Quote by sleazy
our sofa is leather but its black......... does that mean we are only half swingers ? lol
no it means we have 3 kids so went for dark, bad move actually as black leather shows up every stain going :shock:
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Quote by bbw_lover
I am very aware of my stretch marks and scars, specially on my tum. I'm a big girl and have had twins, so you cam imagine how I look
But, I once moaned about them to Ian and he came back with, "I'm always too busy looking at your tits to notice" :lol2: :lol2:
We all have scars but many people have fun with a mind and soul, not just a body :thumbup:
Exactly!
Not all men are shallow, some of us like the whole package, so wear your scars with pride.
its true, i think many women feel the pressure to look 'perfect' i know i do but if the truth be known hardly any of us are, and the ones that do look perfect to use have just as many self body issues as the rest of us, i guess we just have to accept ourselves for what we are and remember not everyone see's us as well see us which are easy words but not so easy to accept.
Quote by Jgee
Hi all, i'm quite to new to all this and wanted to ask a question to those in the know. I'm all curves, which I love, but I do have some horrible scars and stretch marks on my stomach after having my child. I feel compelled to tell potential partners...Am I being silly? Don't want to disappoint anyone? What do you think?
no its not silly im the same, tho i think its saft to say not many guys are bothered about stretch marks on here but if you dont feel comfy with something you feel you have to point it out
about 4 years ago now my husband was attacked by a group of teenagers, we used to live in a block of flats and the kids used to use the hall ways as a hang out point to smoke their dope etc, anyway one night it was about 8pm and in feb so was dark i went out and told them to clear off as i did from time to time only to have one lad aged 17 to have a go at me on this my hubby came out and escorted him out the building, is was shouting and swearing showing off in front of his mates etc as they do but once out the block my husband turned to come back in, the one lad he took out had a unopened bottle of wine in his hand and i saw his coming after my husband and he went for the back of his head with the bottle anyway i shouted as i saw the lad going for him and on this my husband turned round and held up his arm to protect his head and the lad smashed the bottle over his elbo, it didnt seem to bad at the time but my hubby was in shock we called the police and they called a ambulance, at the hospital they took a x ray and revealed that his arm was badly smashed, his elbo had be removed totally and a section of bone about 3 inch long was just shattered, at first they was going to just amputate his arm above the elbo as it was so badly damaged but they later decided to try and save the arm, luckly they did save his arm but is took 3 operations that included a prostetic elbo, a metal plate and pins and a bone graft off his hip to replace the missing bone in his arm, his lost some usage of that arm but guess its better than not having it at all.
i think being a good fuck is as much about the person your with than how good you yourself are, i mean we do what we do pretty much same with everyone but sometimes you come away thinking 'that was fab' and other times you think 'i was really shit' if you dont connect sexually with the person your with its never going to be good, im a firm believer of the saying your only as good as the person your shagging.
I also suffered from depression a few years back i knew the reason for my depression tho i dont really want to go into it on here, i think personally you have to know yourself why its happening, depression usually has a root problem and only you will know what that is, if you know the problem thats causing it your half way there, i would say go to your doctor and ask him to refure you to someone who can help you, tho medication may help you feel better its not a cure you need to talk to someone who can really help you thro it and the mixture of both will help you thro it 
Quote by Midlandsman1970
I have had to cancel on a couple of occasions, car trouble is actually a truthful one and also my ex wife deciding to give me our kids for the weekend without any prior warning (love my kids would drop any plans for them!!)
I have to apologise to well_busty_babei arranged to go to one of her parties but didnt go and didnt let her know.
My excuse, i was probably wasted to oblivion at the time and on one of my downers
but im alright now
i dont actually class people who let you know in advance as time wasters tho, i have had 2 cancel a few times cause of kids etc one night my youngest fell on the back garden and cut her leg open quite badly and i had to call a guy up about 30 mins before i was supposed to be meeting him, i did feel bad as it was short notice but else you supposed to do? manners cost nothing (well maybe a 10p text) but that 10p text is that diffarence between a time waster and one of them things that cant be helped.
Quote by Shireen
I am at an atvantage Lilmiss as we have met and I know you quite well from the chatroom... Like quite a few people on the forum you can come across quite harsh but I know you didn't really mean to be, like you we have heard it all before :lol2:
Sometime a little tolerance for people new to the experience could be given??
Anyway I still luffs yaEven if you are a mardy cow :giggle:
i've met her too and i still find her harsh :shock:
Quote by Freckledbird
Cravings are supposedly the body's way of letting you know you are deficient in some mineral or vitamin. You're supposed to act on them, for that reason.
When I was pregnant, I went off coffee and still now drink more tea than coffee. I craved bananas with piccallilli during one pregnancy, but never tried it! The coal craving is quite a common one.
me too, i couldnt even make a cup for anyone else because just the smell used to amke me feel sick
Quote by Lilmiss
Moan Moan Moan!!!!!!!!!
Sorry!!! but we all get them..
Just move on!!
i agree its all part of swinging, my advice is go to social meet where you can get to know people first before you arrange to meet them on a more personal level, i have never been stood up by anyone i have met at a social meet
Quote by makaveli69
If the truth does come out and the parents were involved in any way,how could they do such a thing....
Something isn't right there...........
i saw on sky news one morning while jogging away at the gym that they think it was accidental death it was suggested they left the kids and she had a accident and when here mother returned she found her dead, panicked and hid the body then reported her stolen, theres a few stories floating about at the min and i guess we'll never know the truth but at the end of the day if they didnt go and leave the kids alone she would still be alive today so in my eyes it comes down to the parents anyway.
being someone who works for asda they will only do pics that you can see in papers, ie boobs, sexy undie shots etc not hard sex shots however if u take your card and just print them on pics as apposed 2 discs you can do what you like as they dont see the pics the machine prints them there and then and they just get a print out of how many you have printed and charge you per pic
Quote by sleazy
And my wifes mother defineatley did..
Now don't get me wrong, I love her to bits and she certainly has her skills, I can't really think what they are at the moment but I am sure she has some. One thing I am sure of though is that non of her skills have ever been near a kitchen. She decided today that rather than spend a quid on egg mayonnaise she would simply make her own.......
HOW THE HELL DO YOU BURN BOILED EGGS
:shock: i can't believe you took a pic and posted it on the net :shock: whats wrong with you man? :lol2:
ok in my defence i'm a crap cook i always say if god wanted us to cook he wouldnt have invented microwaves
I have noticed too, i work nights and finish at 6am it was only a couple or so weeks ago when it was bright day light when i came out of work when i came out on monday it was still dark, funny thing is i never noticed it being that kinda not quite light but not dark bit it seemed to go from day light to night over night
