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mistress_sassy
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 47
Straight Male, 56
0 miles · Greater Manchester

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Reminds me of a recent gathering of swingers I was at, innocent jim jams and cups of tea and gossip and that was at a weekend. lol
We have occasionally done stuff on a school night, but it all seems like way too much of an effort when we've worked all day, have to walk to dogs, make dinner do any extra work I've brought home etc. I'm lucky if I even get to watch a film or read a good book, which if I'm completely honest I would sometimes prefer to sex.
I also don't think I could be bothered with the prettifying process that goes with a meet or club visit (Well for me anyway) and then having a late night. I am obviously getting old, hmmm or lazy!redface
That is obviously where I am going wrong too!:lol: New years resolution.... must make more of an effort!biggrin
I think its got to be Manchester too. (But then I am baised!lol) It's not just the variety and number of clubs but the general attitude of the place, I find it very open, easy going and anything goes. No one is ever shocked when I tell them how me and him met and that we're still swingers.
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Try visiting us in forum chat on server 1 now... Relatively slow and we are all friendly and will talk lol

I used to live in the chatroom (back when there was just one lol) and don't spend much time in them know as they scare me and I don't know as many people but everyone is right, you do need to persevere and just join in.
I can definately recommend the above chatroom - I will definately be back in there. A fun and gentle re-introduction!biggrin
I love Dancing on Ice, thank goodness the sky+ is working again!biggrin
I think that Ray will do well, remembering his cheesy big band style and dancing from X Factor.
I love holidays! I already have planned Florida in April for two weeks and Ibiza in July for a week. I'm also considering a transatlantic cruise to New York for our anniversary in October.

Thanks DG. Kind of got it but can't make it bigger. This is old one but similar-ish. Will try create a new one when he's home from work.
Uodate: Found some nights, including one othat's on this Friday in Manchester. PM on it's way to you.
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hello there,only my 2nd post on here so carnt say im a regular.
but i was just thinking wouldnt mind a night out with a diffrence.
which brings me to my question.
has any one been on a burlesque night any were?
if so were was it,im looking for a club or venue in the northwest to suprise my wife,over the holiday period.
any leads would be greatfull.
thanks.

I am sure Maz or Mistress Sassy will be along very shortly to help you if they see this biggrin
Am interested myself as I would love to go and watch and am also thinking of taking it up myself.
Oh my goodness, my ears must have been burning! lol
Slippery Belle, Burlesque!, Whigwham club or Carnival Divine are all Manchester based, but some do night's elsewhere incuding Chester, Liverpool and Leeds. A general search under burlesque and Manchester will also bring you results. All of the above are a good night out and a great excuse to dress up and be glam for an evening.
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i need help...

I could have told you that years ago biggrin Just a bit suprised it has taken you so long to realise it lol
:shock: :shock: Just what are you trying to say? And i thought you luffs me.... :upset: :upset:
And your first in line for me cane BTW smackbottom :smackbottom: :evil2:
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: Can't imagine you caning anyone Mollers.
Oh and BTW - your first in line for mine! :twisted: :twisted: wink
Congratulations to you both!:bounce:
Easy, how can you text me and then forget to mention this. Useless man!rolleyes
Mine will be another Sassy original! lol I have a reputation from Wigan Munches past to maintain. :giggle:
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We'll be there.biggrin
phew thank god :shock:Double phew worship
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: Calm down girls! Of course we  were going to be there, I was just late as usual!lol That said, I am scarily organised with the outfit! I actually know what I am wearing and have it already this far ahead.:shock:
Jo and Red, thanks for organising a great night. Nice to catch up with people and meet some new ones too.
You can get them done for as little as £15 depending on the wax that is used and the way it is done.
Hollywood always costs more as it takes longer and does the more delicate areas, lips and underneath as well as everything from on top. It's a good idea to decide what you want so you can tell the therapist. Sometimes you have to specify that you want the lips and underneath doing.
The most common way of doing it is the same as any other waxing, with the warm wax applied to the skin and then whipped off. It hurts, but not for long, it's a quick owww and then it subsides. This way is also quick.
Some salons use a hot wax technique, which costs more and takes twice as long. The hot wax is applied to the skin and left to set, in theory pulling at the hair as it does so to loosen it. It is then picked at the edges to get a hold and then pulled off directly, no paper involved. This technique, in theory, hurts less, but to be honest it just prolongs the whole thing as it takes so much longer and the picking it and waiting for it to be pulled off is far worse than it just being whipped off.
The other way is similar to the first, but the wax is ready done in a roll on appplicator bottle and kept hot in unit so it ready to use. It is applied to the skin directly from the bottle, without the spatula etc, and then taken off in the usual way with the strips.
I have had all of them done and don't think any are worse than the other. I would go for the quicker the better. If you have sensitive skin I would have it done at least a couple of days before you want to play as your skin will be tender and it does tend to leave you looking like a plucked chicken until it settles down. Don't get hot water on it or use anything the first day, but the next day you can, although beware over perfumed shower products! Aloe vera works really well. Having it done regularly does make the hair grow back sparser, so it gets easier over time. If you're worried about the pain, you could always take paracetemol/ibuprofen beforehand.
Thanks Sarah kiss Nice to be back.
Sounds like you're in for a good weekend then Mrs NWC! lol He won't speak to me again! :lol:
Mollers - were you trembling? Just a bit? That was the mild stuff, I'd save much better for you! :twisted:
You can make him wander around naked except for a pair of your knickers on or an apron, and tell him he will be punished if he gets excited. Under no circumstances let him cum until you tell him he can, but do make him pleasure you in whatever way you want when you demand it. Don't let him use his hands, tie them up so he is restricted.
Get him to do simple household tasks, washing up or vacuuming but find fault and get him to do it again. He then should be 'punished' for his laxness, maybe by a light spanking or by having to please you somemore.
Obviously, make him worship you, lick your boots/shoes, follow you round head bowed five steps behind, or on his knees if you prefer. If you're eating, get him to feed you, but don't allow him to eat, then make him eat sat on the floor.
You could make him read to you, tell you stories, fan you if it's hot, make him sit at your feet not next to you and make him be your drink/ashtray holder or your foot stool. You could tie him up and make him watch while you play or while you take a shower, or you could make him pamper you, washing your hair etc and giving you a massgae afterwards. Bearing in mind he should not be allowed to get excited or he risks further 'punishment'. biggrin
Tying him up and practicing orgasm control can be fun too, just keep bringing him to the brink then stopping before finally allowing him to cum (maybe with you holding him down?)
Just a few ideas. This is all fairly mild, but fun. It depends on how comfortable you both are, what you want to get out of it and how far you are willing to go, i.e. do you want to include any element of pain/punishment or serious humiliation?Whatever you do, have fun! lol
You can always stay with us, You don't know us well but Earthy does. We'll be driving from Manchester.