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shouldn't need his email address now shes posted his user name on the site, surely a mod could have traced him thro that b4 it was edited?

Quote by meat2pleaseu
Thought the kids were at school and you worked nights so your daytimes are (relatively) free. would have thought it was better to arrange to meet someone you had at least some confidence in of meeting your needs, than someone you'd never even spoken to who's only looking to satisfy themselves.
i understand the risks of home meets, at yours or theirs, which is why the neutral ground first meet is is good idea. you seem like a fairly intelligent woman (yes, i did just say that) and would have thought you'd have the experience to spot the fakes, time wasters and dodgy blokes. just seems like your club visits are more beneficial to the guys than yourself

well Uncle Meaty (mind if i just squidge on your knee a min while we have a chat )
To be honest day time meets is not something that has ever really interested me, don't know why me personally would rather get dressed up, go out for a drink and a chat then go back to whereever for a bit of fun rather than someone turning up at my house with me in my jeans and slipper have a coffee then a 'so do you fancy it then or what' kinda thing and b4 you say it no i'm not getting dressed up to sit at home and have a cuppa with someone i have done the odd few day time home meets with guys i know from muches etc but i just feel they're to rushed and i was forever looking at the clock to see if it was time to pick the nipper up
As for spotting fakes i think i am quite good at that, i can sniff a guy posing as a women from a 100 yards lol however we can't be right all the time and i have met some really dodgy people off here that have seemed ok at the time or arranging, its just a case of a balancing act and sorting out whats going to work best for you, if i knew personally more local people who didn't have to travel hours to get here thus leaving very little time b4 i had to pick nipper up i would be happy to entertain at home during the day more, but sadly i do not
Hope this is all ok with you

Quote by meat2pleaseu
you seem like a fairly intelligent woman (yes, i did just say that)

Quote by kbuk
Forum is best cause you can go to the munches that are arranged on here and find out who's genuine and who's not
Tho i have met a few people via the chat room which you seem to have forgotten about

Quote by Phoenix
I have kids so i cannot accomadate, and very very few guys can accomate either

Quote by meat2pleaseu
I agree it does very much so depend on the situation, me personally (and of course this does NOT mean all men!) have found that in a club men as a rule are only there for what they can get out of it, i have found very few men in clubs will to give anything back, most do just want a bj and a shag, well most just a bj if i'm going to be honest, however i have found on more private meets men are more happy to give something back to you and even more so men you have met a few times, my problem is as a rule i only do club meets so i miss out on all the good bits

because *sigh*
I have kids so i cannot accomadate, and very very few guys can accomate either so clubs just seem a easy option, plus i 'play' 'swing' whatever you want to call it on my own a lot so for me clubs are a safe place to go and meet people, not sure i would want to go and meet a total stranger and go back to his house maybe some would see that as me being OTT and say i should take a chance but thats just the way i am lol

Quote by Ice Pie
Interesting thread.
The title is "good at sex", which I always thought was a joint venture, and yet EVERY post (except one by meaty which was completely ignored) is purely about females' pleasure.
Might I suggest that your man might be more inclined to make more of an effort if you were to think about what HE wants once in a while? Staring motionless at the ceiling and then complaining about HIS performance doesn't cut it I'm afraid.

:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
now hang on a min here
thats fighting talk
i have lost count of the amount of time i have met guys and all they have wanted is a bj and soon as they have cum thats it they off, or the guys who lay there and have a bj and b4 you have even done they have the condom open in hand ready to put on and start shagging
And I've lost count of women who just lie there expecting me to do everything and give nothing back. There are men who are crap in bed and hey, guess what, there are women who are crap in bed too, but precious few women will accept their share of the responsibility, as this thread proves.
P.S does that fact that its mainly on about what women do and done get out of it tell you we have more to moan about

Quote by bluexxx
Could hardly contain his excitement... over a PM.......... :shock: :shock: :shock: ......... Crikey, I think I am going to need help dealing with Sleazy

Quote by Ice Pie
Interesting thread.
The title is "good at sex", which I always thought was a joint venture, and yet EVERY post (except one by meaty which was completely ignored) is purely about females' pleasure.
Might I suggest that your man might be more inclined to make more of an effort if you were to think about what HE wants once in a while? Staring motionless at the ceiling and then complaining about HIS performance doesn't cut it I'm afraid.

:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
now hang on a min here
thats fighting talk
i have lost count of the amount of time i have met guys and all they have wanted is a bj and soon as they have cum thats it they off, or the guys who lay there and have a bj and b4 you have even done they have the condom open in hand ready to put on and start shagging
P.S does that fact that its mainly on about what women do and done get out of it tell you we have more to moan about

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Why is it, whenever I see something on this site to do with genatalia.................
MY wife is at the centre of the discussion ? ?
LMAO

Quote by Phoenix

should have known it would be my fault
If i wanted to be a teacher i'd change my job

Quote by BiWelshMinx
I actually think its quite important for two people to communicate. If a girl is telling me (whispering in my ear is the best way!) what she likes/wants, then her wish is my command.

but i find quite a lot of men get a bit insulted if you tell them you actually like it a different way to how they are doing it so i usually just fake it and finsh myself off when they gone, nothing worse than a guy with a brused ego

humm no sorry i disagree, i honestly do not think many men in this game really care about what the women is geting out of it to me honest......just my opinion tho (going from many of my past experiences) so don't all jump on me at once

Quote by mattmoleman
I actually think its quite important for two people to communicate. If a girl is telling me (whispering in my ear is the best way!) what she likes/wants, then her wish is my command.

but i find quite a lot of men get a bit insulted if you tell them you actually like it a different way to how they are doing it so i usually just fake it and finsh myself off when they gone, nothing worse than a guy with a brused ego

humm no sorry i disagree, i honestly do not think many men in this game really care about what the women is geting out of it to me honest......just my opinion tho (going from many of my past experiences) so don't all jump on me at once

so now its my fault hes no good at sex
calm down calm down :shock:
look in my mind its better to fake it than have a guy go off in a huff cause you have told him what hes doing ain't really doing it for you :lol2:
if i was with a guy who i felt i could say...would you mind trying this......then i would, but in swinging its not that easy to know if a guy could take you saying that or not.

Quote by Happy Cats
"how come youre so good at sex?"
I get asked that question all the time, I put it down to how poor me and the girlfriend were as teenagers. We used to go to orgies every week, just for the grapes!

Quote by Phoenix
I actually think its quite important for two people to communicate. If a girl is telling me (whispering in my ear is the best way!) what she likes/wants, then her wish is my command.

but i find quite a lot of men get a bit insulted if you tell them you actually like it a different way to how they are doing it so i usually just fake it and finsh myself off when they gone, nothing worse than a guy with a brused ego

humm no sorry i disagree, i honestly do not think many men in this game really care about what the women is geting out of it to me honest......just my opinion tho (going from many of my past experiences) so don't all jump on me at once

Quote by andysmith
I actually think its quite important for two people to communicate. If a girl is telling me (whispering in my ear is the best way!) what she likes/wants, then her wish is my command.

but i find quite a lot of men get a bit insulted if you tell them you actually like it a different way to how they are doing it so i usually just fake it and finsh myself off when they gone, nothing worse than a guy with a brused ego

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Rocked:- Finally getting the one thing I've wanted since I joined SH ;) :bounce: :bounce:
Sucked:- Having a broken wrist when it happened but still :bounce: