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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 52
UK

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Quote by bisto kid
Personally i would never reply to someone asking for a slut etc, it always annoy me when if guys shag lots of women they are looked upon as some kind of hero stud by other men and one of the lads etc yet women are still seen as 'slags' and 'sluts', even tho i'm sure the guys who post these add mean it in a 'good' way it still stems from the same meaning....your a woman who like to shag about so your a slut!

NN you have obviously got issues about this subject. I wouldnt dream of saying such things to a new partner, however i would say it tongue in cheek to a long term partner who was secure enough with me to know i didnt mean it!
I know some women like being called such names, i have put on another post on this thread about some women getting turned on by such names, each to their own i suppose, i personally cannot see how calling someone such names are 'whore' and 'slut' can be anything than degrading but then some woman, and men for that matter. get off on being belittled, its all about finding out what the person your with in into i guess smile
I had a tooth out when i was 38 week pregnant, it was agony and the dentist didn't want to do it so close to my due date, but i broke down and begged him as i was in so much pain, i must admit the needles are the worse but if you close you eyes so you can't seem them its not so bad, the actually taking out of the tooth was ok cause your mouths dead by this point anyway lol but to be honest tho i was in so much pain i would have let him do it any how lol
If your in pain just remember whats worse a few needles where it hurt for a cpl seconds or weeks/months of tooth ache?
Quote by Bloke2005
Personally i would never reply to someone asking for a slut etc, it always annoy me when if guys shag lots of women they are looked upon as some kind of hero stud by other men and one of the lads etc yet women are still seen as 'slags' and 'sluts', even tho i'm sure the guys who post these add mean it in a 'good' way it still stems from the same meaning....your a woman who like to shag about so your a slut!

But surely this is not the case in a swinging community??
does it matter what community it is? calling someone a 'whore' or a 'slut' means the same no matter what lift style you have, some women may find it a turn on others wont personally i find it offensive.
All cause i go to clubs and do 20+ men gang bangs that does not make me a slut lol
no serious it don't wink
i remember some guy calling me a dirty slut once while i was giving him a bj and i stopped got dressed and went home :shock: lol

Jesus - can we come? :shock: wink
yep anytime wink
still can't show you my willy tho :lol2::lol2:
Quote by goodporking
same post on another swinging site as well from the same guy.
even more deperate than me! But I guess covering as many options as he can.
Good luck....I can hear the click of heels as the queue begins

hang on i use more than 1 swingers site to find people...you calling me desparate too confused
think we going a bit OTT now days with the newbies, and coming from me that must be bad :shock:
Quote by well_busty_babe
another thing you may wnat to bear in mind is...
. how scary it could be to the person recieving these anonymous messages!
i for one would be quite worried if i started getting suggestive text messages from someone who obviously knew me, but was not revealing who they were.
i would suggest you either give up on the idea completely or take the bull by the horns and tell the person to their face.
WBB
xx

i also agree, i think i would be a bit pissed off with the person when they did let on who they was for having me worried about who was sending me such text.
Quote by TallFunLondon
Personally i would never reply to someone asking for a slut etc, it always annoy me when if guys shag lots of women they are looked upon as some kind of hero stud by other men and one of the lads etc yet women are still seen as 'slags' and 'sluts', even tho i'm sure the guys who post these add mean it in a 'good' way it still stems from the same meaning....your a woman who like to shag about so your a slut!

But surely this is not the case in a swinging community??
does it matter what community it is? calling someone a 'whore' or a 'slut' means the same no matter what lift style you have, some women may find it a turn on others wont personally i find it offensive.
All cause i go to clubs and do 20+ men gang bangs that does not make me a slut lol
no serious it don't wink
i remember some guy calling me a dirty slut once while i was giving him a bj and i stopped got dressed and went home :shock: lol
Personally i would never reply to someone asking for a slut etc, it always annoy me when if guys shag lots of women they are looked upon as some kind of hero stud by other men and one of the lads etc yet women are still seen as 'slags' and 'sluts', even tho i'm sure the guys who post these add mean it in a 'good' way it still stems from the same meaning....your a woman who like to shag about so your a slut!
Quote by dargento
dick

:shock: .............. :gagged: wink
ive been told ive a big dick.................
or did she say i am a big dick ??? :shock:
:gagged:
Quote by Phoenix
my advice is NEVER mix swinging with friends.
Only swing with people who it wouldn't matter if it all went wrong and you may never see again.
At the end of the day theres no right or wrong about swinging but if things didn't go to plan remember you may have to face this 'friend' on a daily basis, if you could cope with that then go ahead, personally i'd rather keep my m8s and look else where for sex.

So, the swingers you become friends with, you stop swinging with dunno
actually i do yes
I find it very hard to have sex with people i have become close to as friends, not very offen i play with anyone more than once
but thats another thread lol
Quote by sleazy

unless me and sleazy get in then theres just room for 1 more little un smile

I'm not that big so do you think you and sleazy could fit me in? :twisted:
If its really really busy and ya can't get in blue........ me and dargento will tell crap jokes till peeps get out and make room for ya..
As I recall it took us all of 3 mins 18 seconds last time
i swear if that man shouts garlic bread at me mad
Quote by mattius
single (40's) guy.
Can accom or willing to travel up to one hour. within east or west mids
N.s.a daytime fun wanted with MATURE single or couple.
prefer to email / text / chat first to discuss . spontaneity and open ness is a big plus
all pms replied to.

how old's mature?
my advice is NEVER mix swinging with friends.
Only swing with people who it wouldn't matter if it all went wrong and you may never see again.
At the end of the day theres no right or wrong about swinging but if things didn't go to plan remember you may have to face this 'friend' on a daily basis, if you could cope with that then go ahead, personally i'd rather keep my m8s and look else where for sex.
Quote by Angel Chat
Oh and, if you are going to cheat, it's better not to tell the whole world about it - Mr Cheetah. wink

I disagree, I think it's much better to give the facts here than to pretend to be single. That way us females are in posession of the facts and can make an informed decision as to whether to meet him or not
I do agree you must have meant 1000 men to each woman though, it's definitely not the other way round ;)
i also disagree, my one and only rule in swinging is that i do not meet anyone, man or woman, who is playing away, saying this i did once meet a guy who claimed to be single, i met him a few times only to later find out he was infact married, i was very angry to say the least and felt that my rules as a swinger had been totally pushed aside, to me it was no diffarent to someone meeting for soft swing and the guy trying to 'get it up' while the lady was busy doing something else, you may get turned down for playing away but respecting other people wishes and rules as a swinger is very important if you want to get anywhere in this game cause word does get round wink
Quote by Vix
Erm, of course, anyone reading this, that might have got a reply from us, like those mentioned above... um... we think you're gorgeous, just... erm... we're washing Reese's hair that night. Yep. Thassit. Sorry, busy.
redface

rotflmao
hands vix a spade wink
Quote by naked-cleaner
pics are good.......
not seeing pics is a nice surprise .........
anyone fancy a shag then ?

Yes please .... anytime
NC
xxx
rotflmao rotflmao rotflmao
get ya coat babe you've pulled wink
Its something i have commented on a few time, you get 3 spaces for pics and some couples see fit to fill it with 3 of the women rolleyes rolleyes
Well of course thats cause this is a male dominated site......yeah right biggrin
us women demand to see pics of your fella's too lol lol
Quote by Glasgowfella
so what you ladies out there are saying is that you prefer a slow, all day long fuck as opposed to my offer of a quick one :cry:
I knew this site was disgraceful mad

i'll take anything thats on offer lol
Well NN ive got a big load of ironing and youre welcome to get hot and steamy with me if you want?
bolt
ok so maybe not quite anything :shock:
Quote by mr filth
so what you ladies out there are saying is that you prefer a slow, all day long fuck as opposed to my offer of a quick one :cry:
I knew this site was disgraceful mad

i'll take anything thats on offer lol
Quote by Mike7073
sorry, my humour can be a little random at times redface
There was a serious side to it too though, as I am still looking for a lovely lady whom I can accompany smile

whos gealous? dunno :lol2:
Quote by lee-gingerjo
the subject of partners going down hill is coming up more and more often and it all seems to be down to bad management rather than the club itself they seem to be trying to do the place up again after a laps in the facilities but they still keep letting the idiots spoil the place if they stopped the idiots coming in they would see a better place rather then what we was told when we complained about someone , we was told "are but they come in all the time and entertian the single guys " . does this excuse them for breaking the clubs rules ?? all it comes down to is money and the sooner they realise that kicking 1 or 2 idiots out might bring back the regulars and the friends that stopped going , well rant over now let hope the see sence soon and get the place back to how it used to be.
Lee

yep your right Lee (tho i'll never admit to saying that lol)
partners is a ok club, the wet area is nice and the place is a good size there nothing wrong with the place at all.
It does come down to who they let in, it used to be a great place to go and i'm sure it can be again.
Quote by Mike7073
oh and BTW i didn't tell him to book a holiday i mearly said i was going and he had better if he wanted to come too, i could easily take someone else as steff said us women are doing the guys a favour :lol2::lol2:
so remember that sleazy poke

Tell him if he doesn't go, I will be happy to escort you. Work that jealousy ;)
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