Orgasminator
I've heard of that one before.... not sure if it's true though, never got round to testing it!
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onlyme1981
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 45
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Orgasminator
Quote by smokerjim
Do you find that your tastes have broadened over time?
No, but my arse has. (____I____) :shock:
Hehehe.... mine too but we won't go there! (pun intended)
I see your sexual tastes haven't broadened quite as far as you might imply or as far as I ( for one ) would hope.
*smokerjim takes the huff, and flounces off - but only as far as he needs to make the point, while still being able to eavesdrop the convo....*
There is only so much broadening one can take! :grin:
Don't make me hi-jack my own post again!
Orgasminator
Quote by Ice Pie
Do you find that your tastes have broadened over time?
No, but my arse has. (____I____) :shock:
Hehehe.... mine too but we won't go there! (pun intended)
Orgasminator
Personally I don't look for certain people's posts.
I usually look at all the topics on the first two pages and then decided whether to reply to any or not!
I usually look at all the topics on the first two pages and then decided whether to reply to any or not!
Orgasminator
I've been thinking about my sexual preferences and have come to the conclusion that my "tastes" have broadened a lot in the past 2 years or so.... I know I'm only a young'un but I'm much more willing to try different things and different people than I was before.
I find more people sexually attractive and they're all different to what I used to consider attractive.
Is this because I've come into contact with people I wouldn't have done in real life? Or is it part of growing up and finding out what you like and dislike? Personally I think it's a mixture of both.
So now it's time for your interaction:
Do you find that your tastes have broadened over time?
Do you participate in activities now that you wouldn't have before?
Do you go with the same type of people looks wise or do you look for something different?
I find more people sexually attractive and they're all different to what I used to consider attractive.
Is this because I've come into contact with people I wouldn't have done in real life? Or is it part of growing up and finding out what you like and dislike? Personally I think it's a mixture of both.
So now it's time for your interaction:
Do you find that your tastes have broadened over time?
Do you participate in activities now that you wouldn't have before?
Do you go with the same type of people looks wise or do you look for something different?
Orgasminator
I personally am sick and tired of people moaning and whinging about this site.
And for someone to slag it off who's only been a member for a few days is just stupid - Yes, that's you Garden!
As others have said before:
1. If you don't like the forum/cafe - piss off and look at the ads or LMU
2. If you don't like some of the topics, don't read them.
3. If you don't like the site, go somewhere else or start your own..... I'm sure it won't be half as popular as this one.
There other things I want to say but I'm too angry right now and run the risk of being banned!
And for someone to slag it off who's only been a member for a few days is just stupid - Yes, that's you Garden!
As others have said before:
1. If you don't like the forum/cafe - piss off and look at the ads or LMU
2. If you don't like some of the topics, don't read them.
3. If you don't like the site, go somewhere else or start your own..... I'm sure it won't be half as popular as this one.
There other things I want to say but I'm too angry right now and run the risk of being banned!
Orgasminator
Personally it depends on what mood I'm in.... sometimes sex with strangers is fantastic but there are other times when it's absolute crap - normally when you don't know each others likes/dislkes etc.
Sometimes I feel I can't relax totally with a stranger but there are other times when I can't relax with someone I know as I think they know too much about me.
I guess I'm pretty messed up really ( )...... but like I said before, it does depend on what mood I'm in and what I want from the sex.
Sometimes I feel I can't relax totally with a stranger but there are other times when I can't relax with someone I know as I think they know too much about me.
I guess I'm pretty messed up really (
)...... but like I said before, it does depend on what mood I'm in and what I want from the sex. Orgasminator
Well dealing with company cars for a living I do good deeds all the time, everyday - I know I get paid for it but I do go out of my way to help. I've even gone to pick someone up in my own car who was stranded on the motorway - he wasn't used to being squashed into a small hatchback type car - his was a nice big X5!
As it happens I got a flat tyre on Friday.... luckily I was parked at work so I thought lots of help would be on hand. Sod's law came into force as a week ago I'd just has my AA reminder come through the post but as I didn't have any money at the time I thought I'd be ok for a few weeks until I got paid.... big mistake! Anyway, I went upstairs to my department to see if anyone could help me out with getting the nuts off the tyre so I could change it..... not one single person helped me out - I was so angry and upset. Upset at the fact that I was a stupid female unable to cope on my own and angry that no one had the time of day for me when I do people favours every day - especially those in my department! In the end one very nice person came to my rescue and sweated buckets changing the tyre for me - he looked like he'd jumped into a bath full of water when he'd finished!
Anyway back to the original point.... I always try to help out where I can....I do tend to steer clear if it's quiet on the roads though as I wouldn't really feel safe. I have stopped on a couple of occasions to offer assistance because I know if I was in that situation I'd want someone to help me out.
I would like to think that a good turn gets noticed and someone would help you if you ever needed it.
As it happens I got a flat tyre on Friday.... luckily I was parked at work so I thought lots of help would be on hand. Sod's law came into force as a week ago I'd just has my AA reminder come through the post but as I didn't have any money at the time I thought I'd be ok for a few weeks until I got paid.... big mistake! Anyway, I went upstairs to my department to see if anyone could help me out with getting the nuts off the tyre so I could change it..... not one single person helped me out - I was so angry and upset. Upset at the fact that I was a stupid female unable to cope on my own and angry that no one had the time of day for me when I do people favours every day - especially those in my department! In the end one very nice person came to my rescue and sweated buckets changing the tyre for me - he looked like he'd jumped into a bath full of water when he'd finished!
Anyway back to the original point.... I always try to help out where I can....I do tend to steer clear if it's quiet on the roads though as I wouldn't really feel safe. I have stopped on a couple of occasions to offer assistance because I know if I was in that situation I'd want someone to help me out.
I would like to think that a good turn gets noticed and someone would help you if you ever needed it.
Orgasminator
It really isn't a big deal to me.... I usually pay my way with everything anyway so often insist on paying for a room if I have the cash. It doesn't feel like prostitution to me... it's just paying for a facility.
The conversation we were having wasn't in relation to swinging...... it was just one of those convo's you have where there is no real direction or debate but everyone has a different view so I thought I'd bring it on here.
I don't expect a man to pay for everything...... I think that is old fashioned personally, yes if you are in a relationship and your man offers to pay then why not, even if you're not in a relationship too. But I'd then pay for something in else in the future if we went out.
There is no such thing as a free lunch.... as they (whoever "they" are) say!
The conversation we were having wasn't in relation to swinging...... it was just one of those convo's you have where there is no real direction or debate but everyone has a different view so I thought I'd bring it on here.
I don't expect a man to pay for everything...... I think that is old fashioned personally, yes if you are in a relationship and your man offers to pay then why not, even if you're not in a relationship too. But I'd then pay for something in else in the future if we went out.
There is no such thing as a free lunch.... as they (whoever "they" are) say!
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Quote by Mikehboy19
It was just a stupid convo hun. You just happened to come up with the perfect answer to the convo which would kill it, kinda what i do with all the threads up on here
Ahh bless! I tend to do that too.... just see this one die a death! I'm sure thats not true of you though
Orgasminator
I used to go to Karaoke most weeks in my youth..... can't sing a note but had bloody good fun!
It's nice to know that people clap and cheer even though you sounded like to were being strangled!
It's nice to know that people clap and cheer even though you sounded like to were being strangled!
Orgasminator
I was at the pub at lunch today and the subject of our conversation came to hotels and sex (the two go hand in hand!).
Basically, and I don't want to be sexist but this conversation was between men and women, most of the the women thought that if she was paying for a hotel and going to have sex with someone then that'd be kind of like paying for sex.
Whereas the men were fine with paying and thought nothing of it, it's just paying for a facility like if they were to do it in a car or house - the other person paid for it but it's not paying for the actual sex.
I mentioned that you could both go halves on the hotel - then no one is doing the other a favour....that didn't go down too well as apparently I'd spoiled the conversation.
Do you think it was just a stupid conversation people have in pubs or did both sides have a point?
Basically, and I don't want to be sexist but this conversation was between men and women, most of the the women thought that if she was paying for a hotel and going to have sex with someone then that'd be kind of like paying for sex.
Whereas the men were fine with paying and thought nothing of it, it's just paying for a facility like if they were to do it in a car or house - the other person paid for it but it's not paying for the actual sex.
I mentioned that you could both go halves on the hotel - then no one is doing the other a favour....that didn't go down too well as apparently I'd spoiled the conversation.
Do you think it was just a stupid conversation people have in pubs or did both sides have a point?
Orgasminator
Oh gosh I'm so excited!
Is this normal behaviour?
It's so intimidating seeing all those names on that list..... I'm sure we'll all have a great time though.
Just have to find something to wear now....
Is this normal behaviour?
It's so intimidating seeing all those names on that list..... I'm sure we'll all have a great time though.
Just have to find something to wear now....
Orgasminator
I'm not sure I believe in soul mates - I don't know what I believe in but I do think there is something else other than this life.
I do think that things happen for a reason - I guess it's something that comforts me when things don't go right!
I have had strong connections with people before but never to the extent of Friday night where I thought I'd met her before - still feels quite strange even now!
I do usually follow my instincts - sometimes leading me into trouble but most of the time everything works out for the best - and if it doesn't....there must be a reason for it!
I do think that things happen for a reason - I guess it's something that comforts me when things don't go right!
I have had strong connections with people before but never to the extent of Friday night where I thought I'd met her before - still feels quite strange even now!
I do usually follow my instincts - sometimes leading me into trouble but most of the time everything works out for the best - and if it doesn't....there must be a reason for it!
Orgasminator
.....you get when you just know you've met someone before but there is no way in the world you could have..... have you ever had that?
I went out on Friday night and met some of my mum's colleagues - one of them I really thought I had met before - she looked so familiar. She's only just moved here after living in Cornwall for the whole of her life so there is no way I could have met her anywhere before. We chatted loads that night, like we'd been friends for ages..... how strange!
I'm normally quite a shy person when with people I don't know so it was quite weird to be able to chat to someone like that.
I went out on Friday night and met some of my mum's colleagues - one of them I really thought I had met before - she looked so familiar. She's only just moved here after living in Cornwall for the whole of her life so there is no way I could have met her anywhere before. We chatted loads that night, like we'd been friends for ages..... how strange!
I'm normally quite a shy person when with people I don't know so it was quite weird to be able to chat to someone like that.
Orgasminator
The nottingham munch IS gonig ahead, I have taken over the arrangements to give Clare and Steve time away.
PLease read this
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/47112.html
Sorry Sarah.....I know it's going ahead.... was just airing my views!
Well done for taking over!
Orgasminator
Bleeding hell!
What is happening lately? Clare and Steve have been around long enough to know that people don't pry into other people's personal lives unless invited (well most people anyway!).
I think, from what I've read, most people were showing concern without wanting to know details of what was wrong. They just wanted a reason for the cancellation...... and to know why it wasn't being re-organised by someone else.
I wasn't around when the original Munch thread was placed - I would have very much liked to go but as I live down south it would have meant I'd have to arrange travel, accommodation etc etc and if I was on the list I'd be pretty annoyed that it was cancelled with no proper reason and no willingness to hand the reigns over to someone else.
Help was offered, not just with re-organising the Munch.....but general help if Clare and Steve needed it.
I don't know the problems of Clare and Steve and nor do I wish to..... we all have bad things happen and we all deal with them differently! To blast everyone with the same ungratefullness and angryness just isn't right.
I do hope Clare and Steve sort out their problem but I hope they realise that people on SH do care and that doesn't mean they are prying!
What is happening lately? Clare and Steve have been around long enough to know that people don't pry into other people's personal lives unless invited (well most people anyway!).
I think, from what I've read, most people were showing concern without wanting to know details of what was wrong. They just wanted a reason for the cancellation...... and to know why it wasn't being re-organised by someone else.
I wasn't around when the original Munch thread was placed - I would have very much liked to go but as I live down south it would have meant I'd have to arrange travel, accommodation etc etc and if I was on the list I'd be pretty annoyed that it was cancelled with no proper reason and no willingness to hand the reigns over to someone else.
Help was offered, not just with re-organising the Munch.....but general help if Clare and Steve needed it.
I don't know the problems of Clare and Steve and nor do I wish to..... we all have bad things happen and we all deal with them differently! To blast everyone with the same ungratefullness and angryness just isn't right.
I do hope Clare and Steve sort out their problem but I hope they realise that people on SH do care and that doesn't mean they are prying!
Orgasminator
I want to come!!!!! Is it too late to get an invite? Sorry if I'm being thick....
Orgasminator
Quote by PoloLady
I realised the other day that there were a number of people on here that I have spoken to and exchanged banter with – that I know so little about.
Also sometimes it is hard to keep up with the newbies – disclosing a snippet of information here and there in different threads.
So, although there were some more obvious things I had thought of asking (age, height, status – mainly because I am usually too lazy to look these things up) I thought it might be nice to have a “ten things about me†thread (that’s not just ME – that is ‘me’ as in you).
So hear are the 10 things I would like to ask and hope you will share
1 – your most distinguish feature
My eyes.... or so everyone tells me!
2 – the favourite nickname you have ever been called
Little One
3 – the last thing that made you laugh
My mum being pissed! (tonight)
4 – the last song you sang (way too loud)
erm.... too many to mention....went to Flares tonight and had a fantastic time singing at the top of my voice.....
5 – the last thing that made you feel warm inside
Cup of tea
6 – the last sex related item/s you bought
N/A
7 – one thing you want to do this summer
Meet some people from SH!
8 – what would be your last meal if you were on death-row
Pasta - any kind!
9 – who would you want to share an eight-seater Jacuzzi with
Some dear friends
10 – the worst job you have ever done
Telesales
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Quote by MikeNorth
..thanks Mike, never heard it before tonight
You're welcome alspals, I think they are more common further south.
Yes, I can vouch for that! They turn up every now and then right outside my street. I'm not going to air my views on here as they are quite derogatory (sp?) but they do leave an awful mess behind which the tax payer has to fork out for!
Orgasminator
I'm still a bit raw after my break up - trying to pull myself together and then this thread comes along! I should ignore it I know, but I'm not going to - you have to feel the pain in order to get over it!
I miss: Holding hands, closeness, cuddles, kisses, sharing, going out and not knowing where we're heading, knowing someone loves me and I love them back, the butterfly feeling when you see them, having a laugh, having someone to cry & laugh with, having someone who treats me as i treat them, waking up in the morning with them and having a cuddle, holidays, even the rows!
I miss it all!
But then saying that, I know there must be someone else out there for me as it obviously wasn't right.
I miss: Holding hands, closeness, cuddles, kisses, sharing, going out and not knowing where we're heading, knowing someone loves me and I love them back, the butterfly feeling when you see them, having a laugh, having someone to cry & laugh with, having someone who treats me as i treat them, waking up in the morning with them and having a cuddle, holidays, even the rows!
I miss it all!
But then saying that, I know there must be someone else out there for me as it obviously wasn't right.
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Quote by lucyuktv2
when we were finally 18 the CSA magically found him but it was too late - they don't do 12 years worth of back payments.
beleive it or not, they do. It may take forever but somewhere on a computer will be a total of everything owed, and you will receive it one day. I too am in pretty much this situation, but my mum has found out that even if my dad doesn't pay up while alive, us nippers will get our share upon his death irrelevant of the will or remarriage etc. it's clearly not going to help by then but at least it's something. They also have the power to repossess any property if you chase properly, although you'd need lawyers, and it'd probably cause more pain that it would be worth.
Thanks for that info.... it wasn't all about the money of course but my mum worked damn hard to support herself and two young children and she did the best job anyone could have done in her situation. She would have given up the money (if he'd offered to pay it) if he'd wanted to see us - all she wanted was for us to be happy and have a daddy.
Anyway, I have realised that she's done a great job of bringing me up alone and I thank her for it often.
Orgasminator
Well coming from a "broken home" all I can say is that in my experience my father didn't want anything to do with my sister or me.
My mum had to bring us up single handedly with no monetary support from him... the CSA was a waste of space... when we were finally 18 the CSA magically found him but it was too late - they don't do 12 years worth of back payments. My mum wrote him letters asking him to see us as we were so upset and confused all to no avail.
I now have a step father who has treated me and my sister as his own, though he has to fight to see his kids from a previous relationship - i guess it comes down to the fact that some fathers want to see their kids and some just don't give a toss.
I often wonder what it'd be like to meet my biological father but then I feel guilty as he hasn't done anything for me....... though I would like to meet him and tell him what I think of him
Anyway I've probably gone off the subject a bit on this one.... but thought I'd add my angle.
My mum had to bring us up single handedly with no monetary support from him... the CSA was a waste of space... when we were finally 18 the CSA magically found him but it was too late - they don't do 12 years worth of back payments. My mum wrote him letters asking him to see us as we were so upset and confused all to no avail.
I now have a step father who has treated me and my sister as his own, though he has to fight to see his kids from a previous relationship - i guess it comes down to the fact that some fathers want to see their kids and some just don't give a toss.
I often wonder what it'd be like to meet my biological father but then I feel guilty as he hasn't done anything for me....... though I would like to meet him and tell him what I think of him
Anyway I've probably gone off the subject a bit on this one.... but thought I'd add my angle.
Orgasminator
The sun is great for cheering people up or making life feel good.... I'm going to go sit in the garden in a bit and soak up some happy rays!
Orgasminator
Debs you're a nutter.... a lovely nutter though!
I can't say I've experienced what you described.... you lucky thing!
I can't say I've experienced what you described.... you lucky thing!
Orgasminator
Looks like there's a few of us who need to celebrate.... Fabio, Love Commando, myself..... and probably lots more!
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I would like to second what Sean said.... as it's all true!
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I would like to second what Sean said.... as it's all true!
