Here's the thing. After recent medical tests, one of them pointed up low testosterone, (spelling??), so following a retest, (has to be done close to for some reason), the Doc put me on gel I rub onto my back, on the back I understand is so my partner doesn't grow a van beard.
Anyway one of the contra indications is a reduction in cum volume, strange really, you'd imagine the opposite, but this has happened to me. The point to this post is that every man will agree that in addition to the orgasm the feel of pumping ejaculate is really important to the enjoyment of the act.
So, does anyone know of homoeopathic or other supplements, or particular foods, that are good for increasing volume. I've never been a super-squirter but what I had I enjoyed and don't care for the dribble.
Advice welcome.
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musketeer
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We've only ever been to one club, and then only once. We will be going again. We found having sex in public absolutely exhilerating, and I don't remember in any detail watching anyone, there were some watchers, and indeed we were watchers between bouts so as to say. With this rather limited experience I can say firmly that I'd only want to be in public, we just loved all the shagging all around us and our sex life in the week that followed the visit was horny as hell and constantly wanted.
Is this uncommon within swinging as the end game?
We attended a club,loved the fucking going on all around us and of course we had our share. It was a great evening. The question is, is this a common thing or is it expected to lead to swaps? We may never get there, or want to for that matter, it's the future, and therefore unknown.
For us of course it was impossible to know if the the fuckers and fuckees were with their partners or swapped.
We attended a club,loved the fucking going on all around us and of course we had our share. It was a great evening. The question is, is this a common thing or is it expected to lead to swaps? We may never get there, or want to for that matter, it's the future, and therefore unknown.
For us of course it was impossible to know if the the fuckers and fuckees were with their partners or swapped.
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It all started on a Midland Red bus, top floor front, on way back from college, always enjoyed getting it out almost-in-public ever since.
MOds edit:- age removed.
Just noticed my post was edited. Don't remember what I wrote, but I can't believe that practising a little self abuse at an age below legal for doing the same with others is something that can't be written down! On the other hand if a mod removed my age NOW, that would be appreciated! lol
There are loads of reviews on the web of the clubs at the cap, but policies and styles seem to change from year to year and one cannot tell how old the reviews are.
We are not swingers but same room players probably so we'd like a smartish soft entry place, not heavy and couples only, your advice for us would be welcome, we are there right now.
Thanks
We are not swingers but same room players probably so we'd like a smartish soft entry place, not heavy and couples only, your advice for us would be welcome, we are there right now.
Thanks
Someone here was chatting to me about alternatives to Cap d'Agde. Naturist places with a hedonist/libertine theme. I believe there was one on France's west coast.
I want to go somewhere in August on the motorhome, but in so far as this is possible in France and in August somewhere closer and less busy.
Thinking about this it could equally be in Belgium or The Netherlands, but here the weather is more likely to play a significant hand.
Any links or suggestions welcome,thanks.
I want to go somewhere in August on the motorhome, but in so far as this is possible in France and in August somewhere closer and less busy.
Thinking about this it could equally be in Belgium or The Netherlands, but here the weather is more likely to play a significant hand.
Any links or suggestions welcome,thanks.
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maybe all that's happening is that you find a relationship more fulfilling than a handjob.
I'm sure that's true, a relationship is what most of us want, but on the basis that the largest sex organ we have is the brain, I can honestly say that a relationship with a man has never even registered as a fantasy, rather the reverse, I absolutely know I'd run a mile. What I "love" about a recreational wank is "exactly" that I don't know their names, and I have no desire to. More than this I can say in 15 years of occasional encounters I've never met anyone who actually expressed a wish to know me either, which for me has been entirely satisfactory!
As I think about this it occurs to me that what I ought to prefer would be the scene above, but with a girl... but I have never paid for any sexual performance because, no matter how good it might be, it would always be too one sided. Sex, any sex act, has to have an element of mutual satisfaction, and therefore be voluntary. Lady volunteers who'd like to pull me off apply here!!! (Form an orderly queue :lol: )
Well I've never been to one either, but I do frequent naturist sites on the continent. Old school members of British Naturism (and perhaps younger ones too) are members of Sun Clubs, private membership clubs, though I imagine there's precious little sun.
Those who take off their clothes for fun rather than in the earnest belief it's actually doing them some good probably seek places a little warmer. No doubt I get the benefit of vitamin D, and these old bones like it warmer, but I just like getting up in the morning and not bothering to be dressed. Sun bathing is too boring. Swimming naked is also great.
Re Sex. There are some famous hedonist libertine naked places of which Cap d'Agde is the most famous, for the rest no doubt it goes on, but it's no more obvious than in the UK towns in which we live.
I must google Acorns and fine out what sparked your interest.
Those who take off their clothes for fun rather than in the earnest belief it's actually doing them some good probably seek places a little warmer. No doubt I get the benefit of vitamin D, and these old bones like it warmer, but I just like getting up in the morning and not bothering to be dressed. Sun bathing is too boring. Swimming naked is also great.
Re Sex. There are some famous hedonist libertine naked places of which Cap d'Agde is the most famous, for the rest no doubt it goes on, but it's no more obvious than in the UK towns in which we live.
I must google Acorns and fine out what sparked your interest.
My bi side has never involved more than wanking but I got into it because of a failing sexless marriage. Having said that I played around with boys when I was a boy, grew out of it, but it wasn't like it was something totally foreign to me. These days I'm divorced and single.
Odd thing is, or perhaps not, when I'm actively involved with a lady my libido tends not respond well to playing with guys, but if I'm in a desert stage it's a case of "ooh here we go again".
I have very limited limits, (see above), and that's because, as one of life's natural worriers, I like it to be a laugh, a release, and not something I need to beat myself up about afterwards. I treat it as fun.
(edit) It occurs to me to add that sex cinemas are quite good for me in the sense that I can be tossed off in the seats without having to say no to blow jobs and other stuff. Some of these establishments have dark rooms and glory holes but personally I don't like those areas on so many levels it would bore you to hear why, dark, security, disease, to name but 50. lol
Odd thing is, or perhaps not, when I'm actively involved with a lady my libido tends not respond well to playing with guys, but if I'm in a desert stage it's a case of "ooh here we go again".
I have very limited limits, (see above), and that's because, as one of life's natural worriers, I like it to be a laugh, a release, and not something I need to beat myself up about afterwards. I treat it as fun.
(edit) It occurs to me to add that sex cinemas are quite good for me in the sense that I can be tossed off in the seats without having to say no to blow jobs and other stuff. Some of these establishments have dark rooms and glory holes but personally I don't like those areas on so many levels it would bore you to hear why, dark, security, disease, to name but 50. lol
I used to try dogging, just out and about occasionally for a look see. Was up at a place on a hill behind Portsmouth once, white 4x4, one guy either side looking in, thought I'd take a peek, came up the passenger side and the bloke there hissed, "My car mate" and produce a machete. My libido didn't hang around any longer than I did!
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I suppose it depends on your definition of little, but you could carry a dinghy on the roof of a motorhome, although a boat loader may cost you more than the dinghy. I don't like towing at the best of times, but small trailers that you can't see in your mirrors are a pig to reverse!
I suppose little might be 14 foot, maybe a little more. You're right about reversing, anyway with a 2 wheel trailer, 4 wheelers are much easier. There must be a technical reason but I've no idea why!
I think we've gone "off topic"