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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 52
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Quote by northwest-cpl
To be honest as a couple we have been followed around the club by single guys. To be honest we find it quite amusing to let the guys follow us to the top rooms of the club then leg it down the other stairs
We haven't been to a club on a mixed night where the guys don't follow you round. It is funny to suddenly stop and turn round and see the ensuing pile-up. Generally it's just amusing to watch them doing it but if the numbers of couples:singles are greatly out of balance then it does become a nuisance.
It's a shame that more single guys don't actually chat to the couples, they would probably have more success.
i used to go to chams regular on a sunday night with a fem friend and we used to walk upstairs, get the usual following of guys then just stop on the top landing and chat, its really funny to see all the sudden looks of "what do i do now" on their faces lol
Saying that i love the single guys but hey u gotta have a laugh
Quote by partyman
At least at a club like Xtasia or Chameleons, where single guys meet couples, the guys know that a bit of chat, friendliness, politeness and decorum is needed to get on with people, to stand any chance of some fun and games. If you lack these social skills, fear not, Private Club will be happy to welcome you.
Maybe you should try going to chamelens as a single fem and see if you still feel like that, now i love chameleons i have been going for about 5 years now but men there do not chat to you and are not really friendly as such, i have been many times on my own and done nothing because i have decided not to just play with guys who make no effort to talk to you, as a single fem you get guys sat round the bar watching you waiting for you to make a move and soon as you do have 10 guys following you round the club just waiting for you to go in a room, ok so the sex is there for women if you want to just go in a room and have men who can't be bothered to chat to you jump on you soon as you get on a bed, but as for chat! i have never ever been to chams on my own and had a guy in the bar area come over and talk to me and ask me to a room, they either wait till u go in the jacuzzi and all feel u up or follow u about till you go in a room so really the type of men who go to chameleons is not different to those who go to the private club its all about sex in any club only difference is at the private club if your a man and u want sex you will get it, i have been with a single fem friend b4 and had a group of guys kick the door in at chamelens to join us and when we said no and walked out was hurled with abuse, i also had a incident when a guy pinned me down in the jacuzzi and forced himself on me while all the other guys just sat there and watched and it took another woman to tell him to get off me, now i admit that that don't happen regular and the amount of trouble i have had at chams in minimal but the point i am trying to make is all clubs are the same when you get down to the basics, all becase you go to a club where there are no working girls don't make you better than a guy who does go to such places your both after a shag after all
You do surprise me about your perspective on single guys. Having been on my own and with a partner, I've not found the guys slow in coming forward, but of course, I'll never be able to replicate a single female way of looking at things. And I thought Chameleons were very selective as to who they accept as single members. Has that policy changed?
How can those guys get away with kicking doors down and stuff? I've been going to clubs (more Xtasia than Chameleons) for 10+ years and have never seen anything like that. I presume that the matter was dealt with by the staff? Sorry to hear that you had to put up with that though. It's embarrasing to admit to being a single guy when you hear that "our" reputation is sullied by idiots like that. I suppose that there are always bad apples in every barrel, and if you go for long enough, you are bound to encounter some, however unfortunate that is.
as i have said i love chameleons and that was just two matters out of 5 years of going, i wouldn't ever suggest people didn't go because of that, the point i was trying to make was that clubs such as chameleons (as nice as they are) do not attract a higher class of swingers, people who go there go for the same reson as any other club, i also have never found the guys there shy of coming forwards but i do find that they are not interested in chatting to you, i find the only time i have been there and found a social side is when i go as a couple and chat to other couples.
Quote by partyman
At least at a club like Xtasia or Chameleons, where single guys meet couples, the guys know that a bit of chat, friendliness, politeness and decorum is needed to get on with people, to stand any chance of some fun and games. If you lack these social skills, fear not, Private Club will be happy to welcome you.
Maybe you should try going to chamelens as a single fem and see if you still feel like that, now i love chameleons i have been going for about 5 years now but men there do not chat to you and are not really friendly as such, i have been many times on my own and done nothing because i have decided not to just play with guys who make no effort to talk to you, as a single fem you get guys sat round the bar watching you waiting for you to make a move and soon as you do have 10 guys following you round the club just waiting for you to go in a room, ok so the sex is there for women if you want to just go in a room and have men who can't be bothered to chat to you jump on you soon as you get on a bed, but as for chat! i have never ever been to chams on my own and had a guy in the bar area come over and talk to me and ask me to a room, they either wait till u go in the jacuzzi and all feel u up or follow u about till you go in a room so really the type of men who go to chameleons is not different to those who go to the private club its all about sex in any club only difference is at the private club if your a man and u want sex you will get it, i have been with a single fem friend b4 and had a group of guys kick the door in at chamelens to join us and when we said no and walked out was hurled with abuse, i also had a incident when a guy pinned me down in the jacuzzi and forced himself on me while all the other guys just sat there and watched and it took another woman to tell him to get off me, now i admit that that don't happen regular and the amount of trouble i have had at chams in minimal but the point i am trying to make is all clubs are the same when you get down to the basics, all becase you go to a club where there are no working girls don't make you better than a guy who does go to such places your both after a shag after all
Most clubs are really expensive for single guys i think the best priced one is the private club in Aston,Birmingham but due to the low prices there are lots of men and they do have a few working girls there and it does tend to be a gang bang, bukakke place, personally as a female i didn't find it a good club to go to as the working girls seemed to get all the attention, but i suppose if thats what the guys go for 
Quote by bluexxx
Yup....you're right.....looks like I've got a lot to learn with regards to SH etiquette
You do indeed
. Trouble is, you've made a few equally silly posts in the last few days and you don't seem to be learning by your mistakes. The tragic thing (for you) is that I am female, I live in the North West, I am looking for single males, and I really really really like giving BJs. So, what's tragic about that, I hear you cry...... Well, it's tragic cos judging by your posts, you sound like a right prat and as far as meets go, you are probably 12, 009, 876, 786, 837 places down on my list of shaggables off this site.
Aw, shame eh.
Don't hold back bluexxx say it how it is
i think what shes asking is if she has a gang bang with 8 men and shags them all twice does that count as having 16 cocks or 8 in one night? if you shag a person twice do you count him twice? personally i think....who cares how many cocks you have had so long as you had a good night, why do you feel you need to keep count?
I have to agree with bluexxx your add is very limited in the info it gives, all we know is your a single bi male whos never played with a couple b4, not much to go on is it? are you only orally bi or fully bi? when you say you have never played with a couple b4 does that mean you are actually bi cur or that you have had 1 on 1 with men in the past? how old are you? what are your limits? (u can't go to a meet and let other set the limits you have to enjoy it too and if you have dislikes you have to say now) do you travel or accomadate? what age range are you looking for? what type of people do you like (looks/body wise) these are all question i was asking myself after reading your add, see i personally would not reply to a add unless i knew what they was looking for and if i thought i was in with a chance of them likeing me, i wouldn't reply to a add like your where your reply could be "sorry your to old for me" or "i'm looking for someone slimmer" unless a add said what age/type of person they was after i would just pass it by, if you understand what i mean, there are so many single guy add you have to stand out and tell people what they want to know 
Quote by Mandy Munch
Do Swinging Clubs allow T gals ? And do we get in for nothing like the other gals?
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I have been to two clubs that have had TS/TVs in but both in the west midlands, chameleons in darlaston (walsall) do a bi night on mondays where there are a few TS/TVs that go and theres the private clubs in Aston (birmingham) that have quote a lot that go, can't say as i know any clubs in your area tho sorry.
As for munches i have been to 5 munches now and i think there was only 1 that didn't have any TS/Tvs there so everyone is welcome
Quote by Twisted - Sister
About a month I was out in a dogging area and the numbers of guys mainly lorry drivers who wanted masturbating or even sucking were so great that I could have ended up being there all night, but the big problem I came across was the lack of these guys hygiene and even though some of them had great bodies the smell was so off putting.
Why do these guys think that anyone dogging like me has no respect for themselves and their sole interest in life is to give pleasure to these guys.
So if any lorry driver is reading this, please think about your hygiene before meeting anyone because some of us go out of our way to make sure we keep ourselves clean and we don't wish to throw up at the smell of others.
i think its a lot of people think that swingers will shag anyone anywhere, like swingers clubs with normal beds in them, i have even been to a couple of clubs that have just had matresses on the floor, now im sorry but normal beds in swingers clubs :shock: i don't think so
even if they do claim to change the sheet regular i dread to think whats drying in the matresses over the months/years As for the truckers i'm sure they are usually clean guys but a few days living and sleeping in a cab is enough to make anyone smell
Sorry but i also believe that you should never mix swinging with friends, unless of course they are friends you have made thro the scene.
Just think to yourself if you swinging with this lady and things go wrong, ie after you regreat it etc then how are you going to feel about seeing her again, you could possabily loose a friend where as if you meet someone thro the swinging scene then if you decided not so see them again its not great lose, i myself have met a few people where things have not gone to plan and i have wished never to see them again, now had that been a friend i would have lost that friend all because you are good m8s outside the bedroom that does not mean u will carry that into the bedroom too.
I just find it better to keep the two sides of my life apart i would not wish to have my frinds coming round on a daily basis flirting with my hubby etc i like to arrange to meet swinging friends but 'nomal' m8s just turn up when they like as thats what m8s do and i wouldn't want the two to mix
Just think to yourself if you swinging with this lady and things go wrong, ie after you regreat it etc then how are you going to feel about seeing her again, you could possabily loose a friend where as if you meet someone thro the swinging scene then if you decided not so see them again its not great lose, i myself have met a few people where things have not gone to plan and i have wished never to see them again, now had that been a friend i would have lost that friend all because you are good m8s outside the bedroom that does not mean u will carry that into the bedroom too.
I just find it better to keep the two sides of my life apart i would not wish to have my frinds coming round on a daily basis flirting with my hubby etc i like to arrange to meet swinging friends but 'nomal' m8s just turn up when they like as thats what m8s do and i wouldn't want the two to mix
Quote by DarkEyedPhil
Much easier to understand than the instruction manual that came with a mini MP3 player I recently bought, which was very entertaining, but absolutely no practical use
I'm going to try some of those words out next time I'm losing at Scrabble.
You should have seen the huge book that came with my phone
found it easier to have a fiddle and work it out myself Quote by tomas
A male friend and I went to chameleons about 3 years ago.
The women there was very friendly but wouldnt let single men
in. She said there was a very long waiting list for single men.
chameleons always has a long waiting list for single guy membership, if you want to join you have to give them your name etc and just wait, its a very popular club at the moment so always busy.
