I am an older guy. I have no pretensions over my looks or whatever. Although, given my age, I dont look too bad :-)

If you have a 'grandad watches us while we ... fetish', maybe I would fit :-)

I was 'in the scene' for many years - but been out for about 10 years. All the places I used to go in and around London, are now defunct (yellow house in barking, Cockatoo's in Newbury park, No.7 in stoke newington road, etc).

I am mostly joining to find events and places as a respectful and distant voyeur