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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 52
UK
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I was just wondering people opinion on this
Right i know people say safe sex if a must and ok its fair comment if u value your health but can u over do it? i was just reading a thread in the lets meet up forum and after reading the first message had a look at the couples add, now on their add it says safe sex is a must condoms, dental dams and gloves must be warn b4 any contact, or words to that effect
My question is can u over do it with safe sex?
If u felt the need to wear gloves b4 u touched anyone would u still carry on swinging and indeed if u met a couple and they covered u with a dental dam and put gloves on b4 they touched u would u not feel insutled?
I know its each to their own etc but i was just wondering how far people do actually go to protect themselves and is this normal and its just me thats not upto date
Right i know people say safe sex if a must and ok its fair comment if u value your health but can u over do it? i was just reading a thread in the lets meet up forum and after reading the first message had a look at the couples add, now on their add it says safe sex is a must condoms, dental dams and gloves must be warn b4 any contact, or words to that effect
My question is can u over do it with safe sex?
If u felt the need to wear gloves b4 u touched anyone would u still carry on swinging and indeed if u met a couple and they covered u with a dental dam and put gloves on b4 they touched u would u not feel insutled?
I know its each to their own etc but i was just wondering how far people do actually go to protect themselves and is this normal and its just me thats not upto date
Funniest thing we had was we was chatting to a couple and they asked if we wanted 2 swap pics on messenger so we swapped addys and he sent me a pic of him and his mrs, only when i opened the pic it was of me and my hubby :shock: so i posted back wow ur mrs is georgeous i think ur a bit outa our league 
so he put back don't be silly send me some naughty pics i'm sure we will like you cheeky twat 
But in answer to your question yes we get that a lot, yes i like the friendship side of things, i'm happy to meet anyone for a drink, and have met several people on a few occasions even tho we will never play, but to some people swinging is sex end of and thats their choice theres no right and wrong u just have to be honest with people and let them know what u expect then its upto u if u want to meet them or not.
so he put back don't be silly send me some naughty pics i'm sure we will like you cheeky twat But in answer to your question yes we get that a lot, yes i like the friendship side of things, i'm happy to meet anyone for a drink, and have met several people on a few occasions even tho we will never play, but to some people swinging is sex end of and thats their choice theres no right and wrong u just have to be honest with people and let them know what u expect then its upto u if u want to meet them or not.
i didn't have obey in my vowes
U can pretty much write your own now days
And also i do not consider myself to be unfaithful if i swing with my hubby but i do understand what u mean, i don't see why having faith means u can't enjoy a good sex life but each to their own i suppose.
We know a female vicar that swings, so just goes to show u get all walks of life
U can pretty much write your own now days
And also i do not consider myself to be unfaithful if i swing with my hubby but i do understand what u mean, i don't see why having faith means u can't enjoy a good sex life but each to their own i suppose.
We know a female vicar that swings, so just goes to show u get all walks of life
Quote by Wishmaster
He walked over to me and said "i know u don't i" i said "yes i think u do"
Hmmmm ... is that all it takes NN ... I ask you if I know you and you then give me a BJ.... Excellent!!! (in best Bill & Ted grunge teenage accent) .......Does this mean your postman will be delivering french letters from now on
You mean you'd admit to knowing me
: A few months back i was shopping in one of the many local asda's and i spotted this guy i knew from chams, on my way over to him to say hello he noticed me and grabbed hold of a womans arm (who i assume was him unknowing that he goes to swinging clubs wife) and walked very quickly away from me
ooooooo i can't believe this thread lol
i have just got back from chameleons and in there tonight bumped into a guy who's kids in my daughters class at school lol
He walked over to me and said "i know u don't i" i said "yes i think u do" the subject of school was by passed and i took him to a room 4 a bj as u do lol
can't wait till kids go back in september now
i have just got back from chameleons and in there tonight bumped into a guy who's kids in my daughters class at school lol
He walked over to me and said "i know u don't i" i said "yes i think u do"
the subject of school was by passed and i took him to a room 4 a bj as u do lol can't wait till kids go back in september now
Quote by bluexxx
*** People who live in the North West, and who can drive (as I don't)
*** People I know already.... can't be doing with newbies, sorry
*** People who enjoy and have experience with group fun - much of my swinging is done in clubs - not really into straight 121s all that much really tbh so you must be comfortable with clubs and / or group sex
*** Bi guys - but nothing against straight guys really, provided they come equipped with their own female (that is, be bi if you're a single guy, but I don't care about your sexuality if you are a couple.... unless you are female, then I guess it would help if you're bi
*** People who have flexible working hours... I have limited time in the evenings, but can do some daytimes - it always helps if you have the same availability as me
Oooh a quiz, I love quizes. Let me see how I fair
Not in the NW, but can drive and only about an hour away...........1 point
We have met a couple of times.......................................................2 points
Good with groups............................................................................2 points
Bi guy, well got some bi tendancies
..........................................1 pointFlexible hours, mmm, some days are better than others................1 point
Making a total of 7 points
Is that good enough to qualify ????
oh oh i like quizes
not in nw and don't drive..........0 points
Seen u at a couple of munches........2 points
good with groups.......10 points
not a guy at all.............-15 points
flexable working hours, i can't do weekends at the mo......0 point
so thats a total of -3points
did i win?
You were close, very close
That'll do me
There was a club that opened close to us that catered for young, slim swingers, noone over 35 and no women over a dress size 12 was allowed, its was sold to new owners to opened it as a swinbging club to everyone within 6 months of opening, tells u a lot don't it lol
well tells u most swingers are not young and slim anyway
A good club will cater for everyone, and all walks of like do go as well.
well tells u most swingers are not young and slim anyway
A good club will cater for everyone, and all walks of like do go as well.
Quote by Happy Cats
I'm not from round here! Not from round here, I tell you!
The city that we live up the road from has been voted the worst in Britain for-
Teenage pregnancies
Worst diet
Highest proportion of people receiving benefits
Crime
Worst education authority
Apart from that its lovely!
my god it sounds like where i am from, they are all criminals covered in gold, dole chav wonnabies
and there a high drug rate too. 
Quote by jameslongterm05
Hello all
I am James from Midladns area. I am seeking company for Monday night at Chams.
Are you a single female looking for a male partner to take you to Chams?
Are you a single guy looking to hook up with a single guy to chat or more to?
Are you a couple, looking for a good lookin guy to meet up with?
If your any of the above, then please get back to me.
James
I'm female and going to chameleons tonight tho not really looking for a partner to go with i'm quite happpy to go alone
But if u have a add with a pic on PM me number and i'll say hi if i see you there
Anyone else going?
Quote by Nomad_Soul
*** People who live in the North West, and who can drive (as I don't)
*** People I know already.... can't be doing with newbies, sorry
*** People who enjoy and have experience with group fun - much of my swinging is done in clubs - not really into straight 121s all that much really tbh so you must be comfortable with clubs and / or group sex
*** Bi guys - but nothing against straight guys really, provided they come equipped with their own female (that is, be bi if you're a single guy, but I don't care about your sexuality if you are a couple.... unless you are female, then I guess it would help if you're bi
*** People who have flexible working hours... I have limited time in the evenings, but can do some daytimes - it always helps if you have the same availability as me
Oooh a quiz, I love quizes. Let me see how I fair
Not in the NW, but can drive and only about an hour away...........1 point
We have met a couple of times.......................................................2 points
Good with groups............................................................................2 points
Bi guy, well got some bi tendancies
..........................................1 pointFlexible hours, mmm, some days are better than others................1 point
Making a total of 7 points
Is that good enough to qualify ????
oh oh i like quizes
not in nw and don't drive..........0 points
Seen u at a couple of munches........2 points
good with groups.......10 points
not a guy at all.............-15 points
flexable working hours, i can't do weekends at the mo......0 point
so thats a total of -3points
did i win?
hwoar:I've got drunk many times and not remembered the night b4, mostly in my younger days, i even woke up in a fish pond once after a party
I did used to drink way to much so i decided to put a stop to it, so i drink less now lol
Tho i think everyone gets drunk every now and again its only human to over do it sometimes
I did used to drink way to much so i decided to put a stop to it, so i drink less now lol
Tho i think everyone gets drunk every now and again its only human to over do it sometimes
Quote by MikeC
Hi all,
Lately I have started to notice things about myself this is probably tied in to attending more and more SH events.
I know a lot of people know me as a tart in the forum and the chatroom, however I do have a shy side.
Please don’t laugh at this, this is a serious post, but when do u get top the point when talking or flirting with someone, to maybe take it that further step to playing.
I have been in situations when I would like to take it that further step but I can’t find either the right words to ask or am unsure if the person/people involved would be OK and maybe want to play.
For me this stems from fear of rejection and being hated but I just would like to know what other peoples thought are on the matter and how do other people deal with such feelings.
i am nothing in real life like i am on here, on a pc where its seems almost not real its easy to flirt etc with people but i am a really low confident person and find it really hard to meet new people in real life, i think many people feel as u do, on here and real life is not the same thing at all
