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noladreams
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 49
UK

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Where do you begin?
How can we do justice to the wordsmith who was Neilinleeds?
Neil made me laugh, made me think, made me smile and, way back in the beginnings of my time on SH, made me welcome at a pre-Munch drinks in Manchester. I looked forward to his posts, knowing that they would make me chuckle or ponder or, at times, reconsider my entire way of looking at an issue.
He was a rare breed. He had wit and banter aplenty, but he also had real intellect and integrity too.
My heart goes out to you Gem, and to his family. I cannot imagine the pain.
Big love.
xxxxx
Quote by aaronandshellie
What do you guys think ?
Do they look nice ? Horrid ? Bearable with your eyes shut ?
lol

Ahhh, yes... vagina envy. I was afflicted once when faced with a post-op transsexual with the most beautifully symmetrical one I'd ever seen. wink
Quote by starlightcouple
Seems very strange to me why they would think about appointing what is really a child. She has been proved to be a foul mouthed, violent racist and she is a girl FFS.

Just a quick query: what is the 'and she is a girl FFS' about? Are you implying girls are not foul mouthed, violent or racist? Or are you surprised a girl would be appointed to this post?
Just seems somewhat, dare I say it, sexist... dunno
This might be one of those threads where I trot out Bloke's old line: "I don't like Size Queens... but I do like their boyfriends" :rascal:
Definitely sounds like something you guys need to talk about.
Fantasies are one thing (am sure we've all got 'real life' folk we incorporate into fantasies - I know I have :rascalsmile but they will very firmly stay fantasies.
Yes, it has the potential to be brilliant, but equally it has the potential to go horribly wrong. I know I'd much rather take the chance on going horribly wrong with someone I don't know.
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I think these things are intensely personal, so really until you find the person/people who you can make that arrangement with, it's hard to discuss in abstract/general terms.
dunno Just my take on it.
Just had a looksee and can't spot anything offensive, so guessing the matter is sorted.
As Pink_n_Blue said, a support ticket is always useful if any member is overstepping the mark. We'll sort it.
Nola x
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100 views and no replies, ??
am I doing something wrong or is this site dying a slow death?

dunno Maybe people just don't want to take you up on your offer...
Sometimes I think people are deliberately making my life a lot more difficult than it needs to be rolleyes
Takes me back.... to the second meet I arranged via SH.
Hotel in Manchester. An early morning 'assignation' which kinda went on a bit longer than planned wink I foolishly hadn't locked the door. In comes the cleaner. :shock: God bless her. She looked appalled. And yes, to be fair, the position was *ahem* compromising to say the least!
We laughed about it afterwards.
:wink:
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Wowzers! What a lovely post :shock: :shock: :shock:
I think the ladies above have answered very well and very diplomatically

Hells yeah! :twisted:
Quote by 30syorksman
I'm pretty average I think, and I've been on cam quite a few times. Looking at the cam though when I am on, it can make it look a lot bigger! Maybe they aren't all quite as huge as we think lol

It's all about the angle... or so I've heard wink
Yeah a lot of it is angle. I'm pretty big, but when I've cammed occasionally, I've looked bloody huge lol
Oooh, hello 30yorksman :rascal:
<<< off to hunt for your cam in chat*
*I'm not a size queen.... but I do like their boyfriends :twisted:
Erm, as someone who wouldn't be described as height/weight proportionate, I don't consider myself to not be 'quality' at all.
I may be on the larger side, but I take care of my appearance. I dress well and - not that designer labels matter - I certainly know the difference between Primark and Selfridges.
Each to their own, huh?
For me, it's about sexy, chilled people with open minds who are interested in sharing experiences. If someone judges me because I wear high-street clothes rather than designer ones then more fool them. rolleyes
Maybe I've misread your post, but I find the suggestion that 'quantity' (i.e. larger folk) are not 'quality' quite derogatory.
I've never been to Chams, but I know it has a great reputation.
You could put your name down for an SH social at a club to get to know some regulars. That might make your other visits easier. dunno
Brilliant question!
Erm, this is a hard one for me as I have been brought up a Catholic and, although I am not in anyway practising and haven't been for years, part of me would like to still have faith in something. Unfortunately I find my world view so at odds with much of what the Catholic church preaches that I have increasingly found myself moving away from religion altogether.
My gut says that recreational sex between consenting adults doesn't harm anyone therefore, in the grand scheme of things, is it such a bother regardless of religious faith or not?
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I will just say that, in terms of porn, I quite like listening to porn whilst being naughty myself. I think I'm quite aurally turned on, rather than visually.
Odd? Probably. wink

Not odd at all, I (Mr M) get the same feeling. Something very special about hearing people enjoying themselves, especially when close to you. Many underestimate the power of sound, possibly because visuals are easier to describe and therefore share.
To be fair, it's one of the best things about playing in a club or at a party for me... I like hearing sex going on :twisted:
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So come on guys, where does your particular knowledge lie?

Erm, I'm pretty knowledgeable about literature - but not many folk would want to debate that! wink And certain 'bits' of history. I'd like to be more knowledgeable about lots of things though.
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What I really like is well written erotic fiction. THAT really gets me warm around the ears. I've had a go myself and really enjoyed writing it - to the point of having to have a lie down once or twice during the process. :giggle:

Just around the ears?! :rascal:
I love good erotic fiction.
Still pondering my favourite filthy film scenes list though! :twisted:
Perhaps a read of this might help?

You know, just in the interest of context/other perspectives etc :thumbup:
Oooh, great thread!
*gets thinking cap on to remember all the best 'naughty' film bits*
Until I've done my thinking, I will just say that, in terms of porn, I quite like listening to porn whilst being naughty myself. I think I'm quite aurally turned on, rather than visually.
Odd? Probably. wink
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Ladies, is it something you'd like to watch? Would it be a turn on? Or more just curiosity?
Discuss...! lol

To answer your questions:
Yes, it is.
Yes, it is.
Erm, nope... not a curiosity :twisted:
Quote by neilinleeds
Doubt you're gonna have any problems there livelife_cpl! ;)
I've enjoyed MMF and very rarely FFM in the past, though most of the scenarios I've experienced have involved more bodies than that most often. :mrgreen: I think generally they work much better every which way if all parties are bi. I get that being pretty much the focus of attention for two others to go at you can just surrender yourself to is great, very horny, no question, but even better if you can switch up which of you is gonna be that individual as things develop. More possibilities aren't there. Gives everyone a bite of the same cherry, chance to experience both the physical aspects and the differences in headspace as to whether you're playing a more active or passive role, attender or attendee so to speak. Happy days.

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Profiles covered only with pics of flaccid cocks. What is the fucking point, I ask you? Profiles covered in cock shots and nothing much else generally are bad enough, but a flaccid cock is neither use to man nor beast. Not all that attractive either quite often, especially those in need of a good bit of a groom and better personal hygiene standards. If you must at least sort your shit out before turning the camera on FFS! lol

Ahhh, a man after my own heart wink