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petesue
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 75
Straight Male, 82
0 miles · Greater Manchester
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It has been a while since we have been out for a little car fun. The main reason for this is all the trouble that some people seem to be having.
We are thinking of giving it a go this evening but are not prepared to try the known locations because of the possibility of trouble.
If anyone knows of a location that may be suitable which is in the Manchester area we would love to hear from you but please don't give out the location here.
We are of the opinion that a lot of the problems we all seem to be having now is because locations are posted in open forums.
Please e-mail the location along with some details about yourself.
Sue does prefer guys to be between 25/40 and to be non smokers and although she is overweight herself does prefer it if the guy doesn't have a beer belly.
You can see more details about us in our profile.
pete_sue_
We are thinking of giving it a go this evening but are not prepared to try the known locations because of the possibility of trouble.
If anyone knows of a location that may be suitable which is in the Manchester area we would love to hear from you but please don't give out the location here.
We are of the opinion that a lot of the problems we all seem to be having now is because locations are posted in open forums.
Please e-mail the location along with some details about yourself.
Sue does prefer guys to be between 25/40 and to be non smokers and although she is overweight herself does prefer it if the guy doesn't have a beer belly.
You can see more details about us in our profile.
pete_sue_
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We may be wrong but we thought that there was no coma before but.
I'm not sure how helpful your post is, and you mean comma surely :mrgreen:
You see, this is why none of us should be too picky because we all make mistakes - although I'm surprised you managed to do so in just one sentence that was criticising my grammar *you must do better!*
And (hehe) I think you missed the point and general thrust of my post in your rush to score 1/2 a point . To be clear, his ad was sloppy and needed shaping up, and I gave a few pointers, that's all.
Hope this helps ;)
Mark
Only half a point because I already pointed out that I was uneasy with the construction to begin with - my suggestion was only acting as a little plaster over a gaping wound
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repeater but = repeater, but (although the construction is not ideal to start with)
We think you also missed the point, we were attempting to find out if we were right not to criticise you.
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Hiya swinger
I'll try to give a small hand, oo er etc.
Thanx for reading my i said im married and im looking for a nice sexy female of couple for no strings fun in daytime or not into pain watersports just good erotic clean long lasting fun and friendship .I love to give plenty oral and im a good stayer and repeater but most of all i respect who im with and im clean and fun to be with..all mails will be answerd with a pic..
ste xx
Badd speling is one thing you could look at. I know we can all read the above and understand what you mean, but it might come across a little more considered if you have taken the time to get the spelling sorted - along with the punctuation.
Thanx = Thanks (unless you were trying to be cool)
add = ad. or advert
At least one space (although I prefer two) after a full stop.
im = I'm
fun in daytime = fun in the daytime
friendship .I love = friendship. I love
plenty oral = plenty of oral
repeater but = repeater, but (although the construction is not ideal to start with)
answerd = answered
There are things others may spot that I have missed with my cursory inspection, but you get the point.
I am not for one moment setting myself up as some Grammar or Spelling Queen, as that would only leave me open to people constantly picking up on my mistakes - and I'm sure there are plenty! But (tch tch never start a sentance with...) you really have made a fair old number there, and since it's the only thing (apart from your pics) that you are using to advertise yourself, you really ought to spend some time honing it.
... and finally, you've chosen to be in anon mode (which is fine of course) but then you choose to give a reply address in the text of your ad which is different to that you signed up with! I'm even thinking of making this a 'no no'. The whole point of the new verification system is to make sure that the emails that are being used in the system are:-
1) working!
2) your own!
Can I say that about the email address you give out in your ad? No. Can I say it about the one you hide? Yes.
Suggestions:-
1) tidy your ad up.
2) create an account with your email address and use that instead.
You said you wouldn't be offended, and I sincerely hope you're not, because I am only saying what I have to help you a little.
Good luck!
Mark
We may be wrong but we thought that there was no coma before but.
Thanks for adding to your post that your comment wasn't aimed at us Red Van Man.
We have a standard reply that we send to all guys that we do not wish to meet but only if they have taken the trouble to include in their e-mail what we have asked for.
Unfortunatly most guys seem to take the attitude that they can't be bothered so we do likewise and do not reply to them.
We have a standard reply that we send to all guys that we do not wish to meet but only if they have taken the trouble to include in their e-mail what we have asked for.
Unfortunatly most guys seem to take the attitude that they can't be bothered so we do likewise and do not reply to them.
We have a standard reply for guys who respond to ads we place if they are not what we are looking for but there are a lot of guys that we don't reply to.
The reason we don't reply to those is simply this, if they can't be bothered to read our ad properly and respond in the way we requested or think that they needn't bother then in our opinion they don't deserve a reply.
Single guys need to read ads properly, look at what they are putting in a reply and ask themselves whether their reply meets what has been requested. If it does and they don't receive a reply maybe they can described them as time wasters. We have found that in most cases this does not happen in the e-mails we receive.
We get e-mails from guys who have seen our profile in saying if we are interested they will send us a pic. This is all that is in their
e-mail. How do they expect us to know if we are interested if they don't supply details and a pic. Needless to say we do not reply to these either.
The reason we don't reply to those is simply this, if they can't be bothered to read our ad properly and respond in the way we requested or think that they needn't bother then in our opinion they don't deserve a reply.
Single guys need to read ads properly, look at what they are putting in a reply and ask themselves whether their reply meets what has been requested. If it does and they don't receive a reply maybe they can described them as time wasters. We have found that in most cases this does not happen in the e-mails we receive.
We get e-mails from guys who have seen our profile in saying if we are interested they will send us a pic. This is all that is in their
e-mail. How do they expect us to know if we are interested if they don't supply details and a pic. Needless to say we do not reply to these either.
Couldn't agree with you more.
We are a couple who have placed ads saying that we are looking for guys between the ages of 25 & 40.
We also say that we prefer to meet guys who live near us, the reason for this is we don't like the idea of a guy traveling a distance only to find that after meeting either he or we do not want to take things further.
We get replys from guys who do not fit the description we have clearly stated is what we are looking for. It is probably these guys who say that we are time wasters because they do not get a reply, come on guys what do you expect.
We also get guys e-mailing us after seeing our profile on . Their
e-mail consists of them saying if we are ineterested to get back to them and they will send a pic. They tell us nothing about themselves and don't include a pic and expect us to know if we are interested.
We are a couple who have placed ads saying that we are looking for guys between the ages of 25 & 40.
We also say that we prefer to meet guys who live near us, the reason for this is we don't like the idea of a guy traveling a distance only to find that after meeting either he or we do not want to take things further.
We get replys from guys who do not fit the description we have clearly stated is what we are looking for. It is probably these guys who say that we are time wasters because they do not get a reply, come on guys what do you expect.
We also get guys e-mailing us after seeing our profile on . Their
e-mail consists of them saying if we are ineterested to get back to them and they will send a pic. They tell us nothing about themselves and don't include a pic and expect us to know if we are interested.
Any guy that needs to be told this doesn't deserve to have any fun but alas there are lots of them.
The ladies, well at least most of them, go there smelling sweet and a lot of the guys don't even have the sense to have a wash before they go, not all but a lot.
So come on guys, if you want fun think of the lady, at the end of the day it is they who are in control.
The ladies, well at least most of them, go there smelling sweet and a lot of the guys don't even have the sense to have a wash before they go, not all but a lot.
So come on guys, if you want fun think of the lady, at the end of the day it is they who are in control.
In case you didn't understand what people are trying to say, you are one of hundreds of guys who put a few words in an ad and expect a responce.
You need to make your ad stand out from the rest.
Tell people about yourself, what you are into, what you are looking for. Where abouts you live, we don't mean your postal address.
If you don't tell people about yourself how can you expect them to know if you are what they are looking for.
You need to make your ad stand out from the rest.
Tell people about yourself, what you are into, what you are looking for. Where abouts you live, we don't mean your postal address.
If you don't tell people about yourself how can you expect them to know if you are what they are looking for.
We think the approach you are taking is very sensible.
Most of the sites are too well known these days which makes for being pestered.
We have always been of the opinion that posting the location of sites in an open forum was not a good idea.
We wish you luck and would be interested to know if you manage to wead out the fakes from the genuine, not an easy thing to do.
Most of the sites are too well known these days which makes for being pestered.
We have always been of the opinion that posting the location of sites in an open forum was not a good idea.
We wish you luck and would be interested to know if you manage to wead out the fakes from the genuine, not an easy thing to do.
Direct ation is another way but really do think our way is better. Make them feel stupid and they will think again as to whether they follow anyone as the same thing could happen again.
I thought we were all in this for the fun, some of these guys must be desperate.
We have been dogging on many occasions where nothing has happened and we have still come home feeling good, the situation is what makes it good as well as the action, well it is for us.
I thought we were all in this for the fun, some of these guys must be desperate.
We have been dogging on many occasions where nothing has happened and we have still come home feeling good, the situation is what makes it good as well as the action, well it is for us.
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Talking of doggers following couples as they make their way home, we were followed some time ago. We didn't let on that we knew he was following us and let him follow us for 30 miles, what an idiot. At a convenient point we stoped outside a house that wasn't where we lived and let him pass. We then pulled away fast. I bet he was dissapointed when he turned about only to find we were no longer there.
Talking of doggers following couples as they make their way home, we were followed some time ago. We didn't let on that we knew he was following us and let him follow us for 30 miles, what an idiot. At a convenient point we stoped outside a house that wasn't where we lived and let him pass. We then pulled away fast. I bet he was dissapointed when he turned about only to find we were no longer there.
We have always said that we thought it a little risky to post venues in an open forum. Not only people like us will see them but also anyone else who happens to come across sites such as this.
We are of the opinion that it is far better to imform others that we know about new locations via e-mail and before anyone says it we know that there are risks here also but we do feel that this would be far better.
Just our opinion and we are sure there will be those who dissagree with us.
We are of the opinion that it is far better to imform others that we know about new locations via e-mail and before anyone says it we know that there are risks here also but we do feel that this would be far better.
Just our opinion and we are sure there will be those who dissagree with us.
No replies doesn't always mean a time wasting site, it could suggest that you have nothing to offer or that you aren't what others are looking for.
Take a look at what it is you are saying and imagine someone else reading it.
Not saying this is the case just trying to give you some positive feed back.
Take a look at what it is you are saying and imagine someone else reading it.
Not saying this is the case just trying to give you some positive feed back.
