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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 52
UK
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I think lots of people on here like the idea and get turned on by the flirting and arranging a meet but thats all they after, some people just think its funny to have you stood about waiting for them knowing they never going to turn up, some people genuinly have reasons why they can't make it and havn't neen able to let you know, after all if my child had just got knocked over out side the house the first thing that came to my mind would not be to run in the house and sent a PM to some guy i was meeting later 
theres many reasons people don't turn up each case is diffarent there just is no answer.
As for if it works, well i have had my fair share of time wasters and no shows like most of us but over all yes it works for me
theres many reasons people don't turn up each case is diffarent there just is no answer.As for if it works, well i have had my fair share of time wasters and no shows like most of us but over all yes it works for me
Awww i am so pleased for you both, i've known casey for a fair few years now and hes always been a lovely guy, even when he knocks me up at 2am for coffee on his way home from work and takes over the play station :lo2:l and what i can tell from midlands lady i think you'll be very happy together, well i hope so anyway 
Here to may happy years together
Here to may happy years together
OMG i don't even know where to begin with this thread lol
when we first started we met couples as a couple only we didn't really make any rules as such thats just how it went, never really though about parties/clubs etc but very soon into swinging i got curious about them, now days we meet single men and women as well as couples go to parties and clubs regular and even meet alone be it a private meet or go to clubs and parties with other people, to be honest i don't really see myself as a swinger no more i feel we more have a open and relaxed relationship, i have no problem at all with my hubby meeting and playing alone with another woman and he feels the same which i think is a point many swinging couples will never get to but it works for us and for us thats all that matters
when we first started we met couples as a couple only we didn't really make any rules as such thats just how it went, never really though about parties/clubs etc but very soon into swinging i got curious about them, now days we meet single men and women as well as couples go to parties and clubs regular and even meet alone be it a private meet or go to clubs and parties with other people, to be honest i don't really see myself as a swinger no more i feel we more have a open and relaxed relationship, i have no problem at all with my hubby meeting and playing alone with another woman and he feels the same which i think is a point many swinging couples will never get to but it works for us and for us thats all that matters
ohhh i'm a bit of a soft touch i would save enough money for me and my family to live on and with the rest i'd probabily get as many water pipes put in as many villages in some poverty stricken country as possable, i know 20 million wouldn't do that many for a project like that but even if it was 2 or 3 thats a few hundreds childrens lifes that i would have saved :smug:
Quote by lilacgem
Definitely option 1. If they send you texts, block the number (can you do that?).
Nope, unless you are on the same network. Even then you have to prove harrasment or abuse.
What ever you do, it's going to hurt someone unless they feel the same "it ain't working".
Maybe, the thing is to pre-empt it and become more aloof earlier on and let it die naturally.
Individual texts/numbers cant be blocked on the network but certain handsets do have the option.
I do know the person that sercher is talking about & he's a real nice guy so I think it would be hard for him to hurt the girls feelings but it would be better for both in the long run, however advice is only taken when its ready to be heard & I dont think he is ready to hear it just yet.
Quote by sercher01
would just like to point out that this is a hyperthetical question
i though this was a hyperthetical question???
you get out of swinging what you put into it, if you want to meet genuine swingers you have to get yourself know, many many single guys will not entertain going to a social/munch or meeting you just for a drink because they are just after sex, but its a fact that going to a munch could get you several meets in the future cause if a woman or couple want a single guy they are more likely to pick one they have met and chatted to then a total stranger out the chat room who they don't even know will turn up.
Looking at it from the other persons point of view if someone didn't really want to be with me i'd rather them just tell me than stay with me out of fear of hurting my feelings, i think i would be more hurt at the fact my relationship had been a lie for the past months/years than be told they wasn't happy in the first place, but to answer your question i would have to tell them, if your not happy its going to show anyway
Quote by Scott25
ok i'm not a MOD, but i can happliy say this is acceptable.
A lot of people do put their cams on for other reasons too, like vertification that they are genuine and just to sit and look pretty as well as being naughty.
Your have to remember too that even though this is a swingers site, not all people wish to be seen in their full glory either, and maybe getting their boobs out on cam to strangers or possibly neighbours (one can never be sure!) is a real big deal to them.
Plus, most peeps are on the net 24/7, now you will be knackered if you were playing on cam all that long wouldnt you.
good luck with the show!
Never mind all that! After looking at Chaotic_Spirit's pictures I wanna know when she is putting on a show! What a babe!
Scott
xx
pmsl more like when is she not putting on a show
usually in my knickers i may add
