Quote by pebble
For me it is a massive put-off to realise or be told that a man I am flirting with is particularly aroused by my marital status. I will admit some are worse than others, ie. there are different reasons and motivations that make men like going with other people's wives...
But at the end of the day, I find this approach a bit disrespectful: I am not someone else's wife, I am my own person - I even buy my own shoes, on occasion! (
skinny) Also, I look to the swinging scene for sexual liberation, not for a reminder of how proprietary our relationships really are, still.
I enjoy meeting another man's wife. But it isn't the man I am enjoying, it is the lady. And she will always be a lady, no matter how dirty she likes it. She is the only reason I will be there. And it is her pleasure I am looking for.