Quote by da69ve
Why do you not think it is abnormal Dave? Should I not act on these desires?
nope didn't say it was abnormal, I said that it wasn't normal as in, wasn't normal n the sense of being mainstream, it might seem like splitting hairs, but it's important that you don't take what I said as being a condemnation.
I see nothing wrong with you acting on your desires with willing, informed and consenting partners, but I do think that you are gonna have to seek those through more focused and resticted avenues such as clubs and websites that cater for your needs which are clearly more specific than most folk.
I was the one that said it was abnormal.....and in my opinion it is.....having rough sex with a woman until you make her cry and i assume that isn't with desire!!
why would u want to make someone cry?
interested to know in what way cry? cause shes hurting? not many women cry if they are enjoying sex, very odd
if someone made me cry thro sex i'd prob knock them out lol 
i find most guys in swinging just want a bj and a shag and have many times giving a guy in bj and b4 i have even finished hes had the condom open ready in his hand to put on when i stop 
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