i dont agree with it myself, i remember when we went on holiday one year and the kids wanted to go see the dolphins i wouldnt take them and it is hard as a mother to stand by what you believe in yet not be a kill joy to the kids but in my eyes going to these places is just helping fund them so i wont do that
everyone gets the odd insult when on cam its just one of those things that you'll never stop, mainly its the frigile male ego that makes them turn abusive cause you turn down their offer of a meet, i have had it a few times where they ask to meet and cause i have said no i'm told i'm a ugly bitch anyway and they can do better :lol2: just laugh it off cause you know damn well they cant ;)
My advice is look for rooms that cater for you, if your a bbw try the bbw rooms, if your older try rooms that cater for older people, ok i know we shouldnt have to and no matter where you go there will always be idiots out there that just want to go on to be hurtful but it cuts the chances down.
thing is u never know whos watching u lol if your on cam and the woman who buys the paper in the corner shop every morning when you go in is on there chances are she not know its you by your naked body parts.
I show my face on cam have have been stopped in the streets twice now by people off here who have recognised me as i go in the mids room where a lot of local people go, one time i was with my daughter so it does pay to be careful and not show your face, its just personal choice
Personally i think being a slut is a state of mind, some women (and men i guess) get off on being called a slut so i guess to me what makes you a slut is if you feel like one
i'm sure most clubs will have a smoking area its in their interest to, i know chameleons have, after all they will loose money if people can't have a fag it wouldnt bother me that much but i know people who wont go all night fagless
experiance though that was obvious
Personally i would play with people i though better looking than me, at the end of the day i don't have to play with myself its upto them to decide if they think i'm attractive or not and if i like them and they like me who cares whos the 'ugly' one? funny thing is you could be looking at some women thinking "i can't play with her she far more pretty than me" and she could be looking back at you thinking the same thing
Personally i dont like hairy men, saying that i dont like them fully shaven below, nicely trimmed is good, but i don't like body hair, tho i would say just be yourself, i would never change anything about me just to get people to like me more and get meets if people don't like something about me then they can look elsewhere.
what does it matter if you do see someone you know? we're all there for the same reason and they hardly going to be stood in the corner shop monday morning saying.......ohhh you'll never guess who we saw at the swingers club saturday night!!!!........are they
in a word.......no.......i dont believe lol
i dare say not all are genuine but a lot are ;)
i've just googled it and it found nothing as far as actually swinging clubs go, just a load of message boards for aberdeen swingers to post on
Personally i find sexiness comes from within, to be a sexy women is not about looks but the way she carries herself, its not about age, size, looks or colour its confidance, personally i can't look at men and find them sexy i'm either attracted to them or not and yes i am female if your wondering lol
I think that questions a bit like the how longs a bit of string question
Surely it depends on the couples, some couples handle 3sums very well thank you very much while others relationships arn't really strong enough to cope after, i know couples who have split thro swinging and others who have been at it for years and are still happy.