Think we have been here before.
Joined today and this is his first post.
I think we all need to arrange a guard to pretect him from eveyone who will be rushing to take him up on his offer. Oh it is so sad.
Why don't the newbies read other peoples posts, this will give them some usefull hints on how to interest people.
Mind you they do make for interesting reading and do make us smile.
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petesue
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 75
Straight Male, 82
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Just curious but do people arrange to meet people that they get chating to in chat room?
We would not even consider it.
E-mail exchange first followed by telephone conversation before we would make arrangements to meet anyone.
Apart from not wanting our time wasted there is the safety aspect to be considered.
We would not even consider it.
E-mail exchange first followed by telephone conversation before we would make arrangements to meet anyone.
Apart from not wanting our time wasted there is the safety aspect to be considered.
I have to say that on occasions I have said that I like to see Sue with a black guy which I have on a few occasions but must agree with what your saying.
I have been guilty of not thinking before speaking but to be honest it didn't occur to me that it was a problem, my mistake.
We all have our fantasies. Some guys like blondes while others like brunetts but that doesn't mean they are being offensive by saying so.
If I have caused offense to anyone may I take this oppertunity to say SORRY.
Pete.
I have been guilty of not thinking before speaking but to be honest it didn't occur to me that it was a problem, my mistake.
We all have our fantasies. Some guys like blondes while others like brunetts but that doesn't mean they are being offensive by saying so.
If I have caused offense to anyone may I take this oppertunity to say SORRY.
Pete.
We know what you mean Carpathian.
The regulars seem to have no trouble with the words just flowing off the keyboard.
We try but seem to fail miserably. A comment by someone and by the time we get round to giving some input the thread has been lost. Never mind, at the end of the day it's all about trying and having fun and not forgetting to be nice to people.
The regulars seem to have no trouble with the words just flowing off the keyboard.
We try but seem to fail miserably. A comment by someone and by the time we get round to giving some input the thread has been lost. Never mind, at the end of the day it's all about trying and having fun and not forgetting to be nice to people.
Hi Acetates,
It didn't come across that way to us. We think your post was very fair and that you were making a good point.
People who change their minds but don't get back to people can give all of us a bad name.
If people can take the trouble to make arrangements we don't understand why they feel it is so much more trouble to let people know that they have changed their minds.
Anyway, I know I (Pete) may be one of very few on line on Christmas day but would like to wish everyone a great day and all that you wish for in the New Year.
It didn't come across that way to us. We think your post was very fair and that you were making a good point.
People who change their minds but don't get back to people can give all of us a bad name.
If people can take the trouble to make arrangements we don't understand why they feel it is so much more trouble to let people know that they have changed their minds.
Anyway, I know I (Pete) may be one of very few on line on Christmas day but would like to wish everyone a great day and all that you wish for in the New Year.
HarryO said No G.P. will prescribe these pills without first referring you to a hospital specialist for several tests first.
Sorry Harry but this is incorrect. I know because I was prescribed Viagra by my GP. All I did was tell him that I was having problems. I think it may have a lot to do with the GP knowing his or her patient.
Sorry Harry but this is incorrect. I know because I was prescribed Viagra by my GP. All I did was tell him that I was having problems. I think it may have a lot to do with the GP knowing his or her patient.
You may help yourself if you were to tell people something about yourself.
Sex?
age?
Where abouts you live?
What you are looking for?
Your post doesn't grab peoples interest as to wanting fun with you, it only caught our eye because it said so little and we thought a helping hand may be in order.
Good luck.
Sex?
age?
Where abouts you live?
What you are looking for?
Your post doesn't grab peoples interest as to wanting fun with you, it only caught our eye because it said so little and we thought a helping hand may be in order.
Good luck.
Bluexxx
We really would be interested to hear why you haven't named and shamed them, after all they deserve nothing less. You may have good reasons not to post.
This forum is for the members of Swinging Heaven and judging by the comments so far it would appear that most are interested to know which club it is.
I know this isn't PC but if we had been in that situation and someone did that to Sue I MAY have been tempted to do more than kick his glass even though at the end of the day it is in our opinion the clubs fault, as someone has already said, he may be like this because the club allows it.
We really would be interested to hear why you haven't named and shamed them, after all they deserve nothing less. You may have good reasons not to post.
This forum is for the members of Swinging Heaven and judging by the comments so far it would appear that most are interested to know which club it is.
I know this isn't PC but if we had been in that situation and someone did that to Sue I MAY have been tempted to do more than kick his glass even though at the end of the day it is in our opinion the clubs fault, as someone has already said, he may be like this because the club allows it.
Hi Gibbles,
As has already been posted we also always reply to e-mails providing that they include what we have asked for and that they also meet our criteria.
You say that you make sure you only reply to ads where you meet the above and we have no reason to think otherwise so all we can say is that not everyone is rude enough not to reply to you. The decent ones will if only to say "thanks but no thanks"
We get our share of idiots and as has already been said, we ignore these.
The thing to remember is do you really want to meet someone who doesn't have the decency to reply.
Good luck and keep trying, there are lots of good and decent people on this site.
As has already been posted we also always reply to e-mails providing that they include what we have asked for and that they also meet our criteria.
You say that you make sure you only reply to ads where you meet the above and we have no reason to think otherwise so all we can say is that not everyone is rude enough not to reply to you. The decent ones will if only to say "thanks but no thanks"
We get our share of idiots and as has already been said, we ignore these.
The thing to remember is do you really want to meet someone who doesn't have the decency to reply.
Good luck and keep trying, there are lots of good and decent people on this site.
We couldn't agree with you more.
We have a standard letter that we send to guys with whom we do not want to meet.
"Thanks for your e-mail and pic.
We are sorry to say that you are not what Sue is looking for.
No offence intended and we hope none is taken.
Your e-mail along with your pic will be deleted.
Regards,
Pete & Sue."
After sending this e-mail to a young guy he replied asking what it was about him that we didn't like. We don't usually respond to these e-mails but on this occasion we did. We replied saying that everyone has their preferences and that it wasn't personal. A big mistake on our part.
What we got for our efforts was a very abusive reply.
Not to worry, we all live and learn.
We have a standard letter that we send to guys with whom we do not want to meet.
"Thanks for your e-mail and pic.
We are sorry to say that you are not what Sue is looking for.
No offence intended and we hope none is taken.
Your e-mail along with your pic will be deleted.
Regards,
Pete & Sue."
After sending this e-mail to a young guy he replied asking what it was about him that we didn't like. We don't usually respond to these e-mails but on this occasion we did. We replied saying that everyone has their preferences and that it wasn't personal. A big mistake on our part.
What we got for our efforts was a very abusive reply.
Not to worry, we all live and learn.
It's not the dick pics that we have a problem with in themselves.
What we have a problem with is why do the guys who send them think that this is all we want to see. All guys have cocks, at least we think they do, some are long, some short, some thin and some thick.
We certainly don't have a problem with guys sending non facial pics but it would be nice to see what the rest of their body looks like and then if we all think we want to take things further to move on to exchanging facial pics.
What makes the cock pics even worse are the ones that are sent with
" If you are interested get back to me" or "If you want me to stick this in you let me know"
If a guy can't make an effort when replying will he make an effort to please the lady?
What we have a problem with is why do the guys who send them think that this is all we want to see. All guys have cocks, at least we think they do, some are long, some short, some thin and some thick.
We certainly don't have a problem with guys sending non facial pics but it would be nice to see what the rest of their body looks like and then if we all think we want to take things further to move on to exchanging facial pics.
What makes the cock pics even worse are the ones that are sent with
" If you are interested get back to me" or "If you want me to stick this in you let me know"
If a guy can't make an effort when replying will he make an effort to please the lady?
I think we have someone here who thinks that every post must have a reply.
People reply to posts if they have something to say not to keep someone happy.
You will see if you take the time to look that most of the people here are a friendly bunch, a bit of banter, micky taking and having fun.
If you don't like the site you have a choice as we all have, there is no need to be offensive.
I really don't think you have done yourself any favours.
People reply to posts if they have something to say not to keep someone happy.
You will see if you take the time to look that most of the people here are a friendly bunch, a bit of banter, micky taking and having fun.
If you don't like the site you have a choice as we all have, there is no need to be offensive.
I really don't think you have done yourself any favours.
We have to agree with Kat.
Not sure how you answer people ads or posts but if you do with the attitude you have shown in your posts we can't say we are surprised that you don't receive an answer.
As Kat says, treat people with respect, even those that are not up to what you are looking for. Remember, one mans meet is another mans poison.
Not sure how you answer people ads or posts but if you do with the attitude you have shown in your posts we can't say we are surprised that you don't receive an answer.
As Kat says, treat people with respect, even those that are not up to what you are looking for. Remember, one mans meet is another mans poison.
We think the same way as you will see from previous posts.
We have always been of the opinion that posting locations in an open forum was not a good idea, anyone that happens upon this site will see them and if they are not into this lifestyle be able to make a pest of themselves not to mention the men in blue.
We are now very wary of the known locations and prefer to go to go elsewhere.
We have always been of the opinion that posting locations in an open forum was not a good idea, anyone that happens upon this site will see them and if they are not into this lifestyle be able to make a pest of themselves not to mention the men in blue.
We are now very wary of the known locations and prefer to go to go elsewhere.
Hi James,
Sorry to hear about your bad experience.
We can't speak for others but we never agree to meet anyone from a chat in a chat room.
As we are a couple who are looking to meet single guys and there are so many guys who just like to get their kicks from sexy talk in chat rooms we always ask them to e-mail us first. The genuine guys will take the trouble. You will be surprised how many guys we don't hear from again.
Perhaps then folowed by a telephone chat.
Also it is not a good idea to give out address's so beware of those who do, we would always meet on neutral ground for the first meet.
We are aware that this will not wead out all the timewasters but we have found that it gets rid of most.
Sorry to hear about your bad experience.
We can't speak for others but we never agree to meet anyone from a chat in a chat room.
As we are a couple who are looking to meet single guys and there are so many guys who just like to get their kicks from sexy talk in chat rooms we always ask them to e-mail us first. The genuine guys will take the trouble. You will be surprised how many guys we don't hear from again.
Perhaps then folowed by a telephone chat.
Also it is not a good idea to give out address's so beware of those who do, we would always meet on neutral ground for the first meet.
We are aware that this will not wead out all the timewasters but we have found that it gets rid of most.
Good luck but i dont think so.. do you?You have to accept that everyone has their preferences.
Some couples are looking for other couples, others are looking for single women and some for single guys. There are also couples who are looking for all 3.
It has nothing to do with the fact that there is something wrong with a single guy, mind you having said that there are some guys out there that do make you wonder but thankfully they are in the minority
We are a couple that are only looking for single guys. It isn't a case that we have anything against couples it's just that Pete has trouble these days in getting it up and feels it would be unfair on the other woman. He also gets pleasure in seeing me with other guys.
Some couples are looking for other couples, others are looking for single women and some for single guys. There are also couples who are looking for all 3.
It has nothing to do with the fact that there is something wrong with a single guy, mind you having said that there are some guys out there that do make you wonder but thankfully they are in the minority
We are a couple that are only looking for single guys. It isn't a case that we have anything against couples it's just that Pete has trouble these days in getting it up and feels it would be unfair on the other woman. He also gets pleasure in seeing me with other guys.
