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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 52
UK

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Surely everyone whos meet on this site must have had 1 nighters? you can't get on with everyone you meet and i find it hard to beleive that someone on the site has always had sex more than once with everyone they have met confused
Personally i'd not bothered if i meet someone more than once or not 1 nighters are fine with me biggrin
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it might do... but why bother when a woman can have 20 orgasms or more..... :smile2:

we can? :shock:
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there are plenty of clubs that cater just for single men and dont discriminate price wise, the greenhouse group for example, lol lol lol
staggy xx

ohhh i've tryed to sneak in there a few times with my faulse beard and strap on but they just not having it :lol2:
I don't think i could marry someone just for their money but hell it would be nice to find someone to fall in love with who was rich :lol2:
I'd take Dante's Divine Comedy you wouldn't need another book you'd be dead by old age b4 you got to the end of it :lol2:
its not that hard at all really, i/we have met a few single females off this site, you get out of it what you put into it, if you just sit behide your monitor posting threads about how hard it is to meet single women the chances are you'll never find one, if you get your self know, get out there and do the munches etc it will be a lot easier, remember single females put themselves at a lot of risk every time they meet new people, being a woman alone they have noone to help them if things get out of hand, put yourself in their shoes for a night.....if you was going to meet would you meet someone you had had a drink and a chat with at a munch, know you fancy and get on with and are genuine or a total stranger?
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reminds me again of the bonus of being single and independent lol
xxx fem xxx

Its got nothing to do with partnership status but everything to do with intelligence, personal security and sense.
If you give someone complete control of your situation, then expect to be abused, but you dont have to stay single just so your safe from abuse
i think thats a bit harsh, some people have been together for many years and share everything and never abuse each other confused
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this isn't a hijack but it begs the question do you peeps think its fair or unfair that single fems are allowed on a "couples only " night ?

have to admit i have wondered that a few times too, personally i go to clubs as a single female but i wouldn't go on a couples night, what i do think is fair tho is that they charge more for single fems on couples only nights than other nights
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To avoid the problem of "manufactured" couples (e.g. a single man using an escort) and ensure only bona fide partners are there on couples-only night, any decent club will require ID for both him and her to be provided that must share the same address.
This is not rocket science and is a gesture on the part of that club's management to the other genuine couples that they are taking security seriously.

i have gone on couples nights with guys i have met off here b4, not all couples on couples nights are 'real' couples.
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Found one so far (not ones I was thinking, I'll go in and get their prices) but so far found £25 clit hood ring peircing and £30 for vertical bar (I ahve vertical bar and would reccomend it) and tongue £35. Can't believe I am going to pay someone to hurt me! :shock:

lol i'm so glad you said that cause everyone i know whos got their hood pierced says it didnt even hurt :shock: i was thinking eithet i was the only women who felt pain down their or the only one that wasn't a lying b*****d lol
i'd get them done both str8 away, if the first ones going to have problems its going to take a lot longer than half a hour to know so personally i think thats a little pointless
My friends went thro something the same when she got devorced, and she was told that the registered keeper of the car does not prove ownership and if she could prove she payed for the car ligally it was hers.
personally i dont believe in such thing i think they just con men out to make money on deparate people who want to give up smoking, loose weight etc
Not much help i knpw but am i ever :lol2:
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Hypnotherapy will help, but only if you are truly dedicated to doing whatever it is you are going to the hypnotherapist about! The way hypnotherapy works is like a placebo pain killer, it works because you believe it will (and similarly doesn't if you doubt it

but surely thats your own will power thats stopping you not them, i guess they like them dummy pills the doctors give to people who think they are ill when they not, they feel better cause they beleive they getting help when actually they not.
I suppose you have to ask yourself what you really want out of life if you want a girlfriend and swing then i'd say ask your girlfriend if shes though about it if it puts her off then maybe shes not for you anyway!! as far as meeting a woman on the scene already i know a few people that has worked for but i also know couples who have met felt more for each other then ones wanted to stop swinging cause they feel they no longer need to, so that doesn't always work, as with anything you have to kiss a lot of frogs b4 you find your prince ;)
Its all part of swinging, you are always going to get no shows and its not just men i have had couples not show as well, you just have to put it down to one of them things and either move onto the next meet or stop meeting smile
Personally i think the reson why a lot of singles dont show is cause they are married and can't make it last min due to the wife/hubby (see i'm not sexist lol) not being where they expected them to be at that time lol
As for why couples do it, well maybe for the reason above if they just swingimng partner, if they 'real' couples not got a clue dunno
I think some people genuinly just bottle ot when it comes to the crunch, if they first timers the though may seem so much better than the reality when they faced with it and they may feel daft calling you up 2 tell you that so think its just best to hide and hope noone notices lol
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Thanks to all for coming,
Good time was hopefully had by all........
In answer to your qestion Sleazy keep July 7th free kin your diarys. :-)
Oh an please please please please please, bring a gag for chaos biggrin

it wont work m8 i've tryed it :lol2:
Just wanted top say happy Birthday to hotandwet kiss
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....so-called 'first-timers' or 'inexperienced, looking for my first meet' when you have already been with the guy twice!!....then someone seeking 'mature, 30-45' ? No lads, 'mature is 45-plus!!!

surely that depends how old you are, if they 18 30 to 45 will seem mature to them if you older then older is mature confused
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It seems that the in the majority of couples the fem is bi and the man is straight. Is that true? Were the bi fems bi curious before they got into swinging, or did curiousity get the better of them when they got involved in the sensuality of swinging. Sensual is not bi (although she admits to having had some bi thoughts in the past) Are there many other straight fems out there who enjoy a full swinging lifestyle as part of a couple. I am not talking about fems who play on their own, or separate to their partner, but as couples together.

i'm sure there are lots of couples with bi fems that would be happy to meet str8 couples and the women play only with the guy, tho i have to admit we was turned down in the past by a str8 couples cause the women was scared i would look at her naked in a sexual way :lol2: had to laugh wouldn't have minded but she wasn't my type anyway rolleyes i think there are a lot more bi males in couples that will admit to it as they are scared it will put other couples with str8 males off, sad really that people think cause your bi you HAVE to play with people your own sex and i also find it odd why some str8 people are so scared of bi ones to the point that they not even be seen naked by them confused
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rotflmao it is at this point that i ought to leave this thread well alone wink
but, on the up side, I do like male company in a club as in someone to go with/ sit with/ play body guard in the jacuzzi (:thumbupsmile ..but it'll only ever be on my invitation, my terms and if I'm flush, I'll pay for us both because its me who's asked... using fems as a meal ticket into a club because a guy cant get in on his own ...ooo lets just not go there! evil

i'll look after ya in the jacuzzi :twisted:
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One of the things that put me off when reading an ad is where they say they are looking for a dirty slut or something along those lines... I may well be like that in the bedroom but I expect to be treated with respect and not like a slag...

i totally agree, i know a lot of women advertise as sluts and like being treated as such but i think its something you have to agree with within yourselves, i would never reply to a add where the guy was refuring to a woman as a slut or whore confused
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So! Im on the date and I think” wow! Bit sexy hump 69position “
Now if it was someone off here I would have told them how sexually attracted I was to them .but! ( and here’s the problem )

i dont think it matters if its a woman off a swingers site or not if you think a woman you have gone out with looks attractive you should tell them smile
Persoanlly i cant really answer this cause no men are vanilla they all after a shag lmao bolt