Hello kalsi9
My advice would be to carry on as you have started.... keep on posting!
Also read through previous threads to see if there is anything of interest to you there. There is lots of advice for new people..... you just have to take time to look.
You could also try placing an ad or posting on "Lets meet up".
Anyway, welcome and have fun!
This is a general rant..... I've had a crap week so far and the only (apparently) supportive comments have been:
"If you think things are going to be crap....they will be"
"Stop thinking about things so much"
"Always remember that there is someone worse off than you"
"If you try smiling, you'll feel better"
etc etc etc etc
I know all of that but it doesn't bloody help!
To make matters worse, I have this horrible cold/flu thing that a lot of others have (so they'll know just how bad it makes you feel), I can't seem to have a conversation with someone without it turning into an argument, my pet hamster died today, no one ever answers their bloody phone when I want to speak to them, I had Barclaycard on the phone 4 times tonight trying to sell me something....once I can handle, but 4 times???? Do they not communicate?, my inbox is full of spam (156 in just one day!), I have to go to work tomorrow......
Maybe I'm in need of a holiday......?
Rant over.
Apologies.... this is a "look at me" thread and I don't care at this moment in time.....(although I'll probably go and delete it in the morning!)
Hello all.....
I've been away again for a little while but while I was away I was thinking about things and the fact that some of you have helped me (intentionally or not) in the past. This poem is for all of you but especially those who I have been in contact with through PM or those who have given really good advice. I hope it's not too sick making........ I'm in a soppy mood!
How should I start this?
I have lots of things to say
not sure how I should proceed
so I'm going to start this way
You are all beautiful
both inside and out
you are perfect examples
to what friends are all about
Whenever I feel lonely
and really quite down
you lot are there
telling me to turn my frown upside down
You make me laugh
You give good advice when it's due
you are a good bunch of people
in my humble view
I'm glad I have 'met' you
you have helped me mend
just always remember
I'm here for you too, with everything to lend.
x
Thought I'd crawl out of my hole and add my opinion on this one......
I'm seeing a guy and although I didn't find him stunningly attractive at first I have now grown to see him in a different light. I never base anything on looks alone as I know from experience that it's not the be all and end all but I will admit that I didn't think we'd last very long. 1: because I wasn't bowled over by his looks and 2: because I didn't think he'd find me attractive. I've got to know him more now and his personality and charm etc have had an effect on me and I now see him as an attractive all round person....looks as well. I don't think I've ever fallen in love at first sight as I'm not into looks completely...... there does have to be some attraction though and what I might constitute as attractive others may find repulsive! I do feel that we can grow to love each other - you may not be stunned by someone's looks straight away, but once you get to know them, their beauty shines through. I'm not sure I've written this too well to try and make my point but I know what I mean!
I agree with others on the smell thing...... everyone has their own unique smell - without perfume/aftershave etc - I love that.
Oh, by the way, for anyone that may have noticed me missing.....I'm back....again! (or for anyone that gives a damn.....I do have a proper explanation.... I'm NOT attention seeking!)
I'm sickened at how the terrorists have acted. They have no place in the human race.
I can't really think of what else to say as I'm to dumbstruck to be quite honest.
It beggars belief how people can do this.
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.....what's going on there then?