Maybe they are couples whos guy can't have kids so its a way of a childless couple to have a child.
Rather stupid if you ask me but each to their own and if a guy replys to such adds and it ready to have sex with someone with no protection or anything then he knows the risk he is taking so if in 9 months time he has to cough up to pay for the child he has produced whos fault it is?
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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 52
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yes utopia does have working girls there but u do not pay them the club does u just pay to get in, but many clubs have working girls there to keep the single guys happy, if u go to a club such as chameleons that does not have working girls there theres a good chance u may go away having had no fun so many guys like the clubs with the working girls as in such clubs if u want sex u will get it, The Private Club in Aston (birmingham) has working girls too tho personally i do not like such club for the simple fact that they get all the guys attention so normal women like me tend to get ignored lol
The fact they are getting payed does not bother me at all.
The fact they are getting payed does not bother me at all.
Quote by meat2pleaseu
If anyone gives you grief over your accent / dialect, just remember, the greatest ever exponent of the English Language was William Shakespere, and he was a West Midlander.
If he were alive now, he'd be talking more like us than like anyone else in the country.
i hate shakespear, the brummie twat
he was from stratford upon avon u muppet lol
it all Darn Sarf from me, naughty
god u have no culture have u man lol
thats why they offered me a free transfer to Tipton
didn't take it did you? :shock:
oh shit i'm moving
P.S Can a mod please tell me if u can put ignor on people on here lol
Its quite a hard question actually cause its not something i can put my finger on, i think blue has a point tho in saying if u have decided to meet someone u have decided to shag them, i know there's always the chance that after meeting u may change your mind so to me its more a question of what does the person do to make u decide not to have sex with them after meeting 
if that makes sence, but i think u just know if u like someone enough to want to have sex, and if u like them enough looks wise to arrange a meet unless they are total twats the chances are u will take it further.
if that makes sence, but i think u just know if u like someone enough to want to have sex, and if u like them enough looks wise to arrange a meet unless they are total twats the chances are u will take it further.
when people say no strings fun a lot of people take that as just a shag, not everyone wants to make friends and stay in touch, some just like to meet have sex then move on to the next person, resons? well could be they married, could be they feel they may get to close to someone if they meet them regular....who knows
But theres nothing that says in swinging u have to be friends and stay in touch after u have played thats down to what u want to do.
We had a couple come out to our house many moons ago and we invited them in asked them if they wanted a drink and the guy looked str8 at us and said....we havn't come here to chat we have come for sex and started walking up the stairs, well after stopping him we asked him to leave which they did but not b4 he added...we don't want to make friends, we have friends we swing for sex not friendship
and i suppose some do have that attitude its each to their own really.
But theres nothing that says in swinging u have to be friends and stay in touch after u have played thats down to what u want to do.
We had a couple come out to our house many moons ago and we invited them in asked them if they wanted a drink and the guy looked str8 at us and said....we havn't come here to chat we have come for sex and started walking up the stairs, well after stopping him we asked him to leave which they did but not b4 he added...we don't want to make friends, we have friends we swing for sex not friendship
and i suppose some do have that attitude its each to their own really.
Personally i do not believe in such things, i do not believe in ghost's or life after death or being cought in the inbetween world 
when u die u die and u either get put in the box in the groud or get burnt, i know not everyone feels like that and some seek comfort in thinking theres a after life and thats fine, but to me ouija boards, telling the future or anything like that is a load of rubbish made up by peiople who are trying to make money out of u, then passed on to people like us to have a dabble with not having a clue what we are really doing, and i don;t care how many of u say u have tryed it and says it works there will always be a logical explination for what had happened to you, from mind tricks to someone in the back groud playing a prank and all sorts inbetween, come on be serious if u was dead would u contact a group of noones playing with letters and a glass?
when u die u die and u either get put in the box in the groud or get burnt, i know not everyone feels like that and some seek comfort in thinking theres a after life and thats fine, but to me ouija boards, telling the future or anything like that is a load of rubbish made up by peiople who are trying to make money out of u, then passed on to people like us to have a dabble with not having a clue what we are really doing, and i don;t care how many of u say u have tryed it and says it works there will always be a logical explination for what had happened to you, from mind tricks to someone in the back groud playing a prank and all sorts inbetween, come on be serious if u was dead would u contact a group of noones playing with letters and a glass? Quote by meat2pleaseu
Such an ugly word for something quite beautiful, don't you think?
each to the own i suppose personally i can't see anything beautiful about someone stuffing a hand up someones fanny
Put like that - no it ain't - but then again not everybody's quite so literal about things
As you say each to their own!sorry i do have a habbit of just saying things as it is
how did that quote go NN? 'we hadn't noticed'
*shakes fist at meaty*
Quote by meat2pleaseu
If anyone gives you grief over your accent / dialect, just remember, the greatest ever exponent of the English Language was William Shakespere, and he was a West Midlander.
If he were alive now, he'd be talking more like us than like anyone else in the country.
i hate shakespear, the brummie twat
he was from stratford upon avon u muppet lol
it all Darn Sarf from me, naughty
god u have no culture have u man lol
Quote by meat2pleaseu
If anyone gives you grief over your accent / dialect, just remember, the greatest ever exponent of the English Language was William Shakespere, and he was a West Midlander.
If he were alive now, he'd be talking more like us than like anyone else in the country.
i hate shakespear, the brummie twat
he was from stratford upon avon u muppet lol
just a thought tho
Romeo Romeo owe am ya chap
Quote by westerross
Such an ugly word for something quite beautiful, don't you think?
each to the own i suppose personally i can't see anything beautiful about someone stuffing a hand up someones fanny
Put like that - no it ain't - but then again not everybody's quite so literal about things
As you say each to their own!sorry i do have a habbit of just saying things as it is
Quote by northwest-cpl
Anyone who says that they can pull themselves out of depression has probably not been clinically depressed. I've been very "down" and I've also seen depression at first hand. They are very different things. The people who describe the bottomless black hole with no way out understand its true nature.
Drugs do work. As has been said earlier the type and dosage of drug seems to be trial and error by the doctors once depression is diagnosed, but once you find the right one your mood will begin to lift. It can be a long process and needs understanding and support from those around you.
i totally agree with you i have been very low in the past, feeling like life isn't worth living and if i topped myself no1 would care anyway, looking back it was a very daft attitude to have but at the time u just don't care, i was put on a few different types of medication till i found one that worked but i felt great again once i did the mistake i made was once i felt ok again i stopped taking the medication which i would not recomed cause within about 5 days i was worse then ever and ended up on the medication for even longer, lots of people think u are just feeling sorry for yourself and i suppose it does look that way but believe me all u want is to be left alone not have people running about after u feeling sorry for u, i am okish now tho some days i do find myself crying for no reason really but i think i will always have that but as a whole life is good at the moment
Quote by Kniphofia
For those who've got interested in this notion but not tried it, I am told, by Someone Who Ought To Know, that NEARLY all women who've had babies can do it (with care and patience), and NEARLY all women who haven't, can't (depends on size of hand, lubrication, etc, of course).
As to what it actually feels like (as opposed to how enjoyable it is).... again, I am in no position to judge. But I am told: "very full!"
i was wondering how long it would be b4 the baby thing came up, most saying things like if u can pass a baby u can take a fist, u cannot compair fisting to giving birth, when in labour you whole body takes time to prepair for it and ur body dialates as we all know, and after the birth your body goes back to normal within time, usually a month or two, so having a child had nothing to do with taking a fist, i have had 3 kids and i cannot take a fist.
Quote by Baggy Boy
Baggy Boy wrote:
Which part of the west Midlands do yow think that i'm from?
ermmm just a guess but wolverhampton
I've just read this and consider it to be a slur on my upbringing. i am exiled in Wolverhampton but my handle suggests I bought up somewhere else.
wash your mouths out NOW!!!!!
:lol2:
sorry couldn't risist
i forgot ur football team ain't that good
*makes a very quick run for it*
actually quicker than that
Quote by Ice Pie
You know i never thought about it like that
So if she asked you if it was ok to shag you with a strap on and u said no and she left you, be honest and i mean totally honest would u feel that was ok or would you think 'well that was a bit over the top the bitch?'
If it was that important to her I would probably think she was pretty shallow, but I wouldn't object to her leaving on those grounds. What I would object to is if she tried to persuade me after I said I didn't want to.
Whats wrong with a little gentle persuasion if you have said no to something
In this context, quite a lot I think. People's sexual preferences are a bit deeper than whether or not they like Brussels sprouts. If someone asks me to do something I'm not comfortable with, I say no, and that should be the end of it. If they then tried to change my mind after I said no, well I would be insulted by that.
yeah i agree with you there ice pie
i love bi men my hubbie is not bi and i have never even asked him to go with a man for me, i feel if he wants to he will bring it up himself and if i knew he was only doing it for me i wouldn't enjoy it knowing hes not.
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How can you dislike a woman on top? so much more to play with (well a couple of things), never met a woman who doesn't get an extra something from doggie, so maybe you should try these a little more and she might relax with you a bit and get more adventurous.... then who knows what she might fancy trying next
Thats a good point. I just get bored when a girl is on top. I like to be in charge and fuck a girl like an animal until she starts crying and stuff. I am quite dom. Maybe thats why I like head so much.
But my new girlfriend is very dom as well so we kinda clash there. She loves going on top. Oh fuck it, I'm doomed.
thought doggy would be ideal for u then
actually your starting to confuse me now
Quote by meat2pleaseu
By the same token there are lots of things I dislike sexually. I hate having woman on top. I hate doggy style. All of my girlfriends have lived that although some have complained a bit...
...suppose that does make me look at this in a different light...
...see maybe it wasn't such a bad idea to start this thread...now I have weathered the storm of abuse...
How can you dislike a woman on top? so much more to play with (well a couple of things), never met a woman who doesn't get an extra something from doggie, so maybe you should try these a little more and she might relax with you a bit and get more adventurous.... then who knows what she might fancy trying next
for someone who loves great sex and wants a fulfilling sex life your very limited to what possitions u enjoy
Quote by Ice Pie
You know i never thought about it like that
So if she asked you if it was ok to shag you with a strap on and u said no and she left you, be honest and i mean totally honest would u feel that was ok or would you think 'well that was a bit over the top the bitch?'
If it was that important to her I would probably think she was pretty shallow, but I wouldn't object to her leaving on those grounds. What I would object to is if she tried to persuade me after I said I didn't want to.
sorry i wasn't asking you i was asking loveitorhateit, i was just wondering how he felt the other way round.
My mistake for not putting names lol
