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pete1968
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 55
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Forum Virgin
Quote by MidsCouple24
Single guy by any chance Nellie? Standard. Definite club goer!
Probably lol
Reminds me of the time (starts the lightbulb swinging (no pun intended on swinging)) of when I went on a holiday to Majorca organised by a well known swingers site, it was a "hotel takeover" where every room was booked out to swingers, but the staff were the everyday staff the hotel employed. Lot's of the male staff kept saying how they wanted to be swingers so I gave away loads of Chameleon badges to them, nice ones with PINK branches, and as I said earlier Pink branches mean your bisexual :mad:
:laughabove: Very cheeky
Forum Virgin
Quote by northwest-cpl
Your right swinging can be dangerous and there are risks which need to be minimised. Everyone has a different level of what they consider as risky, based on common sense and experience. Although common sense and experience tends to go out the window when lust takes over.
I tend to go in and out of the Chatrooms as well, to see what is happening, just to be nosey and when I was younger I didnt always use a jacket.(Although now older wiser and more respectful, I do). It doesn't make me a bad person.
I have also added not kissing camels to my don't do list.
:laughabove::evil2::thumbup:
You may well laugh but.. this is yet another bitter blow for all our camel members on SH!
:sad: Might as well pack it all in then :sad:
Kiss 'em on the toe, not the lips and yer be ok.
mmmm Camels Toes, That I dont mind
Forum Virgin
Quote by MidsCouple24
NWC, Nips into Bareback room, see's Steve and Ste-n-Kez sat there all quietly :eeek:
I do see where you are coming from, but a few people have mentioned in this thread that they go in the BB Chatroom to see who is using the room. But lets say I nip in and see you in there, I could then presume (incorrectly) that you also are looking for BB fun when really, you are just being nosey and seeing who does use the room (this is becoming, how long is a piece of string discussion)
I know the explanation above is just me being pedantic, but not sure if someone using a BB Chatroom is a definate indication that they play without condoms. Same as photos of someone having sex without condoms, as these could quite easily be from a long term relationship.
However, when you put all the little pieces together, along with posting to come along to BB gangbangs etc, they do give an indication of people not always using them
Your right, we could go into a BB room and add people to our block list that are only there doing what we are doing, people could see us there and block us, but in our book "if in doubt kick it out" it is more acceptable to block an innocent person than play with a dangerous one.
Swinging is dangerous, we do it knowing the risks, we minimise those risks without eliminating them as we do with everything else in our lives, we look when crossing the road, we wouldn't pick up needles in the park, we check the gas is off, that is all you can do if you want to be safe, minimise the risks. Bareback sex with swingers is very dangerous and really it is only a matter of time.
Unfortunately there are other risks that some people don't even know exist when it comes to swinging, for example, do you kiss people who have just returned from Turkey, they may have kissed a camel whilst there, camels can carry syphalis in thier saliva !
Do you expect a single male to bring his own condoms ? really ? yes a lot do expect that, I know how many single men buy condoms at the swingers club I use, have you ever googled "getting a stranger pregnant" it is a popular fetish, of course some look for those offering BB to satisfy this fetish but realise that those that do offer it are probably on some form of birth control, so the next best option is tamper with a condom and have sex with someone who might not be using birth control, of course if the sperm can get through so can the viruses like Hepatitus or chlamydia.
Your right swinging can be dangerous and there are risks which need to be minimised. Everyone has a different level of what they consider as risky, based on common sense and experience. Although common sense and experience tends to go out the window when lust takes over.
I tend to go in and out of the Chatrooms as well, to see what is happening, just to be nosey and when I was younger I didnt always use a jacket.(Although now older wiser and more respectful, I do). It doesn't make me a bad person.
I have also added not kissing camels to my don't do list.
Forum Virgin
Reading all of the previous posts is an interesting perspective on safe versus non safe activities.
Here is a dilemma for you. Over 10 years ago I spent a few weeks with 2 married women, together at the same time. It tended to be passionate and spontaneous, so no jacket was used. As a threesome I had both women one after the other regularly or together, sometimes more than once a night depending on the situation.
Now looking back at that time, If I had used protection, would I have to, stop change the jacket, mid way through, stop change again and so on?
What would you have done as a guy and what would you have wanted as a woman?
Here is a dilemma for you. Over 10 years ago I spent a few weeks with 2 married women, together at the same time. It tended to be passionate and spontaneous, so no jacket was used. As a threesome I had both women one after the other regularly or together, sometimes more than once a night depending on the situation.
Now looking back at that time, If I had used protection, would I have to, stop change the jacket, mid way through, stop change again and so on?
What would you have done as a guy and what would you have wanted as a woman?
