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mistress_sassy
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 47
Straight Male, 55
0 miles · Greater Manchester

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Just found out today that I am working in Scotland on Monday, so will be staying over in either Glasgow or Edinburgh (not decided which yet! lol) on Monday night, so if anyone that knows me fancies meeting up for dinner and/or drinkies then drop me a line.
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Due to the obvious abuse to the online organiser, I'm afraid Mistress_Sassy-ass will be banned from this event. I apologise to all those that were looking forward to seeing her....................................... Sorry MikeC.
:P :P :P :P :P :giggle:
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Oh and t' list's been updated. ;)

Easy, you wouldn't dare! :lol:
Widey, your a git! :lol:
Sure Easy will get round to updating the list soon! lol
Pah, you just can't get the subs these days! :giggle: :giggle:
Easy, are you following me, how did you know I'd be confirming today.... :giggle:
Confirming btw, but in a panic as still no outfit! :shock:
For many women their status still does go by the male, in most cultures for example, a large part of marriage, is being "given away" from one man - your father, to another man your husband. Now I am not anti marriage, but if I ever do go get there, I will not be given away and I certainly won't be using the word "obey" :giggle: :giggle:
The reason for International Women's Day, was originally about demands for women's rights and now serves as a celebration of where we are, a remberence of where we've been and a reminder of how far we still have to go.
One glaring example - Equal Pay. Despite having equal pay legislation for over 30 years, women still earn on average 17% less than men. If you look at part time workers, then that more than doubles to 38%, and indeed gender pay gaps are prevailent at all ages and job levels. A recent study showed that a 16 year old girl on average earns 16% of what her make counterpart does, and if you average out what this gender pay gap means over a lifetime, then for your average 'mid-skilled level' woman, can potentially earn up to a quarter of a million pounds less than that of a man in the same bracket.
Who says, we still don't have a way to go!
Anyway, enough! I'll get of my soap box! lol
Well Essex, You are coming, as I am telling you too! Simple! lol
Now I can either beat you into submission or withhold beating you into submission.... whichever works! :twisted: :giggle: :giggle:
Okay, okay, I'll even give you a hug and let you call me fluffy! :shock: wink
Will send all those that have asked a hotel list tomorrow evening.
Anyone else need one, just let me know.
Ahem, thats Mistress Fluffykins to you! lol :lol:
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Well as i didn't see the last one till it was too late, i'd better get my name down now, specially as Miss Fluffykins is running the show :rascal:
I didn't even had to ask! kiss Thank you huni.
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Door Bitch & Door Hunk reporting for duty wave
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Can we be added please?
Do you know the thread title says 11th. November?

Whats the world coming too, I just can't get the staff these days! :giggle: :giggle:
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Personally I find the ‘prude’ and ‘politically-correct’ jibes very funny. It would be interesting to compare the swinging histories of the ‘prudes’ with those of the ‘liberated’ flashing camp. I see it not as prudishness but an awareness of suitability of time and place.

Right I have tried very hard to avoid comment on this thread, but this comment has now made me angry and I can't stop myself any longer.
I don't think that anyone's swinging history has anything to do with this thread and indeed is no one's business but each individuals. It is IMO outrageous that comments like this are made regarding our members in what is meant to be a sexually liberated environment.
Now maybe I am reading it all wrong (but I don't think so) and if so then apologies, but what this actually says is that there are two classes of swinger and those that are not in the "'liberated'flashing camp" are in fact a better class and more aware of suitable behaviour. This is absolute twaddle and is judging people based upon their sexual/swinging history, which as I say, a) isn't anyone's business but theirs and b) a silly and immature jibe, especially given that we are all here for one common reason, and that I would hope is a more open, relaxed and liberated attitude to sex and sexuality.
Secondly, I have an issue with the linking of two women snoging and groping (consensually) as a sexual act being akin to oral sex being given in public.
Now maybe I do frequent a differnet kind of club and pub, (but then they are always gay or gay friendly,) but this, women kissing and/or groping is certainly usual behaviour. Would I do this in a more 'vanilla' environment? Well if a man and a woman could do it and did do it, then yes I would. If this comment was aimed at events taking place at the NW munch, then perhaps it should be pointed out that the munch was held in a 'gay' venue and this certainly would be par for the course in the rest of the venue on the night!
In terms of dress and behaviour at munches, well I thnk I may well have problems at future ones too, I dress no differently at a munch than I would going out on a sturday night, but it all depends on venues - what would be acceptable at one may not be at another, but quiet frankly that is not my problem, I wear what I wear, and will and indeed do wear my outfits in any and all environments.
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Dawnie you can watch anytime :rascal: lol
Easy what has poor Essex ever done to you - and I meant nice thigh high black pvc boots - I am sure I can kick as well in those and the overall look will be so much better! :giggle: :giggle:
Sorry wideboy - love ya really! kiss :lol: :lol:

Who's wearing the boots for the Wigan Munch?
Are we doing timeshare now? :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Oh you are, and fabulous your going to look too! :twisted:
Definately a pattern forming! lol
I was most dfinately a tom boy growing up - must ahve been one of the few girls to watch top gun and not care about Tom Cruise - I was fixated on the planes and motorbike! :lol: I was also the girliest tomboy ever tho, as my parents never let me wear trousers but still climbed on and out of trees (I didn't own a pair of jeasn till I was in my teens)and got into fights with boys twice my size (things really haven't changed all that much!). I was their little princess - dresses, curls and ladylike manners (Oh how times have changed! :lolsmile
I went onto to cut off all my hair, live in jeans and leather and to being as un-girly as I possibly could in my late teens and early twenties.
Now I like to wear glamourous clothes and full make up, I love costumes and dressing up, lingerie and heels, but underneath there still lurks that tomboy. For all my protestations of dizzyness I am an extremely capable woman, I still love wearing jeans and boots and I love sports like football and Ice hockey.
Dawnie you can watch anytime :rascal: lol
Easy what has poor Essex ever done to you - and I meant nice thigh high black pvc boots - I am sure I can kick as well in those and the overall look will be so much better! :giggle: :giggle:
Sorry wideboy - love ya really! kiss :lol: :lol:
I have just a few toys (okay, quiet a few toys lol and would highly recommend the Carousel from Ann Summers or the Rock Chick (vibrating one of course) both of which I own and are fantastic.
Vicky hun thank you for a great night.
To anybody I bored with drunking ramblings - my apologies to any one that I behaved and flirted outrageously with - I hope you enjoyed it as much as I did! lol
Laird and Fee - always a pleasure, and I haven't forgotton the boots - even went in to make enquiries today (I was passing on the way to the piercing studio! :shocksmile Fee you looked fabulous in the boots, I expect pictures when I send you a pair!
DirtyGirlie - likewise, its always great to catch up with you. Hope the private viewing helped - definately reccomend vertical! Oh and I want a return of the private viewing!wink :lol:
Kaz and Sleeper - great badges huni, always a pleasure, your both stars and great friends! kiss
Hux and Susie - likewise! :kiss:
Fektart and Celery - Congratulations, your both lovely and I am proud to call you friends. You most definately deserve each other and I am delighted for you both! :kiss:
Darkfire - enjoyed spending more time with you, thanks for giggles, especially this morning with HLB and Dammy. Trinny and Susannah eat your heart out! :giggle: :giggle:
Easy and Countess - always a pleasure, your both great and love you loads! :kiss: But stop the fecking stroking! Easy you have a lot to be sorry for! They were all doing it by the end of the night! smackbottom :smackbottom:
Alexandhannah - wow, we really must stop meeting like this! :lol:
I have most probably forgotton lots of people, but its was wonderful to see so many old friends again and to say hello to some new ones too. Looking forward to bext one already! :lol:
Oi wench, no excuses I expect you to get your ass there! lol :lol:
The Mistress has spoken!!! :twisted:
worship :worship: :worship: :worship:
:thumbup: Wow, your psychic! Thats exactly what she's doing! :shock: :shock:
Well now she's laughing at the gigglepuss thing and says you know her too well! lol
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i no its short notice where abour in nwest and can we cum we r free 2night please
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Hiya, just asked Vicky about this for you (she's running round doing a milion things while I laze on the computer!) but unfortunately the list is now closed. Sorry.
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And do I absolutely have to wear trousers?

well if you dont ile get some body paint
and paint your willy to match sassys dress wink
You've seen Sassy's dress? :shock: :shock: :shock:
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Of course she's seen my dress! Living in Sassy central means she gets the delights of me parading round in every item I own while trying to decide what to wear! (Usually several times a day.... me indecisive! Who says!)lol :lol:

You'll only need a small tester pot. Trust me. :lol:
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And do I absolutely have to wear trousers?

Oh no.... a kilt will do just fine innocent
I don't own a kilt. sad
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Hmmm,I am sure I have some spare fabric round here somewhere, can't we just wrap that round a time or two, for a here's one I made earlier look! :lol:

*goes off to look for a tartan shopping trolley*

Right where's me scissors. I've got to be quick if I want it ready for tonight. :lol:
Anymore for anymore? I'll check on here tomorrow morning for any further takers and send details.
Right, details have been sent by pm to all of you who are also on the munch list.
If you haven't got a pm with details and think you should have one, then drop me a pm and let me know.
Anyone else wanting to come let me know here or via pm.
Of course your not too late huni!
Will send details out tomorrow night to all who are interested.