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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 52
UK
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i personally would rather meet what you call 'harden swingers' mainly cause we have met a few couples in the past who are new to this and have had lots of problems after, with them falling out cause it wasnt what they wanted/expected, couldnt handle seeing their partner with someone else etc to the point it really put me off meeting couples all together, i would sooner if they couples they be couples who know they can handle swinging, who know what they want and who arnt going to fall out after and make me feel guilty 
personally i find it very hard to orgasum, infact i dont think anyone else has ever made me cum, the only times i have cum with other people about is when i'm using toys on myself and they watching and even then i find it very very hard, saying that if im on my own i can make myself cum quite easy, i think its cause i dont really feel comfy naked or being looked at, i guess relaxing is the key to this problem but i just cant when i'm being watched im to busy breathing in and trying to hide my lumps and bumps :lol2:
i have never really suffered from pmt but i have two teenage daughters and the younger one suffered terrably, when ever shes on you only have to tell her to clean her room and she hates me, wants to live in a kids home, i bully her :shock: shes gone to hit me on a cpl of occasions and the crying and screaming is out of control plus shes slammed several doors off the hinges but when its not her time of the month shes quite a nice kid lol i dont have a clue how to help but any advice will be gratefully recieved
but when its not her time of the month shes quite a nice kid lol i dont have a clue how to help but any advice will be gratefully recieved 
Quote by Freckledbird
What I find difficult is when you have been talking to someone for ages and ages, having a good old natter (and letting out all your little secrets), you meet them and have a good old laugh (and thought they were bloody scrummy :twisted: ), but then you never hear anything from them.
Have you disapointed them? Did they find you repulsive? Do they think your a boring old fart? You just dont know and that is the hard part, have you been rejected, or is it something else. You just dont know and the longer the lack of communication goes on, the harder it is to send a pm and ask if everything is ok.
When you just have a feeling that you weren't up to their expectations? You still chat to them, but the chat kind of skirts around the 'do you want to or not?' question. :cry:
i dont mind that its the ones who never talk to you again if they dont want to shag you or you them that bug me
i go most monday night as a single fem as my hubby isnt bi, they usually have membership for single guys on mondays but monday night membership is just that you cant get into the club any other night with it, you probabily will be best calling them up first and letting them know your going, theres always more men than women there on any night really, except saturdays of course, but there always a fair few couples go not many single females im usually the only one there lol tho you do get other go in some weeks, its a good night i like mondays.
i have to admit i have never been rejacted by anyone not cause im anything special cause im not lol but cause i have never asked anyone to meet me, if i like someone i wait for them to ask me and if they dont i assum they dont like me so saves any embarrassment on my part lol but i have to admit i find it very hard to say no thanx to people i dont really like and i think the more you get to know them as friends the harder it becomes.
Quote by Freckledbird
so surely you - ladies who are out looking must feel men let them selves down big time.
No, and that's a very sweeping statement to make.
i agree, its a matter of each to their own, some men may feel that if a woman is over weight shes let herself go while others like BBWs, why should people shave just cause they swing? some men like a hairy minge lol and some women like hairy men for that matter, so long as people are clean and tidy u cant ask for anything else, i guess brushed hair isnt to much to ask for lol personal apearance is just a preference surly?
oh and while we're at it as for your poll arnt beer guts expected in women over a certain age too or are we just picking on over weight men?
Quote by fabio
Thanks for the various comments,I would not want to come over as bitter and twisted that is not the case, and surely the idea of a forum is to air views and seek opinions, I have indeed met some great people from the site and have regularly chatted in the video room. Perhaps it is just me been a little old fashioned about replies. I shall indeed carry on replying to ads that I hope I am suitable for and hope to meet some more great people in the future.
Cheers,
Bigal (had boys bits last time I looked)
okay.... lets turn the senario around....
I know a lady who put up an ad in women seeking men .... she then went on holiday for 2 weeks.... when she came back online.... she had the best part of 800 replies waiting for her.....
With the greatest of respect would you have answered every single one back???? because hand on heart I wouldn't and I am sure that most people here would be the same.......
i put a add up in the single fems looking for males section and took it off after 3 days cause i simply couldnt keep up with the replys, i posted the add went to make a cup of coffee and had 23 replys by the time i got back, whats it take to make a coffee 10 min max?!!
