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11 Jul 2005

Quote by fabio grooverider
oooh...since we have gone all retro.. may have to see if i can get out my old spectrum zx81 and play horrice goes skiing...

Oooh..... I used to love playing Horrice..... brought back some very good childhood memories there. biggrin

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11 Jul 2005

Well judging from all the comments above I should be a man! I sleep nearest the door and always have done now I think of it.
I have a lovely big bed all to myself now.....but I still sleep on the one side nearer the door!
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10 Jul 2005

Not had my say yet so here goes....
I'd say Tune's is pretty nice....followed by Dino and Mal and..... I'm not going to go on..... most people's avatar's are pretty sexy!
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10 Jul 2005

I always always worry that I smell funny.... I've had no complaints so far and always make sure I'm clean. Even if that means being late to meet someone..... hygiene is an important thing in sexual matters.
Says she who was too embarassed to say anything earlier today! :twisted:
Well...I've learnt my lesson from today and will never ever forget it!
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10 Jul 2005

Quote by tattyxpx
erm....... i know i know i'm a nosey fecker... can't help I won't even try......
BUT.............. was it "rimming"..... cause thats about the only thing left i (well we actually postie is intrigued now too) can think of that would cause a smell.....
Don't need to put yer reply in main forum just a nod or a wink or even a wee pm just to put us out our misery.................. pleeeezzzzzzzzzzz

lol....you have a PM.
No way I'm announcing it on the Forum..... although a lot of people have probably guessed anyway! smile

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10 Jul 2005

Ok.... well in future I'm not going to just carry on. Even though I'll be embarassed and he will be, it's best to say something otherwise he'll think nothings wrong.
I see the error of my ways....was just a bit surprised today as I've never been in that situation before.
I'll just have to put it in a nice way - I don't like hurting people but needs must and all that...
thanks for the advice though....I'll make sure I follow it!
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10 Jul 2005

Quote by G and H
If you know him well and for a long time surely you could have ask him to have a wash first without offending him

No, it isn't as simple as that.
I thought he would have had a shower before I got there as there has never been this problem before.
I didn't want to say anything as I didn't want to embarass myself or him..... obviously it's a very sensitive subject, one I'm not used to discussing with someone as it's never happened before so I thought I'd just carry on with things this time.
I posted because I wanted advice on how to deal with this kind of situation if it ever happens again with anyone as I'm sure others have come accross this before.
Oh and by the way..... It wasn't his manhood that was the problem..... or his toes! lol

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10 Jul 2005

Ok I've used the search thing properly and can't see that this has been done before.....
Today I have had my first sexual encounter for a very long time! It was with someone I know well and have had sex with before.
Anyway, we were doing stuff and he asked me to do something which i've done before so I agreed.... only to find he hadn't had a shower and the smell was pretty bad.
I carried on regardless as I didn't want him to be embarassed or offended but now it's all I can smell three hours later and I feel pretty sick!
Has anyone else has a similar experience to this and can you give me advice on how to handle the situation better next time please?
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10 Jul 2005

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I'm sorry to laugh at your obvious misfortune but this and the other post have had me in stitches!
I think it's probably best you choose the holiday next time....
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10 Jul 2005

Hello Angelica,
Welcome to the site...... hope you enjoy it!
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9 Jul 2005

I've never described myself as BBW. I don't want to be labelled in that way.
I've fought all my life to try to become something I'm never going to be. Sure I've lost a bit of weight in the past few months but I'll never be that so called perfect size.
I'm starting to realise that I'm fine as I am (size 16) - I do make sure people know my size before I meet them as it's only fair to give that info but I don't dress it up to be something else or put a label on it.
Fair enough to those that call themselves BBW....I just choose not to. Then again, being big does not automatically make you conventionally beautiful. I would personally find it insulting if someone was to call me BBW.
I don't think there is a cut-off point as such.... it all depends on how well you carry it. Height etc must come into it as someone who is the same weight/size as me but taller will look thinner....would we both then classed as BBW? No idea.
Think i'm rambling now.... best stop!
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8 Jul 2005

I must admit I usually go for taller men.... but with me being 5' most men are tall to me!
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8 Jul 2005

:welcome: Beeline
Very good first post.... well done to you and your mentor!
Have fun!
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8 Jul 2005

I quite like red haired men..... does depend on the redness though. This is a bit of a stereotype but the redheaded men I've been in contact with are very sweet natured and kind.
When I was younger I went through a stage where my hair went red (I'm supposed to be brunette) and got the piss ripped out of me for quite a while.
Now I change my hair colour every few months anyway so not sure what "natural" colour my hair is anymore! (it's red at the moment)
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6 Jul 2005

Thank you all for the info....
I now know what I'm going to get - will have to save the pennies though as they're all pretty expensive for something decent!
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4 Jul 2005

Quote by PoloLady
"For some reason I was thinking of you today and I just wanted to send you something beautiful, because I think you are."

That's lovely..... if I had that written in a card I'd blub everywhere! rolleyes

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4 Jul 2005

Hello Mike,
To be honest the "All my love" bit may be a bit much. "Lots of love" would be good or a poem..... poem's get me everytime! Even if they're not perfect just the thought that someone has taken the time to write it means a lot.
Flowers are good too!
Anyway, that's my opinion!
Good luck.
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4 Jul 2005

Quote by seagull69
To be totally honest the first reason I went was to see all the great bands playing and for the atmosphere. But yesterday actually being there and seeing all these people together for the one cause was just amazing and I had a change of heart right from the start of being there. I have now signed up, posted my ugly mug and sent the email thing too.
I think the main message I got from the whole thing is: All we can do is try. If we sit back and do nothing, nothing will change. If we at least try, something might change.
I'm still buzzing from the whole experience.....very tired but buzzing nonetheless!

Without wishing to be cynical and I am not condeming you or the concert but the world dosn't change through a concert or signing a petiton. It changes through continuous political activism.
Yes I know that....I was merely stating that if no one tries to change things then nothing will change!
I agree, it will take more than a concert and a few petitions but I'm doing my bit to help and so are lots of other people. I don't have power to change things, all I can do is follow the lead of others and make my small contribution. You never know unless you try.
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3 Jul 2005

What is the difference?
Coming from a woman I'm sure this question is silly but I honestly don't know the difference.....is there one?
I'm looking for a bit of "uplift" and proper cleavage....Wonderbra's and the like do nothing for me so was looking into the corset type thing but there are different things to choose from and I don't know which to consider....any help on defining the three would be good! (Tried google already)
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3 Jul 2005

I don't generally lose my temper completely but I have noticed in the past few months that I snap quite regularly and give my opinion more when in some situations....whether that's a good thing or not I don't know!
I did go through a stage of throwing things - not at anyone, in the privacy of my own home but that proved a bit expensive!
Only rarely do I feel pure anger....usually I remove myself from the situation and go have a cigarette! It does help to talk about it or write it down too I find.
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3 Jul 2005

I'm not a "smily" person - I won't just sit there and smile all day but when I do smile it's because something has made me happy or I want someone else to be happy.
Agreed, smiles are wonderful things and I'm going to try to smile a bit more, at total strangers, friends, family etc and see if they respond!
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3 Jul 2005

To be totally honest the first reason I went was to see all the great bands playing and for the atmosphere. But yesterday actually being there and seeing all these people together for the one cause was just amazing and I had a change of heart right from the start of being there. I have now signed up, posted my ugly mug and sent the email thing too.
I think the main message I got from the whole thing is: All we can do is try. If we sit back and do nothing, nothing will change. If we at least try, something might change.
I'm still buzzing from the whole experience.....very tired but buzzing nonetheless!
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30 Jun 2005

Ok well I'm probably going to get slated for this but here goes!
I was chatting to someone on MSN a few years back and he was really sweet to start off with. He then started going all weird on me and being quite abusive when I said I wouldn't meet him. I never gave him any indication that I'd meet him but in his own little mind he thought I did. Anyway to cut a long story short...... I said I'd meet him in town (he lived about 45 mins away) at a certain time and place. So I went into town at that time and drove around for a while waiting for him to show. I didn't think he would but then I saw him and I drove round and round for ages just watching him standing there like a big idiot he was! Had a bit if a chuckle over that but did feel sooo guilty afterwards - and still do!
I don't do proper revenge now.... I just let it build up inside of me but don't show my hurt or anger. Probably not the best way to go about things though!
At the moment I'm just biding my time and making sure the other person knows how happy I am and how much fun I'm having....... He's now the one doing all the running but I'm not answering his calls or texts - that's my sweet revenge :twisted:

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29 Jun 2005

I'm going! Well not to the main part but I'm going to Hyde Park where all the screens are being put up. Got my tickets today - didn't even have to queue!
No idea how I'm going to get there yet though.... biggrin

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27 Jun 2005

Quote by Debbiewebs

Wish I could cut down on the cigs..... got any tips?

no sorry never smoked roll ups so do not have tips! :giggle: bolt

hehehe.... I bloody knew you'd say that..... :P

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27 Jun 2005

I'll answer my own questions now (forgot about that!)
My tastes have definitely broadened....be it personality wise, looks wise, friendship wise, sex wise.... in fact in all ways! (or should that be in all wise?! smile

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Not sure about the activities..... I'm still pretty shy about certain things but I have done more than I ever thought I would.....if my mum only knew what I've been up to........ :twisted:
I don't really have a set "type"...... personality gets me first every time but there does have to be some attraction there obviously! biggrin

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27 Jun 2005

Quote by Debbiewebs
Well in the last few months Little old Debs here has been under allot of stress!
also had a good friend of mine try and commit subside!.but i glad say after a long battle i have got her to see a doctor and realizers now it depression and under going treat ment!
and so far so good!
But things have in proved loads in business ...........and all is going very well :bounce:
So as i want to loose weight and the stress is off me back
i have given up the wine .............and limit me self to 5 fags a day!
And really its no prob
but i here you say what is this post about!
well i would like to make a big apologize to all them concern about my health
and to those that had to suffer vie pm my child like manner
which i will send this link to them vie pm!
i do not talk alot about my life here!.........as i go into the cafÃ© to let my hair down and will continue on doing so but sober! :shock:
so do not hold me responsible for my sober reactions i might have!:giggle:
O well a sober debbiwebs from now on! :eeek:

Glad things are getting better for you Debs..... you deserve good things!
Wish I could cut down on the cigs..... got any tips? smile

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27 Jun 2005

Sean.... your ad sounds great. So much better and more personal than others.... well done!
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27 Jun 2005

Quote by VenusnMars
Like an idiot, I told someone, best kept sweet, that I'd download some Eminem and bring her in a disk. I do not want to stay up all night screening this stuff. Are there any fans out there who can recommend any 'not too aggressive' tracks, cos so far what I've heard is likely to set her off on one. :scared:
Venusxxx

Most of Eminem's stuff is pretty aggressive but personally I found that the "Eminem Show" album is less explicit than the others...... or you could get the censored songs but they sound the same anyway....apart from a load of bleeps!
Hope this helps.
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27 Jun 2005

Sexymale...why bother asking a question if you're not going to read the answer? biggrin

Very good story Chunky Love..... thank god I've never done anything like that!
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