i had to go to the hospital a few years ago and have 2 taken out i was in agony for days after and felt and looked like i had been beat about the face with a based ball bat
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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 52
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I totally agree with you real beauty comes from within, not whats on the out side but you was talking about confidence not what other think of us, i am sure many many people will find your girlfriend a very attractive women but if does not feel it herself she will never believe people and its how she feels that matters the most not what other think about her 
Well i'm going to be totally honest and probabily go against what everyone else had said
confidence is something you either have or you don't have, i have never been a confident person and i doubt i ever will be, last year i lost over 6 stone in my quest to feel better and to be liked by more people, didn't work cause even tho i lost the weight the lack of confidence is still there, due to this i put quite a bit of it back on, this is a problem that drives my hubby mad, i have the habbit of deciding for people if they like me or not and speaking as a bigger women myself very much dount you will find many slim women or coupels with slim women who will be attracted to larger ladies, i don't mean that nasty i'm just talking from my own experience.
We have been swinging for about 5 years now and even after all that time i still do not like getting naked in front of to many people and i still find it very hard to make myself meet people, which is why i use clubs as people can see me so know if they like me.
besides that i don't know what else to say, i know its probabily not what u wanted to hear and was more looking for a ...hey i'm a big girl and i have a great time...type reply but i just don't find it as easy as that lol
confidence is something you either have or you don't have, i have never been a confident person and i doubt i ever will be, last year i lost over 6 stone in my quest to feel better and to be liked by more people, didn't work cause even tho i lost the weight the lack of confidence is still there, due to this i put quite a bit of it back on, this is a problem that drives my hubby mad, i have the habbit of deciding for people if they like me or not and speaking as a bigger women myself very much dount you will find many slim women or coupels with slim women who will be attracted to larger ladies, i don't mean that nasty i'm just talking from my own experience.
We have been swinging for about 5 years now and even after all that time i still do not like getting naked in front of to many people and i still find it very hard to make myself meet people, which is why i use clubs as people can see me so know if they like me.
besides that i don't know what else to say, i know its probabily not what u wanted to hear and was more looking for a ...hey i'm a big girl and i have a great time...type reply but i just don't find it as easy as that lol
Quote by Dawn_Mids
Who me? :shock: As if I'd partake in such hedonous activities Dawn... :angel: I'm shocked and offended by your comments
Jump in my box and I'll tell you all about it :rascal:
I love getting in your box :giggle:
I hope its clean and tidy without any damp patches or lost men in there :lol2:
i hear there a mini bus still in there from the last trip :lol2:
Quote by Angel Chat
*sneaks in straightening her clthing and smoothing her hair
Orgy? What orgy? Nope dunno what you mean. I've been fast asleep and certainly not partaking in any orgy like um... things
Me think you know more than you are letting on young lady.
Now spill the beans :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Who me? :shock: As if I'd partake in such hedonous activities Dawn... :angel: I'm shocked and offended by your comments
Jump in my box and I'll tell you all about it :rascal:
yeah yeah :angel:
now why don't we believe ya lol
Quote by Angel Chat
*sneaks in straightening her clthing and smoothing her hair
Orgy? What orgy? Nope dunno what you mean. I've been fast asleep and certainly not partaking in any orgy like um... things
Now where's the bloody chatroom gone??
OMG where u been?
well ur the angel of chat so get us in now woman :lol2:
Quote by Dawn_Mids
OMG :eeek:
who locked the door: dawn are you using ur new butt plug as a door wedge
let me in ya bastards :haha:
i can't get in on mirc or java
Oi mare, it wasn't for me, it was for a friend
No wonder they won't let you in, scary woman
look
i've told you b4 i'm not scary i'm just honest
friend my arse :moon:
Quote by bluexxx
Maybe we should start a list and see who is missing.
I'm not, obviously
You don't think they are having a party and have locked us out do you
Maybe its Mark and he is having an orgy with the ladies :eeek:
LET ME IN YOU BASTARDS
:lol2:
Orgy......???? :shock: :shock: :shock: Mark and loads of women?????? :shock: :shock: :shock: Yeah..... that could be it..... damn.... so it's not a kidnap situation after all....................... damn, damn, damn
..... I wanted to be a hero and save them all.............. 
but if they're all just having an orgy they can sod off...... why didn't they invite me???? Sarge, you can go back to sleep, they don't need you after all
i've been kidnapped you can save me :rascal:
I do understand about not wanting to hurt peoples feeling but as i have already said, in this weather if he had not had a bath/shower he must have known he was a bit smelly, god in this heat you can smell yourself, and expecting you to carry on anyway :shock: is not the kind of person who should have his feelings spared, what about your feelings?
Quote by northwest-cpl
anyone familiar with ourplace4fun or the hellfireclub?
newbie here as you can see.
very real, bascially a single guy and his couple friends trying to sort out midweek club / party.
The ad number you quote (219533) would suggest a single male seraching for couples...
A cynical person might assume that it might be..... well,....... I'm sure eveyone know what I'm kind of getting at.....
Dont ya think?
Have we got the wrong end of the wrong stick????
D&M xx
Surely if you are "getting at something" then you should say it? The 2 posts above yours clearly state that he is a single guy, friendly with a couple and that the 3some want to go to a party or club. How is his advert as a single guy conflicting with asking about clubs and parties that they can go to as a 3some? What evidence have you got to arouse your cynicism?
Have we got the wrong end of the wrong stick????
i was just going to say he has said hes a single male looking for a party with m8 but i not bother seeing as u have already pointed this out
hang on i just have
lol
seems genuine enough to me tho
Well i'm sorry but i would have refused to play with someone who was unclean, not being funny but sod his feeling he didn't care enough for you to have a shower first then why should you care about his feelings, if he hadn't washed in this weather he must have known he was smelling and let u carry on anyway :shock:
ur a kinder person than me cause i would have walked out
ur a kinder person than me cause i would have walked out
Quote by kelly milf
Basically i want my gf to have sex with anotha guy
me and jim have been been together since school and had our 1st encounter at the age of 26.
it was a mmf 3some with one of his friends we had a great time but next morning we felt really down and regretted it. it took mounths to get over what we had done. and we didnt dabble till years after when we were about 30.
when the time came we didnt rush in as before.
we started off by me wearing see through things and short skirts when his mates were round , then (accidentally) droping my towell and progressed to asking the mates to bring me a cup of tea while i was in the when we were really sure and had picked someone we could trust we went a stage further by letting this freind watch us have sex and wank himself then went on to me wanking the friend off then finally the full thing. evry one was happy.
so my advise would be this.
be sure you love and fully trust your partner.
start off small, exhibitionism can be ssooooo erotic.
use someone you trust.
and only when you and your partner are 110% sure go for it.
and above all have fun because fun is what its all about.
i know thread isn't about you but felt i had to comment on this
In my opinion you should never mix swinging with friends thats when problems really start, personally i would never even dream of coming onto any of my hubbies m8, thats what these sites are for, i'm sure had your 3sum been with a guy you had met of here instead of a m8 you would not have felt so bad after or took so long to get over it, i know many people who have mixed swinging with out side the scene m8 and have ended up losing friends over it, i have always said, never have sex with anyone you would miss if if went tits up lol
Quote by piercerbabe
im shaved, and i actually find it highly amusing when before meeting a guy he states he only likes shaven, then turns up with his on mini jungle going on down there :shock:
i dont expect a man to shave the whole lot but i think its nice when they have bothered to trim at least. Its all down to personal preference i know but come on fellas we hate pubes down the throat etc as much as you do.
xxx fem xxxx
Here here!!
Yup i agree, pubes arnt nice and in my experience the hair holds on to any unpleasent odours. (Although a freshly showered nether region is preferable to an 'all day long, just in from work' region!)
My mans not too hairy so although he doesnt shave its not the end of the world. But walking rugs could do a courtesy trim at least!! ;) :P
xx
yep i'm with you girls
i think men think shaving is a womans thing and women actually like fighting their way thro a forest
same as voddy says its depends on the club, some clubs are night club based so u dress up as nice/sexy as poss, some are sauna based clubs with jacuzzi's, pools etc so most just put a towel on saves getting dressed and undressed all the time, you'll have to think about what kid of club you will want to go to, if you want to get dressed up and have a boogy, or if you want to have a relaxing night in a club with a wet area, theres a clubs section on the site with a selection of clubs and their web sites, most have the clubs phone numbers on so may be give them a call and ask whyat their dress code is
