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peteupnorth
1 month ago
Straight Male, 66
Straight Female, 61
0 miles · Tyne and Wear
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I fully agree with OP - we also enjoy just turning up. When I went dogging on my own in my single days - half the fun was anticipation - whether anything happened or not.
As a couple - we will never arrange a meet as that can be taken as guaranteeing that something is on offer regardless of the person or situation and tends to make things stressful. We are very much spur of the moment - and it will remain that way. We are there for our pleasure and not to meet the needs of a single guy.
As a couple - we will never arrange a meet as that can be taken as guaranteeing that something is on offer regardless of the person or situation and tends to make things stressful. We are very much spur of the moment - and it will remain that way. We are there for our pleasure and not to meet the needs of a single guy.
Bit of a bugger - a car pulling alongside. That would send us heading to the exits too. We much prefer someone taking the short "casual" stroll. Thats the most awkward moment in dogging - the "do they know I am here and walking over?" , "do they want to be watched?" but when it happens and is successful - well worth the trepidation.
Too many cars can be off putting. We tend to draw the limit at two other cars. Very occassionally three, but any more than that is too uncomfortable.
Too many cars can be off putting. We tend to draw the limit at two other cars. Very occassionally three, but any more than that is too uncomfortable.
Dogging is very much a waiting game. Especially for a single guy. You should expect to not get lucky at least 90% of the time. Even for a couple it is still hit and miss and we very rarely happen across other couples but know they still exist from various conversations while out. We have been out numerous times and never seen anyone else and ended up having great outdoor fun on our own - which is what we personally enjoy - the outdoor sex. There is no such thing as the right or wrong time. We go out when the mood takes us at whatever time that is whether it is dusk or after midnight or even daytime in the right location. We personally dont ever arrange to meet as that takes away the anticipation, spur of the moment, and introduces a stressful element for LadyUpNorth. Personally we dont let the cold weather put us off and have enjoyed quite a few nights out in the frost and snow although we dont see the point in going out when its pouring with rain. Think of it as a myth if you like. It is the patient respectful guys that end up being the lucky ones. Our most usual time - for no other reason than that of personal circumstance is after 11pm as a start time and out to anything up to 2 or 3 am. Others are obviously different - maybe having to be back home for babysitters etc or work the following day. Simply - every one is different, can get out on different days and different times. Ultimately those couples that go out do so for their own pleasure and not the pleasure of those that they allow to watch or join and arent going to be there just because you happen to be.
Also - those that constantly drive around, into one site and onto the next are very seldom going to get lucky. If there was something happening - them driving into the site will have stopped it for that moment and may not restart until they are sure who you are, if it all. If you are parked waiting when the couple arrives - they have a fair idea what you are there for.
As for signals - yes occassionally a flash of lights - either brake or interior - but often a partly opened window is all the signal I give. And it stops the windows steaming up !
Also - those that constantly drive around, into one site and onto the next are very seldom going to get lucky. If there was something happening - them driving into the site will have stopped it for that moment and may not restart until they are sure who you are, if it all. If you are parked waiting when the couple arrives - they have a fair idea what you are there for.
As for signals - yes occassionally a flash of lights - either brake or interior - but often a partly opened window is all the signal I give. And it stops the windows steaming up !
We had a look at the location you suggested. We had been once before but the car park is very open and right on the edge of the road. I dont think we would feel comfortable there. I accept there are places to walk to but in the pitch black that isnt something we would want to do. Maybe possibilities around dusk depending on how many dog walkers / day visitor stragglers are around.
Myself and LadyUpNorth are visiting Warrington area next weekend and staying overnight on 14th and 15th with a lady friend of hers. This friend has expressed an interest in trying dogging while we are there after we had told her about it. We dont know where the best locations are. I have had a look on the locations listings on here but if they are anything like my local ones, they have long since been closed / spoilt. Any help would be appreciated - by inbox of course!
Thank you.
Thank you.
I would certainly up for it - I met up with Laguna a couple of years ago so I know they are genuine. I am currently have a gf who is happy to put on a show but wont go any further so I would be coming on my own but cannot make Thursdays or Saturdays although with a bit of notice I can make arrangements. Other than that count me in if you get it arranged. I am orally bi - well Ive never tried going further but you never know !
I am going to be camping near Dyffryn (Talybont) for a couple of weeks - from 30th August. Im hoping the weather picks up for a bit of naturism on the beach or maybe some fun in the dunes. Would love to meet up with a horny lady or a couple while I am there. Or maybe even a bit of dogging. Would anyone like a bit of horny fun with an easy going guy?
