if a girl can have some banter and be quick witted with it then i immediately want to get to know her more.
if a girl hasnt got the same sense of humour then forget it!
im 25 and discretion would be totally upto the woman. if she didnt want anyone to know what was going on id respect her wishes.
my friends know i am a member here, i think one of my married friends joined up after i told him about it actually. i dont really care if people know what i get upto or wether they think its right or wrong. its my life and ill live it how i please. so im not really discrete with what i do, but would be if it was asked.
i also dont really feel the need to brag. but boys will be boys and i guess if you dont ask him to be discrete then yeah, he will tell all his mates what he's been upto!
i think it was just an excuse, lilmiss.
there is no way the price of petrol would put me off travelling anywhere for a night of lust with a girl
damn strippers taking my money when im drunk!