EU is the largest single market and British businesses take full advantage of it, with over half of our trade coming from Europe and millions of jobs depending on this.
Secondly, being part of Europe has also meant the introduction of measures including: paid holidays; a right to parental leave; extended maternity leave; the right to request flexible working and the same protection for part-time workers as full-time workers as well as the working time directive, ensuring breaks and maximimum working hours.
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Bump!
You should be back now, so welcome home.:D
Now get this meet up sorted!
You should be back now, so welcome home.:D
Now get this meet up sorted!
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Next I see you I'll bring you some latin music on cd, I've got several cd's as I do latin dance.
Good merengue songs? Who by? Any recommendations? I listen to an online Latin music radio, but it is just tracks, no details.
Quote by noladreams
the cure, any good merengue song, skunk anansie, most classics from the 80's, lou reed (walk on the wild side, good for walking AND for the bedroom;) although there you might not want to use your ipod), anything light, with a decent rythm and that has a general feelgood vibe should do the trick
but if you plan to walk around town like this do call..because I want to see it :giggle:
Good merengue songs? Who by? Any recommendations? I listen to an online Latin music radio, but it is just tracks, no details.
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Advising employees, negotiating with employers and indepth employement law knowledge is my job so I thoguht I would add some further information to what has already been said.
First of all, just a slight correction to something that has been said earlier; you have the right to 'request' flexible working and not the right to flexible working.
Your employer has a duty to seriously consider your request and give a decision based on business grounds and not an individuals circumstances. An employer can say no and if they state a sound business reason for doing so, there is little that you can do about it. You can appeal but in my experience this more often than not does not change the initial decision, as under law 'you have no right to make a complaint where you simply disagree with the business grounds provided for declining your request.'
If an employer does refuse your request they must do so in writing, giving you the reason for it. It must be for one of 8 business reasons set out in law and must explain why that reason applies. The reasons that can be use are:
burden of additional costs
detrimental effect on ability to meet customer demand
inability to reorganise work among existing staff
inability to recruit additional staff
detrimental impact on quality
detrimental impact on performance
insufficiency of work during the periods the employee proposes to work
planned structural changes
I'm afraid that the law is most definately not on the side of working parents on this one.
You can get further advice from ACAS, but in terms of what to do at the meeting, I would contact your union if you have one on site. If you are a member and they can accompany you to a meeting you are probably more likely to succeed in your request, as in my experience when there are already negotiation and discussion channels open it works better and can bring a little pressure onto an employer who might otherwise say no.
If you do not have or are not a member of the union it will be more difficult for you as you will have to go in and argue your own case. Depending on how hostile your employer is, you may need to formalise your request under the statutory guidelines. Information on how to do this (you need to put it in writing and include certain information) can be found on both the and acas websites.
With regards to the meeting itself, it is helpful if you prepare your case in advance, including what the benefits to the business might be and what effect any changes will have on your job. You should try to show that your plans would not harm the business and may in fact enhance it and of course always make sure you take someone into any meeting you have and that you take notes.
If your employer is not saying no but requesting you work an alternative to your suggestion then you will need to consider this and see if there is some middle position that you can come to with them, so that you both are happy with the outcome.
In terms of the changes mentioned earlier that are happening from 6th April, these will not make a difference to your situation. All they do is change the age that your child/ren have to be to make the request, so all parents of children 16 and under now have the right to make the request.
Hope this helps and sorry it's not more favourable to you, but this is a particular bit of law that really doesn't help working parents. Good employers already consider requests and those that don't want to allow it will just find a business reason not to, the legal obligation for them to 'consider' in fact means very little in practice.
First of all, just a slight correction to something that has been said earlier; you have the right to 'request' flexible working and not the right to flexible working.
Your employer has a duty to seriously consider your request and give a decision based on business grounds and not an individuals circumstances. An employer can say no and if they state a sound business reason for doing so, there is little that you can do about it. You can appeal but in my experience this more often than not does not change the initial decision, as under law 'you have no right to make a complaint where you simply disagree with the business grounds provided for declining your request.'
If an employer does refuse your request they must do so in writing, giving you the reason for it. It must be for one of 8 business reasons set out in law and must explain why that reason applies. The reasons that can be use are:
burden of additional costs
detrimental effect on ability to meet customer demand
inability to reorganise work among existing staff
inability to recruit additional staff
detrimental impact on quality
detrimental impact on performance
insufficiency of work during the periods the employee proposes to work
planned structural changes
I'm afraid that the law is most definately not on the side of working parents on this one.
You can get further advice from ACAS, but in terms of what to do at the meeting, I would contact your union if you have one on site. If you are a member and they can accompany you to a meeting you are probably more likely to succeed in your request, as in my experience when there are already negotiation and discussion channels open it works better and can bring a little pressure onto an employer who might otherwise say no.
If you do not have or are not a member of the union it will be more difficult for you as you will have to go in and argue your own case. Depending on how hostile your employer is, you may need to formalise your request under the statutory guidelines. Information on how to do this (you need to put it in writing and include certain information) can be found on both the and acas websites.
With regards to the meeting itself, it is helpful if you prepare your case in advance, including what the benefits to the business might be and what effect any changes will have on your job. You should try to show that your plans would not harm the business and may in fact enhance it and of course always make sure you take someone into any meeting you have and that you take notes.
If your employer is not saying no but requesting you work an alternative to your suggestion then you will need to consider this and see if there is some middle position that you can come to with them, so that you both are happy with the outcome.
In terms of the changes mentioned earlier that are happening from 6th April, these will not make a difference to your situation. All they do is change the age that your child/ren have to be to make the request, so all parents of children 16 and under now have the right to make the request.
Hope this helps and sorry it's not more favourable to you, but this is a particular bit of law that really doesn't help working parents. Good employers already consider requests and those that don't want to allow it will just find a business reason not to, the legal obligation for them to 'consider' in fact means very little in practice.
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Quote by BIoke
Clare from Steps has just brought out a fitness DVD/CD from when she left steps, went up to fifteen stone and how, by dancing to her music is now back down to a size 10... I wanted to put it in the trolley the other night at Tesco's but was told in no uncertain terms it was 'too gay'
I like Steps.. great to walk/run to.. and Kylie and Girls Aloud too
Hmmm I now hatching a plan to steal your ipod!
I have a whole gym playlist on my ipod, which consists of dance and singalong pop and most of the dirty dancing sound track.
You could try some classical stuff as well, if it's your thing. I have lots of that as well. It's great for the clearing your mind, total relaxation, in need of inspiration and time out kind of walks.
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Quote by meat2pleaseu
I'm now grinning at the thought of you two jogging :mrgreen:
Not for any kind of boobs bouncing sexual reason I'm sure, but more out of amusement!
My problem with running (other than slipping knickers!) - I am more interested in the rather fit, toned ladies with their mighty fine arses in front of me and the perkily bouncing boobs heading towards me than I am on where I'm going. One of these days I am so going to go arse over tit.
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Well I could do that but in a numpty moment i threw the moulds away as I thought I wouldn't need them. So would have to get the mould done again, which I can't bear, that horrid cold putty in the mouth was too much even once. Eeew.
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Ooo now I hadn't thought about looking at the knickers, but I so need some for running and I had no idea you could get them. I thought it was just me that had issues with knickers sliding as I was jogging!
I had thought about not wearing any but I always remember cautions from my mother about clean and matching undies - just in case you ever end up in hospital.
I had thought about not wearing any but I always remember cautions from my mother about clean and matching undies - just in case you ever end up in hospital.
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Wow, not done this for a while but got 10/10. Have to admit some were lucky guesses but will have to do this more often.
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I have. Didn't have the laser treatment but have had the trays (a mould is made from an impression of your teeth so that it fits excactly and you wear them with a bleaching gel in)
It worked really well but it was fairly expensive at nearly £200 and it can be a little bad pain, just twinges like when you eat something really cold.
This was a few years ago now and it does fade, although mine are still white they are not as good as they were, it's all the coffeee that I drink! I saw an advert for an offer on laser whitening the other day for only £99 so I am considering that as a top up.
It worked really well but it was fairly expensive at nearly £200 and it can be a little bad pain, just twinges like when you eat something really cold.
This was a few years ago now and it does fade, although mine are still white they are not as good as they were, it's all the coffeee that I drink! I saw an advert for an offer on laser whitening the other day for only £99 so I am considering that as a top up.
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Try lessbounce, they stock loads of different brands of sports bra's, including 'shockabsorber' which I have always found to be the best. I find that the racer back ones are the best as the straps don't fall down your shoulders.
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Thanks for a great night, great to catch up with people. You can confirm us for December too, I'm planning the outfit already!
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Hey you two, would be great to see you both. Just let us know where and when and we'll try and make it along.
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Quote by Bonedigger
good lord above
anyone should know its brown all the way on sausages, bacon, bacon AND sausage or even bacon sausage AND a nice runny yolked egg.
Tommy sauce is only for chips....
Well said! I couldn't agree more.
Brown sauce is for breakfast food and occassionally for sausage, mash and gravy to give it a bit extra.
Red is most definately for chips, usually with fish and for burgers and hot dogs.
