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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 52
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i doubt your age will go against you i must admit most who go are older than you so the question you have to ask yourself is are you looking to play with older people or more couples your own age cause if you after couples in their 20's also you may find it hard and in my experiance not that many go
A frind of mine from the BBW room told me about this sad loss last night, debb was the first person who spoke to me when i started going in the BBW room made me feel very welcome and never had a bad word to say, even at 3am when i couldnt sleep you could be sure she was in there for a natter
God bless you beautiful one and i hope your in a batter place
God bless you beautiful one and i hope your in a batter place
(weight not money lol)
Quote by babe and him
Reading some of the posts on here, we were not going to put any name to the clubs involved, but we were at chams sun as well and the second incident took place there and yes we played in room with round bed with no problems, we had a great night there even with the incident.
We did also have a single male make a few rude comments about the size of babes boobs as we were getting in hot tub ( which he must have thought was a turn on for her, which if fact turned her off him straight away) he was leaving as we got in, but came straight back in and proceeded to sit next to babe with the impression she wanted to play with him, we both said no and he left, twice more that night we had to say no to him, what a pain,lol
We both enjoy people joining in with us, but pushy, rude people are a big turn off to us and we will not entertain them in any way, the polite person who waits to be asked in some way, even a soft stroke on babes arm, will often get an invite,
B n H
well i cant say i ever have that problem takes you half a hour to find my boobs
Quote by Bazza64
Can we add our congratulations to you both too, and our wishes for many more happy years together
not to many please i cant cope with many more of his crap jokes :shock:
Awww bough a tear to my eye but then i realised i had a eye lash it in :lol2:
Thank you all and happy anniversary to you too my ikkle angel of delight
Quote by essex34m
but then i have always worked on the basis men who just stand watching are there cause they want to just watch and if they wanted to join in they would try so i wouldnt personally ask a guy who was watching if he wanted to play anyway cause the chances are he wont
Or maybe he reads threads about how single guys are viewed, and tries to show some respect by waiting to be invited, rather than be seen as someone who is pushy?
yeah there is that to it as well but then i have never asked anyone if they want to play in a club i think its a fear of rejection as im not a very confidant person i just wait for a guy 2 approch me if i like him and if he dont then i saved myself from looking a twat by not asking him
lolQuote by babe and him
Lol, were you at a club sunday night naughtynymphos,
B n H
i was ;)
Quote by twos_company
some clubs r out to rob single guys and some charge
£100 / £120 for a single guy.
so the guy thinks that the girls have been invited just for them.
we went to a club like it once, and when we found out what they paid we just walked away.
some couples like to play, but others like to watch.
so yes its hard for couples n singles to know whos / who............so just say hi and if they shun u then move on............
see now that really pisses me off, i think a lot of mens attitude is the most unatractive thing about them, i have actually had a guy say to me once when i told him no thanks.....i've paid my moeny i have the rights :shock: well u can imagin how that went down but i have to say that the biggest problem i have is with women for some reason lots of women in clubs think cause they female they dont have to ask and wether your bi or not dont seem to entre into their heads i have had a few women behave towards me in a way that they would never accept from a man :S
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Like Fabio we have also seen couples acting poorly towards people and having been going to clubs for over 3 years have seen a lot happening , but on these two nights we did not give any signals in any form that we wanted these two males to play let alone penetrate the female and yes we have had males and couples follow us around all night wanting to play which is very annoying, but some thing we accept that does happen in clubs.
B n H
which clubs this i need to go :lol2:
To be honest i know a few women who go to clubs who like men just joining in i think it depends what your into or maybe the mood your in, personally if i'm in the mood for a group session and go into a open room i almost expect men to just join in, of course if i dont like them i'll say no but in a way i think it spoils the mood if you have to keep stopping looking round and asking men if they want to join you, but then i have always worked on the basis men who just stand watching are there cause they want to just watch and if they wanted to join in they would try so i wouldnt personally ask a guy who was watching if he wanted to play anyway cause the chances are he wont, i find it quite funny when i read these threads because i have so many times played in a open room at clubs wanting people to join and they hardly ever do then those who dont want people to join in moan cause they always do lol but i think everyone be them male or female need to knows other peoples bounderies b4 making a move, if your in a room where others are joining and it seems to be accepted then i guess its ok to just join in other wise its only polite to find out where you stand b4 you upset others.
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Thank you to all that came and made it such a special night, and especially to dawn or helping me surprise naughtynymphos...... its amazing what that woman can do in a toilet lol
I'm just glad I was good enough for you :giggle:
hang on what did i miss :shock:
well i had a great night was good to see you all again
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The other night I went to a spa and had'nt been in the spa pool long before a guy without asking reached out and started to stroke my member, being straight i asked him to stop which give his due he did and appologised. Then about ten minutes later another guy did the same thing, he appologised stopped and then made to get out of the pool he then made a grab for my member again after which he grinned and went to a sauna. Why do they do this? why not ask first if I did that to a lady in the same pool i would expect to be told in no uncertain terms to go away and possibly sked to leave by the management.
all i can say as a woman is .....welcome to our world
i've been doing this for years now and i still find it so hard to say no thanx face to face, i meet as a single women and some men do see you as a easy target cause you havnt got 'anyone to look after you' my advice is always make sure the men you meet know that you only ever meet socially first time tell them even if you get on its only socially, cause if you do the 'if theres a spark we could play' thing your back to square one when they say......well do you fancy it or what lol personally i find it so much easier to tell someone they not for me on msn than to their face and yes some guy do get funny even a bit nasty about it when you turn them donen so theres another reason for telling them on messenger.
actually we did meet a woman once for a drink who later told us that her hubby didnt know she was meeting us so i turned her down.....see its not only men playing away i dislike :smug: funny thing was after i said no to her cause her hubby didnt know she asked me if id babysit her kid while she shagged my hubby lol
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I love nothing better than sitting outside a nice cafe in lovely weather, huge pot of a tea, newspaper, chilling and best of all watching the world go by. Heck do you see some things!
Today I did it slightly different, I sat in Asda car park with a bottle of water and watched the workmen......... hard rippling muscles glistening in sweat, hammering away at the road!! :P :P
I'm getting into this!! Wonder if they work Bank Holidays?
Anyone else like people watching?
which asdas this? :rascal:
im a sod for shoe watching, makes me laugh the colour combo some women with put together with shoes and tights
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we met a couple once many moons ago and she wasnt allowed to cum with another man :shock:
That's just selfish! She should be able to decide for herself.
well i agree that its selfish but when couples set out they set their 'rules' and if its a rule she agreed to then who are we to say its wrong, personally i'd have said yeah ok but u cant cum either
i remember the night very well that my hubby made her cum and they had a massive raw in the bathroom and he had a go at my hubby saying he had broken their rules and we should have more respect for lines set out my people etc etc etc :shock:
which i could understand if he had dun her up the bum if they said no anal or something like that but how can you say to someone yeah you can do oral on her but dont make her cum sometimes it just happens b4 you have time to stop
Priceless :laughabove:
well you know me no point minceing your words lol
i think the best way to go about anal if your new is start with something smaller, maybe a small vib or something, loads of lube and slowly build up to a willy lol i know im female but a bums a bum after all and for ages i was ok with something thinner, and i do think its the width with anal not how long it is, but not having a man inside me, maybe get a smaller dildo and try it at home a few times alone so you can build up to it in your own time.
Quote by bbw_lover
we met a couple once many moons ago and she wasnt allowed to cum with another man :shock:
That's just selfish! She should be able to decide for herself.
well i agree that its selfish but when couples set out they set their 'rules' and if its a rule she agreed to then who are we to say its wrong, personally i'd have said yeah ok but u cant cum either
i remember the night very well that my hubby made her cum and they had a massive raw in the bathroom and he had a go at my hubby saying he had broken their rules and we should have more respect for lines set out my people etc etc etc :shock: which i could understand if he had dun her up the bum if they said no anal or something like that but how can you say to someone yeah you can do oral on her but dont make her cum sometimes it just happens b4 you have time to stop
