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petesue
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 74
Straight Male, 81
0 miles · Greater Manchester
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Everything Blue says is correct but we would like to add somehting else to it.
Just the same as if you go out for the evening to a club or something similar not everyone that you meet will be for you or you for them. The same applies to dogging. We have been out on many occasions where we have returned home with nothing having happened simply because none of the guys appealed to Sue. No offence aimed at the guys but this is all about having fun and to have fun Sue needs to find the guy acceptable to her just as much as a guy would have to find Sue acceptable to them.
Patience is a very important part of dogging as is not taking things for granted. There are many single guys who think that just because a couple wants some fun that they are up for it with anyone. We are all different so we can't speak for everyone.
Just the same as if you go out for the evening to a club or something similar not everyone that you meet will be for you or you for them. The same applies to dogging. We have been out on many occasions where we have returned home with nothing having happened simply because none of the guys appealed to Sue. No offence aimed at the guys but this is all about having fun and to have fun Sue needs to find the guy acceptable to her just as much as a guy would have to find Sue acceptable to them.
Patience is a very important part of dogging as is not taking things for granted. There are many single guys who think that just because a couple wants some fun that they are up for it with anyone. We are all different so we can't speak for everyone.
Jomo,
It's guys like that who are spoiling the dogging scene.
We haven't been "playing" for some time now for the reason that is in our profile but did decide to have a little dogging fun last Saturday evening and also 3 weeks ago.
I will not say where as locations get enough publicity from I'm sure the same guys apart from the fact that it is not site policy to do so.
As soon as we parked up 2 cars parked up along side us, didn't even give us time to relax and get in the mood. We accept that not all couples think the same way as us and may prefer to have guys approach them as soon as they park up.
What made this worse was that when we moved away from them because we were not ready one of the guys followed us and parked along side us again as soon as we parked up. The other guy who didn't follow us looked as though he was the type of guy Sue could have had fun with.
We know the view these days is it is better to make arrangements for meets but this is not for us as the turn on for us is to go out and see what happens. If things are not right for us we are happy to go home without having any fun.
A few years ago when we used to go dogging it became a social gathering with both singles and couples chatting together as well as the sexy side of things. Those days seem to have gone. We are sure someone will tell us we are wrong and that we are not going to the right places but we are comparing the same location now to what it was like a couple of years ago.
It's guys like that who are spoiling the dogging scene.
We haven't been "playing" for some time now for the reason that is in our profile but did decide to have a little dogging fun last Saturday evening and also 3 weeks ago.
I will not say where as locations get enough publicity from I'm sure the same guys apart from the fact that it is not site policy to do so.
As soon as we parked up 2 cars parked up along side us, didn't even give us time to relax and get in the mood. We accept that not all couples think the same way as us and may prefer to have guys approach them as soon as they park up.
What made this worse was that when we moved away from them because we were not ready one of the guys followed us and parked along side us again as soon as we parked up. The other guy who didn't follow us looked as though he was the type of guy Sue could have had fun with.
We know the view these days is it is better to make arrangements for meets but this is not for us as the turn on for us is to go out and see what happens. If things are not right for us we are happy to go home without having any fun.
A few years ago when we used to go dogging it became a social gathering with both singles and couples chatting together as well as the sexy side of things. Those days seem to have gone. We are sure someone will tell us we are wrong and that we are not going to the right places but we are comparing the same location now to what it was like a couple of years ago.
Sorry to dissappoint you Mal but it was Pete. You can relax though Mal I was just throwing in a little humour, your not my type.
It is true what you say though, some people just do not read. It is the same as those who answer ads where they are clearly not what the ad is asking for.
You see post where couples say how many guys answer their ad where they clearly say they are looking for couples and not single guys.
Anyway Mal, Sue thinks you have a lovely bum also, does that make you feel better? I'm sure it does.
It is true what you say though, some people just do not read. It is the same as those who answer ads where they are clearly not what the ad is asking for.
You see post where couples say how many guys answer their ad where they clearly say they are looking for couples and not single guys.
Anyway Mal, Sue thinks you have a lovely bum also, does that make you feel better? I'm sure it does.
People like to get to know people before they feel comfortable about sharing details of locations.
Because of all the trouble from undesireables you could be anyone.
You don't give much away about yourself.
You will find that after a while, assuming you have made a few posts and joined in the banter, that people will be more willing to give you information.
Good luck.
Because of all the trouble from undesireables you could be anyone.
You don't give much away about yourself.
You will find that after a while, assuming you have made a few posts and joined in the banter, that people will be more willing to give you information.
Good luck.
We speak as a straight couple but do feel that your post will be offensive to the members of this site who are gay.
It is not our life style but we take the view, live and let live.
They may feel that the straight people who turn up at dogging locations are spoiling things for them but we have never ever seen a post saying so.
It is not our life style but we take the view, live and let live.
They may feel that the straight people who turn up at dogging locations are spoiling things for them but we have never ever seen a post saying so.
You may find it helpful to make a few posts and let people get to know you.
You could be anyone coming onto this site just to get information about locations. As a lot of us have had hassle by boy racers and the like we would think that most people would be very wary of responding to a post such as yours, no offence intended.
You could be anyone coming onto this site just to get information about locations. As a lot of us have had hassle by boy racers and the like we would think that most people would be very wary of responding to a post such as yours, no offence intended.
