WIll be first social since joining so be gentle with me.
I think it is common problem and you can see that in a lot of profiles here and in other places (No Dick pics). I agree with your statement around Porn. If i want a quick fix a porn site is my point of call or if i want something a little more involved somewhere like here is ideal.
Some of the most satisfying nights I have had with a woman we have not even been together. Sexting, pics, vids are all so much more of a turn on as you are building up to it. Can honestly say I have only ever sent one dick pic and that was at the request of the recipient, who i had been flirting, sexting with for some days.
Equally, not that it happens often, if a women were to send me fanny pics without any other comms, that would put me right of. In fact doing the encounters, if the main profile pic is as above then I move on straight away. Probably missed out on some encounters as a result, but sure I am gaining in the long term.
Wow that was a long reply