Jo hope you get better soon.
You're both in my thoughts xxx
I believe she idetifies her self as a T-Girl, in other words shes happy to be identified as a woman but shes allso happy to keep the male genitials.
The guys in the program were up to win 10K in the end when they found out about her sexual identity they all clubed together to ban the program and sue and I believe walked away with 125K EACH!
I personaly find her looks stunning, the strong lines in her face I find very attractive... But I think her voice would eventually drive me nutts, lol.
And yes, I could play with her.
Jon
The art of the written word is hard at the best of times, even more so when put into a context of free form speach as in here.
A joke; quip; or off the cuff remark can be taken out of context way to easy. It can seem as tho a light hearted joust is a a full blown personal put down of someone...
I know I've been quilty of typing something that as I put them into the PC seem to be full of wit, charm, and lightheartedness; then when the whole thing blows up because someone took it the wrong way I can see why!
Nowadays I often use lots of LOL's, winks, and smiles in my phone texts and emails etc... What you dont get with the written word alone is the ability for people to see your face, often when speaking face to face the words that are spoken could (if written down) be offencice or taken wrongly, yet a glance at the face seeing the glint in the eyes and the smile of the lips shows that its ment in jest.
I used to use NNTP newsgroups long before real time chat, and "forums" which are just web based versions of NNTP, flames come and go, and people have rants all the time... Usually a good backpeddle works, but even if not its rare for people to fall out perminantly, especially in a close nit community such as this. Net time is soooo much quicker than real time, a days worth of corrispondance can be the same as weeks or months in the real world. In a couple of weeks this thread will be on a different page, and most people will have forgotten it and the main protaganists (is that a real word?) will probably be fine with each other and lightly sparing again.
wanders off muttering to himself about the wiseness of posting in this thread when hes still a newbe to the forum
I think a lot of guys see swinging as the easyest way of getting sex... the reality is its harder to "pull" on the swinging scene than in say a pub.
What a lot of guys dont realise is that there is a world of difference between swinging and no-strings sex, but a whole lot more in common with "normal" dating than a lot of people realise.
The bigest difference is that people are more open about things, and social events are special in that people can talk openly about sexual matters and physical attraction without all the bullshit that normally goes when trying to attract someone in a night club; ie "You're stunning and so witty" = "I'm horny and you'll do, but i'll chuck you in the morning" (and thats true with both sexes, especially after a few drinks) Where as with swingers they can honestly come out with "I'd like to play with you because I find you attractive" far more honest?
Swinging is very much part of who I am, I enjoy/love group sex... simple as that! When/if I have another partner, I would have to know they were potentially into swinging, or at least curious... Thats not to say that I couldnt be with someone that wouldnt swing after discussing it.
Mind you this has made me think... Does two singles that occasinaly play together count as swinging? The only thing I can think of is that it depends on if they are friends and if they know each other are playing with others; this i guess can be quite important when it comes to deciding on safe sex (or its continued use) or not.
I do occasionaly play with a couple of single friends and we often chat and tell each other that we are playing, or potentially going to play, with others. I guess if you class openness and honesty as a fundamental part of the swinging scene then yes two singles can swing.
I know papers trade/sell on the amount of stuff they can put it that makes punters buy them, but I thought I'd make a couple of points.
The lower end tabloids haven't run these kinds of storys for a while, when whas the last time they did an "expoze" on a swingers or bdsm club... fare while ago!
One possible reason for this is that with the huge increase in the numbers of people that are on the net people are far more able to get another view point, one that totaly conflicts with the papers original "moralistic/holyer than thow" stance.
The other thing was most of the article was based on the couple, if they are genuine, that for them swinging works. Probably because they could put lots of titilating sexual exploits information into the paper that way.
Without realising it the paper posted some great info on swinging, and some sound advise
"1 rule, we both have to like the other couple"
"swinging allows you to enjoy other people, without infidelity and secrecy of afairs"
They also have, good or bad, advertised this site and la-chambre's
Janes info on why not to swing looks as though it was put there as an after thought because the paper cant officially been seen to condone something like swinging. (Interestingly enough, the papers have learnt the difference between swinging as a whole and parts of it such as dogging which is comming in for a hammering in the papers and by police)
"Arisara"s negative view on swinging wasnt as negative as it first seems... A little different editing and quoting would have made her bad story into "I loved it playing with the women while my partner was there... I just didnt want to shag the blokes like he wanted me to..." Sounds to me that she was loving swinging, and would do it again just as long as it was only FMF action.
"corallie"s not quite a negative review (she said it wasnt the swinging that broke them up, but did cause problems) was a good way of saying "You've got to talk, and keep talking..." its true jealousy can come with swinging, but a strong couple will either resolve the issues or will stop swinging either way the relationship itsself is strong.
A weak relationship wont survive, but then again its more than likely doomed anyway... either one/both with have an affair (resulting in far more animosity and heart ache than swinging openly) or they will split just cos its not working.
Has to be Bitter for me!
When theres no hand pumps, then something cheap...
Actually hand pump beer tends to be cheaper than gas pumped, but I like a "hoppy/muggly" taste and the cheap beers have that taste, oh and not to strong!
Occasionally a single malt wiskey, but mixed with lemonade :shock: (I know thats sacriledge)
This idea might have a bit to much of an "ewwwwww" factor, but!
Keep scratching your crotch, once you've got the information about filling in the form say, "I hope I get the apointment from the STD clinic soon" :crazy:
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