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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 52
UK

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Quote by mazandden
whats wrong with the spitting????????
i really like that!!!
Den

each to their own i guess but i have to me honest if i was with a guy and he spat on my floo i'd smack him in the choppers lol
I think thats why i don't like to plan things to far in the future, the longer ahead you plan things the more time its gives things to go wrong lol i as a rule just go in the chat room when i have a free night and see who's about, works much better for me than saying...ahhhh yeah i'm free next friday fancy a meet lol
I have had it before tho when i've arranged to meet a guy and i had to call it off so we made another date then he had to call it off i just got bored with him after that lol
Quote by splendid_
i dont mind soft swap so long as everyones involved, what does put me off is when couples want to soft swap but mainly fem/fem while the men watch, im not a free peep show lol

for goodness sake nympho... of course you are wink
I dislike that too. It is one of the myriad of reasons why I don't meet couples.
splendid
oh am i? sorry redface so thate where i've been going wrong lol
fancy putting a show on with me ;) :rascal:
Quote by mdr2000
lol ... I'm sitting here laughing at you guys sorry.
I have to ask one thing... If you don't like why watch lol??

cause its a laugh innit dunno
lol
I have one of them electric toning machines which is basically same as a tens machine, have to admit i've never really though about putting it on my bits i've seen the way it makes the muscles in my legs twitch :shock:
i dont mind soft swap so long as everyones involved, what does put me off is when couples want to soft swap but mainly fem/fem while the men watch, im not a free peep show lol
70s porn turns me off cause the women are so hairy confused :shock:
Porn that tries to put a bit of a story line in it turns me off cause they all such crap actors, ffs get ya kit off its all your good at rotflmao
Crap dubbing turns me off cause i cant help but look at the lips while the talkings on so you miss any action rolleyes
Like Helen i also find using spit for lube a bit naff confused
i also find porn with the plastic 'perfect' women in a bit naff, when a womans being shagged her boobs should bounce lol infact the whole 'script' porn in general is a bit dodgy i have seen some amature porn thats a lot better just knowing ther really enjoying it instead of playing up for the camera does it for me every time :rascal:
oh and when you see women drinking cum from cups or licking it off plates etc i even find snowballing a bit stomach turning confused confused
Quote by bbw_lover
If you want more info about the supported cameras, have a look here;

i have a couple of web cams off a list supplied my mac for web cams that work on apple and indeed they do but they still not go in the chat room confused
we have 2 macs and i have never got a web cam to work in the chat room on them, its ok on msn and and some other sites but not on here, the new macs with the built in web cams work in the chat room tho, all because they are mac compatible it does not mean they will work in swingers heaven chat room
Quote by DreamerHelen
I have actually been known to take a guy's socks off while he's been playing.... redface
It's just plain wrong!!! evil

i'd have booted him out of bed never mind took them off lol
Quote by xtc2005
I think in part she is trying to wind him up. She tends to have low self esteem, and gets furious with him constantly looking at porn mags and commenting on all that he see's, and thinks nothing of it. She essentially wants to give him a taste of his own medicine.
She cannot understand, why he needs to look, when she is (in her own words a nympho), who is happy to indulge his every sexual desire, where ever and when ever he wants.
Davin

its not always a case of need but usually a case of want, guess thats like people saying they cant understand why couples need to swing when they have each other, its just variety isn't it? don't mean hes not happy with what he has, nobody who swings looks for carbon copies of their partners do they? so maybe she should realize that all because he looks at porn mags with young ladies in them it does not mean he wants to replace her with one and also her looking at porn mags with young men in may not bother him at all, most people look at porn mags with young thin woman in because thats whats readily available not always because its what they would choose
Quote by louise_and_joe
For me, id define swinging as knowing exactly what your both up to and an open relationship as not.
Louise xx

how can it be a open relationship if you dont know what each others upto? i would have though even if your not always there you would still know what your partners getting upto other wise it would be cheating? dunno
im not sure what we are as we meet as a couple and at times as singles, does that make us swingers in a open relationship? lol
what i want to know is, if there are any johovas (or however its spelt lol) witnesses on the site maybe you can help lol in Your bible its says all johovas witnesses have a place in heaven and there are 45,000 places, now theres estimated over 5 million jovos at the moment so when this dooms day comes you bible talks about wheres the rest of you going dunno and if theres only 45,000 of you when the world ends why did the other 4 million odd turn their backs on the religion!!
i personally done see any harm in learning about other peoples religion, i think its good to learn about all walks of life maybe then people will tolerate other better, what did naff me off a bit however was my 6 year olds doing all about god and adam and eve at school at the moment and one day she came home and was asking me all about it, now personally i don't go for religion at all and to me adam and eve is no more than a story but i respect other peoples opinions and would never say anyone was wrong just cause i did'nt believe in it so i said to her, well some people believe in adam and eve but some people also believe we came from moneys, which was hard for her to understand but i explained the best i could, which took about 3 hours for her to grasp it lol anyway the next day she went into school and told her teacher what i had told her to which the teacher replied well your mothers wrong :shock: obviously i wasnt to happy about this and went to see said teacher and was told that i shouldnt be telling my daughter things like that when shes trying to teach them the bible confused hummmmm as a mother am i not allowed to give my opinion on such matters to my daughter and had it been a child of a different religion would the teacher till be telling the kids their parents are wrong?
i think the biggest thing for me when looking to meet a guy is looking for one whos not just after a shag, i know that sounds odd on a swingers site and by that i do not mean after a relationship, just someone whos interested in you as a person, i like to think if im playing with someone they actually like me and see he as another human rather just a hole and or better than another wank confused far to many guy on here come over as not really bothered what you look like so long as your up for it and a few have acted like im a total freak at suggesting we go out for a drink first, ive had guys offer to book hotels rooms before we've even met cause they just take it as red cause you meet your going to have sex with them, so for me i just look for guys who come over in their adds as looking for same as me, have a chat first, meet up socially first if we get on and the talk about playing if we hit it off, oh and pics help and i dont mean a cock shot from every angle known to man lol
unless im reading the opening post wrong i personally cant see what what the guy did wrong, you said he said it was nice to see you both at this club tuesday so he obviously made a mistake and though it was you with you partner and was only being polite by saying hi was nice to see you confused
if i went to a club and saw someone there and then saw them at another club a few days later i think i would say hi to them too
i know a couple where the female is bi and her partner wanted to try bi and she out right told him no as she didnt want her partner to be bi as she though two men together was wrong and was scared it would put other couples off confused confused
makes no sense to me at all but each to their own i guess
Quote by lovems
I keep thinking about getting it done again but need some way of hiding them or making them less conspicuous.

why?? dunno
i have piercings and so does my hubby i would never try to hide mine, you have them done for you so if others dont like them tuff, to be honest i think piercings are widely accepted now days, saying that we did have a couple want to meet us and asked if i would take out my genital piercing as his mrs didnt like it to which i replied can she dye her hair im not really into blondes rolleyes
if you like them have them sod anyone else
Quote by -loz-
biggrin Its the FRIDAY 2nd so tonight
bit far away for you tho hunny its in Southampton way
i know you dont travel far wink

ohh well i'll stay at home then lol
Quote by Fozzy40
Hi all,
I am due to go to Swingers Junction this Saturday 2nd November, but my party partner has come down with a thoat infection sad
So shes going to be tucked up in her bad......
So does anyone fancy some fun this Friday eve?......
PM/Contact me for more info.........
Fozzy
biggrin

ok so when is it friday or saturday?, 2nd or 3rd? im confused and anyone who knows me know thats not hard lol
id say well i was kinda hoping she would i was wondering what the single life was like now days :lol2:
i've been 3 times, first time i said it was crap and i'd never go again, second time i went back just to make sure and give it a fair running not quite sure why i went the third time cause i didn't like it either of the times before lol never been back
Quote by BiWelshMinx
Forgive me for on this one I sinned : sad

I don't think so Lost-it's always going to be an emotive subject and probably one of those subjects that people have an opinion about even if they haven't been close to a situation. It meandered a little away from the original topic but then most threads do. Some very brave people posted some very personal situations (((hugs))) to them as I am sure it wasn't easy for them.
The topic 'touched a nerve' with me, as I am the woman in the scenario I described. I'm 20 wks pregnant and the father isn't interested-he thinks abortion is a valid form of birth control and I disagree. Those of you who know me know I have spent the last year working very hard to get promoted, so while this baby was not planned, it doesn't mean it's now not wanted. Luckily, I am emotionally and financially able to raise this baby by myself. Things at work will just have to slow down for a bit, but I believe everything happens for a reason. ;)
I didn't find any comments on this thread offensive, whatever the opinion of the poster. Some comments may have been posted in haste-but which one of us is not guilty of that at some point ? ;)
i didnt know you was pregnant :shock:
i really need to get out more lol
well if you ever need a baby sitter dont look at me but i can loan you my daughter my child slavery rates are very good lol
My personal opinion on this subject is i dont really agree with abortions at all, if the mother and child is healthy then i cant see no reason why the child cant be given a chance in life and be adopted out to a loving family who cant have children of their own, of course its not a ideal world and such things will never be stopped, its difficult to say wether the father should have a say i think it depends on the situation, if they are a couple who hav'nt been together long, dont live together and have really just had a couple of fumbles and he wants her to keep the child so he can pop in for a cuppa once a week and see it but shes expected to look after it and bring it up then i would say the choice should be hers, if however they are a couple who have a real relationship, live together etc and he genuinly wants to be a full time part of the childs life then i think he should have some say, tho the chances are if the womans already made her mind up she wont lister anyway lol
my nipples seem to have gotten bigger of late, not sure if they actually have or they just seem bigger cause my boobs are smaller? does that even make sense? dunno
they do get biggish when errect i suppose and they are, and always have been, overly sensative, i cant cope with anything more than a lick or light such cause it just hurts confused i have never cum just by having them played with and im 99.9% sure i never will, tho i do cum better if im having them played with while having other things done to me at the same time ;) tho this usually requires the help of more than one other person redface
ive only been to two clubs that sells drink one being xtasia but to be honest its pretty cheap so i cant say as it bothered me, i wouldnt choose a club based on wether you could take your own drinks or not im more than happy to pay for drinks at a club as long as i enjoy going there