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Don't know if you guys do it, but when I look at a woman especially on television I start to put them into categories. For example I might look at Katherine Jenkins and think "What a beautiful women, but probably a goody two shoes" or I might look at Suzanne Reid "Yeah, she is a goer and then claim to be innocent" or my last example Priti Patel "My god, she would eat you alive, you wouldn't want a long term relationship with her"
What do you think ? Ladies do you do the same for men?

Your assessment is just as I would have it, but PP yes absolutely, and who's talking long term, behind the Westminster bike sheds ...

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Not big on doing it....but loving watching.....and even more listening. 

 Yeah it's pity so many videos are silent movies, the sound of passion is more than 50% of the excitement.

In the lockdown it's one of the very few pleasures.  Took a Viagra, all on my own, couple of hours of edging and porn, wasn't sure if I was going to blow my balls or my head off.  

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Massage can be OK, can be great, but why choose gay if you're not. Assuming you're going to be parting with cash with either why not visit a place where a lady's hands can help you.

Never confess, you just make two people unhappy, but time to express your interests as an idea and see where it goes.

I like the look of a big cock, quite like mutual masturbation, (very very rare unfortunately), but I don't want to kiss it, or him, and have no interest in knowing his name or exchanging phone numbers.  I think I am and always have been rather envious of a big one and there are certain learned papers suggesting this is a common feature of a changing room, where teams will, apparently, elevate the big guy to hero status, I get that. I obviously have some element of bisexuality but I do not think of myself in those terms, I'm not curious to go further.  Perhaps I'm just hetero+twisted, happy with that.

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Big hug on its way but remember, there is someone for everyone. We all get older, but we dont need to get old. None of us are as young as we used to be, and some of us are a bit rounder, but we all like different things, and anything worth it, is well worth waiting for.

 Thank you for that.

Quote by Naughty_Wigan_Couple
Musketeer, you are as old as you feel, and a good attitude and a mature outlook is a lot more sexy and inviting than just a number. Never let anyone tell you different.

Well some days ... 

People are kind enough to disbelieve my age which is always nice, and covered up I'm still OK to look at, (the mirror tells me and I believe it).  I think there is some truth that I'm a little reluctant to go looking, there's a considerable amount of "can't be arsed" going on. In part this is because I don't really know where to look, the traditional venues no longer apply to me, and there's nothing more pathetic than an old man not paying attention to life's realities.  

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Any updates musketeer 

 The lady has read the posts but not replied, how she could resist I have no idea lol. One would like to think that having asked me she might have responded even if only to say "eff off you're too ugly". Que sera sera.

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I am getting old.   Polite sincere suggestions welcome here or by pm.

 Honesty.. Simple as that!

I absolutely believe in honesty, I believe my post was very honest, possibly too honest, but honesty on its own doesn't cut the mustard.  I find women my age don't often appeal and those that do might find their husbands objecting, (this is a joke btw). I was hoping for responses from those in my position. Of course Scotchlander there are singles groups, but essentially I believe those ladies are looking for life partners not a dalliance, regular or otherwise. Here is where they ought to be found if existing.

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I don't think deleting it at your end will remove it at the recipient's end but don't understand why you want to delete it when it hasn't been read yet.   

 Thanks for the replies but if it's gone four weeks without a read it's clear there is no interest, or anyway no great association with the site, so why leave my message out there. That would be my decision but sad it seems I cannot delete anyway.

I was contacted and followed it up with a message, but after four weeks it's unread. I was thinking I'd delete it, but if i delete it "my" end does it disappear at hers too?

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One other thing was when showing in a cam/chat room then at least half the watchers were men.  Doesn't mean they were bi/gay, I think there's also a natural 'competitive element with guys and their dicks - they want to see how they compare to others, size, shape, wanking technique, whatever 

 I digress slightly...  A few years ago I bought my first home cinema system but the plasma screen was a new thing then and on back order so the amp and speakers came first. I realised then that size isn't everything ... oops reset, I realised than the sound is more important to the experience than the size of the screen. My point is that whether it's a lady or a gent wanking, if there is sound it is 500% more exciting to the viewer but not many have sound on.

Hope you had fun, great place

I've been away from this site for a long time and I noticed that too. Used to be really busy, met some nice online friends, actually back in the day one of them really helped me get through a divorce, nothing sexual, just real backup, she was terrific.  User name no longer active.

What a spendid idea, gotta shop somewhere after all.  Wonder if ASDA in Worcester has that. Not too far away

My first appearance for a few years I think but the chatroom seems to be full of NZ and SA flags, is this a new thing?  Could hardly pop down the road for a meet.

By why would anyone want to stay on cam?  Isn't it the natural "Game Over" moment.  I mean Gentlemen we do the right thing, with our partners we cuddle and kiss a little after the money shot to show our appreciation and the love we have, but seriously, are we really interested?  We know the truth. Time for a kip.

Excellent!

Personally I have never cared to try, more than happy with the other options, I know what's up there.  And yes, the nicer bits of porn are now ignored, get straight to the action, put the biggest you can find into the smallest and bang hard. These days I prefer to watch couples at home and I still like to see the clothes come off and the zippers unzip first.

Good topic.  I started one similar before reading yours. There must be good looking ladies over 60 (for good looking blokes like us) with charm and personality looking for a lifestyle that includes sex, perhaps just not here.

To be frank most of us are pretty saggy, bodies going home, not a good look. On the upside the pleasure of sex is undiminished with the passing years. If it turns someone on to be a cam exhibitionist I'm all for it. Personally being an exhibitionist (not just with Mr John Thomas, though him too) appeals, but real life situations at least have the prospect of more, the cam event is going nowhere. (Well perhaps that's not quite right, I mean your cam event only ends one way).  I am up for watching men and women pleasuring themselves,  but if I do it I tend to prefer those the camera loves.

I am getting old.  Somewhere between late middle age and antique, now single again. Sex has been a big part of my life, skin on skin, but I'm going to have to seek other outlets. As a single male reality check says it will no longer ever "be me" at a party or club, refusals would be too depressing so best avoided.  On the other hand I scrub up, behave, and have been a member without ever attending a sex event, my membership existing years before my recent relationship started, so more than 13 years ago. Places like Cap d'Agde could still be fun with a friend but not alone, (have motorhome - can travel).

With two failed life partnerships, still my friends, I'm no longer up for trying again but chastity is equally unappealing.

This must be a real problem faced by many people, single, widowed, or divorced, love to know what you do. I'm up for being a voyeur if you like performing, my bi side is ok limited to fondling/wanking, happy to start dating without strings. I've never managed to "act my age" and don't want to start now, still love the boys toys, the music, and travel. Am retired and living in the South Midlands. 

How do you handle it?  Polite sincere suggestions welcome here or by pm.

At my age I refuse to be critical, if a youngster wants to give Grandpa a run out and like to pose nude who would I be to complain?  Not that I'm holding my breath or anything.....

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I think the only thing left out of the comments above is that it can be quite cool towards the end September and the winds can blow.  All the clubs may not be open but as written above there will still be some, and still lots of fun.  On a pure naturist sunshine basis late September can be iffy and you may need to be further south.

Out for summer from June 13th, if you're not too far from Estepona, message us and come round for a beer. Nice pool, jacuzzi, sea views, very private, chat.