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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 52
UK

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Quote by HuxleyNSusie
not what i meant at all NN
I dont see the difference between best and any other addict is what I meant. Id argue addiction is an illness .

then i'm sorry if i miss understood you kiss
maybe addiction is a illness i'm not sure about that but its a illness people chose to get into, as a mother myself i cannot possabily imagin putting anything b4 my kids, let alone drink but people do.
Quote by purplemonkey
Going from my past experience i would suggest to anyone who is going into a new relationship who was a swinger and would like to carry on to be open from the start and tell their new partner str8 away that way its upto them what they choose to do, bit tricky now tho, i have been there myself but i guess i was one of the lucky ones who hubby came round to the idea and now is a bigger teat than me lol not everyone will warm to it the same tho.

its not really a good idea to tell a prospective boy/girlfriend you swing or have done in the past, i would think they would run a mile surely, unless they have done similar themselves
Hope fully i will also be a "lucky one" too
but thats my point, if you want to carry on swinging isn't it best to tell them upfront so they can run a mile b4 you get to close?
If you ask her now and she runs a mile it will be much worse
Quote by HuxleyNSusie
Plenty of addicts committ suicide be it drugs or drink
.I just dont see the difference

are you seriously trying tio tell me that you can see no difference between a woman who has been or a man/woman who has lost a child trying to commit suicide to escape the pain or someone who suffers from a mental illness to a alcholic needing a transplant?
My dad was a alcholic, as a child we was posted from relative to relatve cause we had no money for food or electric, cause every penny he had went on beer to the point he sold house hold items to support his addiction, but it was a choice he made, noone asked him to start drinking, people do not chose to get mental illnesses.
Going from my past experience i would suggest to anyone who is going into a new relationship who was a swinger and would like to carry on to be open from the start and tell their new partner str8 away that way its upto them what they choose to do, bit tricky now tho, i have been there myself but i guess i was one of the lucky ones who hubby came round to the idea and now is a bigger teat than me lol not everyone will warm to it the same tho.
ermm aston is in birmingham confused
its a sex club, i wont say swingers club as many will despute it is lol
they have payed women there to cater for the single guys, u do not play them the club does you just pay a entry free, women and couples also go and as in any 'swingers' club you are free to join them if they wish but the payed women are there to shag anyone who wants them, theres a big TV scene there and bi males, they do do theme nights too but its usually just a mix night any night of bi/str8 males and females, couples and TVs
personally i feel the most popular clubs on this site are cupids in manchester and chameleons in the west mids.
Quote by HuxleyNSusie
possibly a bit too simplistic comparison but suicide is self inflicted wouldn't you try to save someone taking an overdose no matter how many times they had tried before ?

but the thing is people who try and commit suiicide usually suffer from some kind of mental illness or have suffered a great ordeal in their life that they can no longer cope with, its not really the same as someone who has chosen to smoke or drink, we know the risks and we make the dessisions.
Quote by neilinleeds
no no no no!sad
you CANNOT buy a liver in the UK! even if you go to a private clinic, the liver comes through the NHS

they do however sell donated organs and blood to other country such as america :shock:
oh its not funny really :giggle:
poor sod, i remember when my daughter, aged about 2 at the time, was running about naked on the back yard with the pool out, as they do at that age, and she sat on a wasp and it stung her sorta between her bum and front bit confused she jumped up and ran off screaming and i was trying to catch her to find out what was wrong.
Kiss it better for him wink
I have a list of people i'd like to shag, most of who i have already met but i'm keeping :gagged:
i'm far to shy to name name's redface

wink
Quote by Phire
When the smoking ban comes in I'll be able to wear the same clothes for weeks!

good point and well put :thumbup:
Quote by dargento
but then again i havnt smoked the day after so in every other walk of life im now a non smoker and a smoking swinger(

lol @ smoking swinger, thats like me only have a fag after a few pints and a good shag wink
Quote by Sexysteph
dooooooont go there.......shes lovely to us older guys smile
ps....she never goes to clubs ive heard biggrin

i don't :angel:
you've never seen me in one of them sex clubs :smug:

No am sure it was the local lending library I saw you in on Saturday ---- well there certainly was some lending going on wink and the returns were copious or was that copulent?
wink
though it was the hair dressers lol
Quote by Kink24
Lol thanks everyone for the very warm welcome.
Just to let ya know.... Yup I am indeed a Yam Yam n proud of it wink
Im a Wolves lad born n bred biggrin
But I agree with naughtynymphos ..... a west midlander aint a Yam yam!
Lets protect our heritage lol

ohhh ffs did you have to say that i'll never hear the end of it off meaty now :lol2:
Tipton here, not a yam yam and bloody proud of it lol
Quote by sleazy
And what is wrong with nekkid draped over a police car... just thought it would continue a theme lol

oi your supposed to be at work :shock:
i dunno some good job u have going there being payed to sit posting on a swingers site lol

Quote by dargento
sleazy m8 you can take pics of me anytime m8 smile
can i have a double pic with NN......actually i should be asking her heehee

dare i ask what you want a pic of? :shock:
I don't have any :angel:
but the hubbies is he always says....whatever.....when hes loosing a argument mad
Quote by neilinleeds
alcoholism is a terrible, evil, soul destroying disease, and like all those suffering from disease, the NHS is there to offer whatever cures are available to it.

but that depends on who you are, for jo blogg's nobodys like my father the only help he was given was tablets to help with the pain and the number for the AA, even when he was bright yellow and on deaths door no op was offered to him, it wasn't even a possability as his illness was self inflicted they said, now ok i am going back a few years now and maybe their rules have changed but then they did not offer transplants to people who's illness was self inflicted.
He had his op done private didn't he? ok i could have worded it better when i said buy i ment paying in a private clinic, thus as a rule getting it done quicker? if i am miss informed i apologise :lol2: didn't think he had it done on the NHS (walks off in shame of being wrong) bolt
Quote by adeymull
even if with all good attentions they wish to attend a munch so that they can maybe meet and get to know the other members in there area. there seems to be some conspiricy.... confused
surly this is not what its all about is it. confused confused confused confused confused

please explain? confused
anyone can go to a munch so long as they have joined b4 the date set my the person doing the munch and they are regular users.
I totally agree with you
My dad was a alcholic and was flatly refused a transplant because they said his illness was self inflicted, which i do agree with, but if you have money you can buy body parts, abuse them and just buy another, if i was the parents of the person who died and saved his life i would be descused by the way he is just abusing his second chance, i know its each to their own and what you do with your body is your biz etc but its not his body part hes abusing its someone elses and their family have been kind enough to save his life and hes just abusing it, because i dare say he has the attitude of...ahhh i can buy another, maybe he should have to wait on the NHS like the rest of us for his next one.
Quote by meat2pleaseu
FFS, another yam-yam. thats nearly the entire west midlands joined up recently.
:welcome: ,by the way (or Awwwwlryte aer kid)

who said he was a yam yam? dunno
the 'from the west midlands' gives you a clue you dippy mare smackbottom
so brummies are yam yams? and people from cov? telford? need i go on wink
ya dippy mear wink
Quote by meat2pleaseu
FFS, another yam-yam. thats nearly the entire west midlands joined up recently.
:welcome: ,by the way (or Awwwwlryte aer kid)

who said he was a yam yam? dunno
Quote by dargento
dooooooont go there.......shes lovely to us older guys smile
ps....she never goes to clubs ive heard biggrin

i don't :angel:
you've never seen me in one of them sex clubs :smug:
Quote by hozeauk
Your chauffeur Jim here, sounds like you need a limo for you trip.

we have a chauffeur? dunno