you mean your supposed to stop in between :shock:
It really rather depends what your looking for, me and my hubby swing as singles as well as together and to be honest we have never had any problems with it, we have never done the 'but you had 5 meets last month and i only got 1' thing, its about talking with each other and finding out whats ok, of course i think he would get cheesed off if i met someone every day but to be honest i wouldn't want to meet someone every day as i still have a home life too and that comes first, meeting others fit round my work and family, if people have problems with what they are doing i feel thats down to a lack of communication.