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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 52
UK

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Quote by Freckledbird
wouldn't bother me at all, infact i'd even ask them to pass some bog roll under :lol2:

So basically what your saying is "You could'nt give a shit" :shock:
When I read the opening post, that was my first thought, but then I reckoned I shouldn't post that response redface
oh well u know me lol
can i be extra nosey and ask if shes such a good wife why does she live so far away from you :shock:
ok i'm nosey i admit it but hey if you don't ask.......lol
most couples only want to play with the female very unusual they only wanted the male lol
however personally if it was me i'd have gone and left my hubby to have fun with them if they only wanted him but each to their own eh ;)
Quote by Mal
first of all thank you all for your advice and coments im not fishing for complaments just asking a broad view of whats fat and whats fine my build at the moment is more rugby player then footballer big sholders big chest and 18 in arms to be honest i want to know do woman find this attractive or sexy my made me feel very unattractive and told me i was fat coments please.
but for nowany answers on this.
Still not fishing??????
hummm i think he is lol
Thing is you can't really ask a opinion on whats fat cause everyone has their own ideas of what fat is, what someone sees as over weight someone else may see as just right or underweight at the end of the day its how you feel that matters not what others find attractive, all you can do is be yourself some will like you for that, others wont but you will get that no matter what you look like nones for everyone ;) so just be you and look how you want to look and stop trying to be what you think others want you to be!!
Quote by Darkfire
I cant find the thread.....but there has been one, and I've seen it happen (unless the bastard was faking it of course :shock:lol ) but I thought it was entirely possible (but not common) for a bloke to be able to orgasm without ejaculation?
I dont mean just any normal orgasm or 'dry' cos he's simply run out lol - I mean those full on mind-blowing ones that are more 'spiritual' than physical - does that make sense? dunno
god dammit where's that thread.....

ermmm no but then do you ever? :lol2: bolt
it is a awkward situation, we have been swinging for about 6 or so years now and there still don't seem to be a right moment, i tend to go with flo if everyone is happy things will move on, if you find it a effort to get the ball rolling maybe they not the right people/person for you, not sure what else to say really lol
i have never sent a wink, if i can't think of anything to say to someone i just don't bother messaging rolleyes
Quote by Shireen
As for what you can do, its a very difficult situation and its easy to say go to the police but i think they would look very dimly on you situation seeing as you met him on a sex site

There has been a female member of the site have to approach the police before and she was treated with the up most respect smile He is breaking the law so they have to do something about it smile
and so they should
just with all the bad press about internet and sex etc i think some people would see it as your asking for trouble, obviously not my views :lol2: but i know how narrow minded some can be rolleyes
I know this is only a minor thing and wont help you but maybe you should send some of the emails and his name to a site mod, not sure where the site rules stand on this but i'm sure hes not the type of person any of us want as a member and if he can do it to you he can easily move on to another women when he finally gets you message.
As for what you can do, its a very difficult situation and its easy to say go to the police but i think they would look very dimly on you situation seeing as you met him on a sex site :shock: worth a try tho can't make matters any worse, i would just get new mobile numbers and a new email account and carry on ignoring him, he'll get bored in the end
I find it very hard to believe that at a party with several couples theres going to be one single couple that EVERYBODY likes best confused
Quote by seasider
Reading a recent thread about women faking orgasms reminded me of several occasions where, when having sex for the second time during an evening with a partner, despite my best efforts and having a decent erection, I have not been able to come. My partner's don't seem to mind but is there a time limit after which I should consider faking it? All comments grateful received!

I have to ask why you feel you need to fake it? confused
personally i'd sooner go without that pay for sex, saying that i have no problems with escorts etc so if thats what u want go for it ;)
i'm not ashamed that i swing, my mum and sister know, as do some very good close friends but after all i have kids so i wouldn;t tell people in the street as i wouldn't want it getting to their kids and then them having a go at my kids for it, after all what we do should not come back on our children, its not a case of being ashamed its more being a caring responsable parent
Quote by jaymar
I agree, but... so often people who are overweight feel they have to conform to society's view that they must be slimmer to be beautiful. I'm sorry but beauty comes from within, personality and nice qualities are important also.

i totally agree with that but speaking as someone whos lost nearly 5 stone in the last 18 week i can say from my own experiences that lots of people also loose weight cause they get fed up of the piss taking and nasty comments about them in every day life, well i did anyway lol
Quote by freimation
well im 6ft 2in and 16 stone acording to the machine in the chemist im 3st over weight but i,ve got a big build 38 in waist do you guy think thats fat.

i wouldnt have said so, and you dont look it on your pics
Earthy xxthat was a long time ago
maybe you should put a more up to date pic on ur profile then ;)
them machines only give you a rough guid, if your happy with the way you loook don't worry about it, if your not happy do something about it lol
Quote by de_sade
I find the cam picture on msn is alot clearer than in the chatroom, and if you do give your msn address out to somebody you decide you no longer want to speak to later you can block them and delete them.

Apparently tho' there are ways round that... :shock:
hark at him
hes had msn for all of 5 mins and hes a expert already :giggle:
there are many bi guys on here and what other guys have to understand is if they put their cam on other guys will watch them even if they str8, they pose no threat its only viewing you on cam but if you not comfy with it don't put you cam on its easy lol
I's rather watch a guy just sat dressed and chatting, i'd rather see a nice smiley face and the changed of expressions as they chat than a wanker any day smile
Quote by Darkfire
...or the ones who just poke a finger in and out like they are trying to ring a doorbell confused

rotflmao you have such a way with words, but very true :giggle:
and why is it most men think the way to get a women wet is to shove another finger up and ram twice as hard :shock:
How about changing you membership to a couples but writing in you profile you sometimes meet as couples and sometimes meet as singles, that way she will be a member on your account and you can advertise for her
I would have though it becomes more than just swinging when you have stronger feeling for them, i'll stop and pic up shopping for the old lady down the road don't mean i fancy her tho :lol2: u get what i mean tho, helping someone out don't mean you have strong feelings for them, you can be taking it that one step further and not actually do anything for them at all its whats in your heart that makes it that.
Just my opinion for what its worth lol
Quote by de_sade
Thing to remember tho is some women actually get off on being called whores and sluts :shock:

But not you so.............................................................. :gagged:
wink biggrin
no mad
:lol2:
Quote by Gothic-punk
Finding out that the women on here have standards can be hard to take for these guys.

that is so true :shock:
i have many a time had guys off here say things to me like, so your not a real player then? or so why you on this site if your not looking to meet? and then the insults and abuse begins cause you actually dared to say no to them confused confused
funny old world innit lol