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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 52
UK

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well being someone whos lost nearly 7 stone over the past year i'm quite up on this subject lol
Join the gym thats my advice, i eat a lot of pasta and rice meals but they are very hi in carbs and if your not burning it off then i wouldnt advise you eat a lot of it, dont go mad on salads as most people do when on a diet they dont fill you for long and a hour later you'll want feeding again confused joining a slimming club has helped me a lot, just knowing someone will weigh me every week and know if i have gained has helped me stick to it no end, and dont forget anything in moderation is ok including cake biggrin
well i think i had a good night confused the bits i can remember i did anyway :lol2:
Thanks Try and everyone who went for a good night
I did actually spot a really good looking guy there and i have no idea who he was so im now on a mission lol
Having read thro this thread i have to say i dont think sexual preference is being judgemental, its sexual preference and just that, i personally wouldnt go for a very over weight guy but that dont mean i think theres anything wrong with them, or wouldnt talk to them but of course if i looked at someones pics and didnt like the way they looked, for any reason not just cause of their weight, i wouldnt speak to them with a view of meeting but that dose not mean i wouldnt talk to them at all, but i think that would go for anyone, and i'm pretty sure guys look at my pics and think.....shes not for me.....and thats ok cause at the end of the day noones for everyone and we have to accept that.
its the cov social that night so most of the mids regulars that go to chams will be at the social smile
not very helpful i know but though it may shine a light on why noone else from the site seems to be going lol
Quote by dekntan
electric toothbrush redface
:shock:

im with you on that one m8, i have 3 and dont clean jmy teeth with any lol
Quote by de_sade
cool
Tight, lacy Brazilian Briefs
:thumbup:

ohhh i love them brazzillian thongs :shock: never even heard of them till a few weeks back and i was underwear shopping and they cought my eye so i got some, they so pretty and comfy, what more could as girl want :smug:
I have been to the GU clinic just for piece of mind as i think many people do, i dont really think the staff care much about your life style whenever i have gone, tho i dont say we are swingers as i hate the phrase and dont see myself as a swinger, i do say we have a open marrage and we have sex with other people, the staff have never batted a eye lid at this and never made me feel embarrased, i think they hear so many stories they dont dont care and get used to it as every day life.
Quote by Dawnie
looking at the size of the list i think we need name badges lol

Its OK, everyone knows you :lol2::lol2: :lol2:
not everyone, on my last count there was 3 members i havnt met yet rolleyes they may go you know ;)
Quote by warwick
It means youre gobby numptynortos :shock:
im also a taurus born same day as nortynumpty1 just many many years later rolleyes

of all the people you have to share your birthday with lol
and thats many many many many years later :lol2:
Quote by Dawnie
cant't believe theres no bull yet lol not one taurean so far.....wonder why that is??

I'm here now wave
I'm a Taurean, full of bull :smug:
me too wave
not sure what that means as i have never followed star signs confused
i would have though all bi fems on here have had good and bad experiances with both women and men
Quote by de_sade
I knew I'd get some stick for this. lol
wink

You reckon?
Wait until the regulars arrive... wink
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we not all as rude as you confused
Try going to the family planning and asking for their advice
Any anyway condoms arnt ment to be comfy thats how they work, they annoy the shit out you that much you'd sonner go without.....
.....failing that you could always ask de sade if you can borrow his fully laytex body suit!! :shock: he really has one you know with a pocket for dental damms just incase ;)
sorry was i actually even allowed to asnwer this seeing as it was a 'questipon for the guys' ??
right i have to say tho i do repect other peoples beliefs but i pesonally do go for all this circle around the bed and something entering you home stuff, putting a protective circle round your bed will work for you cause you believe in it i doubt it would help me because my minds not open to such things, its, in my opinion, psychological, dreaming is just a over active part of your brain the dreams you have comes down to the type of person you are, and by that i do not mean good people have good dreams and bad people have bad ones, i mean expeiances in your life that my come to light while your sleeping even tho you may not think about it while your awake, some people have good dreams some have bad ones, i would suggest going to your doctor and seeing if he/she can help.
Quote by Lilmiss
we have been members for over 3 years play at clubs in the midlands about 7 times a year both 36 bi fem . we have only met 2 couples of a swingers site and it was a waste of time we have to get a sitter to have my son over night to play and have decided that we are only going to meet at clubs have you found fun if so please tell us as we are about to give up on the whole web thing

Well Well Well....
When i read this i just thought awww.. a bit of bad luck like the rest of us. Until i just saw you in the chatroom... I think if you changed your attitude instead of posting these such comments...
horney2staff: no play at clubs all the time not into people wasting me time
horney2staff: happy wanking to all you sad people
Maybe you will get further!!!
Just remember, YOU too was a sad person in that chatroom.
rolleyes

not suprised you've only had two meets if thats the attitude you have towards the people you are trying to pull, infact i cant believe you've had two!!
maybe if you didnt see meeting people and not getting a shag as a waste of time and more of a night out and you may find the right peson next time you may not be so bitter and get more luck
its depends how the vasectomy is done, my hubby had the snip and we was told all the facts and odds of a reversal and they can do it two ways, firstly they can do whats called crop and shear where they actually cut the tubes and burn the ends and sew them back with has a very very low successful reversal rate or they can just clamp the tube and by all accounts thats a lot easier to reverse and has a much higher successful reversal rate.
Quote by winchwench
Disclaimer, I'm knackered.......but......
Aren't TV'S & CD's men then? Just one variation on the theme?
Surely if they're looking for men, then they're in the right section. Gay/Bi CD/TV's are a sub-section of that section.
If a fem wanted to play with a straight CD/TV, she would go to the CD/TV section. Wouldn't she have equal cause to grumble at having to wade through all the gay guys?
It makes sense in my head. confused

oh i spotted that after i posted.....what she said :lol2:
makes perfect sence to me too
but TV are men so are they actually doing anything wrong by putting their adds in the men seeking men section? dunno
Quote by secretdreams
Hi all smile
As a male in his mid forties, I do find a Lady in her fifties, who knows how to dress wink extremely sexy. However,that certainly does not in any way detract from the lovely Ladies younger than myself, I wonder what is the overall concensus ? and also is a Lady sexier with Stockings and High heels - or not ? rolleyes
It would be interesting to see how the voting goes and also the points of view.
smile

admit it your just not fussy are you lol
Quote by jaymar
Umm.......playing with regular friends is more of an affair than swinging I would have thought.....Regulars don't count as anyone (including myself) has a list of previous playmates who would turn up.
To be clear, I am talking avbout men who advertise on this site for sex but who make excuses if offered a chance to play.....and there are loads of them.
I think idiots is hardly unfair, timewasters is pretty accurate. Rejects simply refers to the men invited who blow themselves out, it is not a label for them personally.
Try reponding to some of the single men who advertise on here virtually begging for a meeting.......if you offer twenty a definate meet I doubt more than two would accept! that does not relate simply to my experience on this site, but to lots of other women as well. I notice that you don't use the contact ads on the site, perhaps if you did, you would realise what I mean.
You are right in one respect, everyone is entitled to their own opinion, it's just that, based on real experience ON THIS SITE, I find I cannot agree with yours. Should you change how you use the site you may find your opinion changing.

Sorry hun, but I still find the tone of your writing very aggressive, and it would put me off.
sad
maybe thats because out of them 20 you offer only two of them like you, im on a swinging site but does not mean i'll meet everyone who asks and i would have though same goes for men, many people on this site seem to assum single guys are desparate and will meet any woman or couple thats asks which isn't true they have the rights to turn offers down same as everyone else and also maybe there im busy excuses are their way of being polite because they dont want to hurt anyones feelings by saying your not my type.
yeah but be careful cause of u have 2 accounts on one ip address they can ban one for having mutiple accounts lol
chams bar area is almost dead since the smoking ban, everyone is outside on the roof garden even the none smokers :shock: i have been to a few clubs since the smoking ban and none have, in my experiance, got any busier since then ban, even the bar staff in a few clubs have commented on how quiet it is now, a few none smokers i know said how good it would be with the smoke free air but i have noticed a few in the smoking area as thats where most people are
Quote by sfwallace
Dear couple,
I agree with you .....
Me and my friend have made same experience when looking for couples or parties on swingers websides.
See, I now want to visit my friend Sept 30th until Oct 5 th in Plymouth and we were looking for couples, parties in that area but unsuccessful still.
I am from Hamburg and here are at least three good to very good CLUBS in town, open at least 4 days a week, at a admission from 25 - 50 Euro a couple.
A shame that me friend cannot come to see me this time.... so we still are searching for the right couple....
Kind regards,
Stefanie

it dont mean swinging sites are a waste of time just because you cant find what your looking for confused
heres a thought, maybe these people are genuine but when you reply to them they really are ill or unable to meet you, dont mean if someone else replys a week later they not meet them confused
we met a couple once and she was a vicor :shock: i didnt believe her at first but it turned out it was true she really was and he worked for the chruch she was the vicor for, im sure theres a better way of explaining that but hey im thick lol
the problem is cause most of these 'yobs' are under 18 they seem to get away with it, the young lad who attacked sleazy was only 17 at the time and tho he had a criminal record as long as your arm with offences that included, ABH, GBH, assult he robbed a old man at knife point to name but a few he had never been given a custodial sentance because of his age, when we pressed charges the police advised us to hold off the court hearing till August as that was when his 18th birthday was and he could then be tried as a adult, which we did, they charged him with section 18 which carries a 6 to 10 years sentance, his solicitor actually asked us if we would do a binding :shock: to which he got a very rude reply but they still did their bargaining in the court room, dropped the charge to assult and the lad only got 18 months he was back inside in less that two months after he got out, guess thats justice for you.