Can you stick me on the list please Gem?
The last time this was discussed I said I would go, so unless I chicken out you can add an extra one to the line up.
Roger.
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rogerthedragon
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 50
Straight Female, 51
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A great weekend with a bunch of great people - a big thank you to Essexlady for the organising (and the cooking).
As always great to meet new people, spend time with old friends and get to know people you didn't know very well that little bit better.
Roll on next year.
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
As always great to meet new people, spend time with old friends and get to know people you didn't know very well that little bit better.
Roll on next year.
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
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Sorry Alex, I am not going to be able to make this after all. :cry: :cry: I still owe you that drink though and will meet you eventually. 
Roger.
Roger.
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Quote by PeBbLeSDeMoN
5 sleeps!!!!!!!!!!
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You getting excited Pebbles?
:lol: :lol:
Does it show :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
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You're not the only one!
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Quote by postie
I'm in f*cking Essex ! How the buggery did I end up here when i live in Yorkshire and i woke up in Lancashire??? It's late and I should be in w*rk(tm Vix) at 5 am....
Bloody Essex Mafia and their devious kidnap plans...
Thanks for a top night NWC's... it was excellent.
And thanks to makingcocoa for... well, everything :rascal:
( will write a proper "thank you" thingy tomorrow, sometime, whenever I get home )
I hope you've been delivering the mail as well in your travels up and down the country! :twisted:
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Hugs for you Kaz as it cant have been a nice experience at all. 
As has been said though this thread serves a purpose of reminding new members on here that other people will look out for them and help out in situations like this, it also reminds those people who would chance behavior they wouldn't usually dream of just because we're swingers that they won't get away with it.
As has been said though this thread serves a purpose of reminding new members on here that other people will look out for them and help out in situations like this, it also reminds those people who would chance behavior they wouldn't usually dream of just because we're swingers that they won't get away with it.
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Quote by PeBbLeSDeMoN
5 sleeps!!!!!!!!!!
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
You getting excited Pebbles?
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Quote by Jas-Tim
Some posts have been edited, this has been done by me.
Please don't take the mick, other sites have never been allowed to be promoted on here and being clever about it really doesn't help.
Please.
Jas
XXX
Sorry.
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Quote by Jags
FFS!!!
Only ONE word has been added to the stop list from what Mark had! And it has been explained already. Now, move on from this topic cos it's just plain boring.
:x :x :x
I know it is boring Jags
- and I will admit to finding flirting with you much more interesting. 
However I would just like to point out that the URL's for none of the other top swinging sites are banned on here and you could send links to them by pm to your hearts content, the only swinging site that has had its name removed is the one that shall not be named.
If it was just to avoid mention of other sites I would have thought that other commercial ones would be blocked - otherwise someone who didn't know otherwise might think the management were concerned. (Not me obviously as I am not that cynical. :twisted: )
Right - topic finished - how about making some more steam?
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Quote by tallnhairy
Must disagree this time Silk n Big G... I fully understand the sites stand, they are concerned about people canvassing for another site, even a free one, using their services. I think this is fair, and anyone canvassing the for any other site (free or otherwise) that Mark was not happy with would no doubt be stopped.
I also think that this other site has no desire to poach members. This action actually protects them and people on there from any accusation of poaching members. This could be a useful thing, many people are members of far more than one swinging site anyway. (I think I am on 3 or 4 myself although I live in here) Last thing I want is anyone thinking I am only here to poach the sites membership or use their popularity for a bit of free advertising.
The filters on other sites addresses (and other words whatever they may be) does not stop me talking to my friends. I use phone, MSN, and indeed email for that anyway. It just ensures I am not accused of using the private PM system, which is free but still not mine to use for anything I want. Like the whole site I do so at the offer of the owners, whoever they may be.
Hmm rambled a lot there, sorry
Hugs
TnH
I see your points MrTnH but to be honest it strikes me as a knee jerk reaction which does nothing for people's current perception of the site - there is no reason why as you say people cant actively use more than one site.
It makes the current owners appear worried that people would want to leave - which there should be no reason for provided everything they have said so far is true.
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Quote by Jags
Form an orderly queue Mr Dragon ;)
I can offer to be official pillow fluffer
You fluff the pillows Mr TnH - then I can help flatten them down again.
Unless you can be tempted by a bit extra participation, at present there's one each for us.
Can't I have BOTH of you at the same time??
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But of course! I am sure we can manage fluffing, stroking, steaming and anything else that comes to mind. :wink:
Until someone throws us out of here of course. :wink:
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Quote by tallnhairy
Form an orderly queue Mr Dragon ;)
I can offer to be official pillow fluffer
You fluff the pillows Mr TnH - then I can help flatten them down again.
Unless you can be tempted by a bit extra participation, at present there's one each for us.
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Quote by Jags
So, it's Little Gem and me so far up for a shag.. can we make it an orgy??
WooHoo! Me please! I can help you two lovely ladies make it a "steam" room.
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Quote by MikeC
Is this banned word list going to be added to chat........
am i not alowed to say fancy a "shag" now as techniclly this is swearing
omg i feel like i am back in the 1940s and in germany
can i have some confirmtation what i can say and what i cant say please.....
MikeC
It's very simple you cant say any of the following:
*** naughtyword ***
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Does that help? :twisted:
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Quote by well_busty_babe
i am wondering if this same method of prying into peoples private correspondence works on the forum too?
what if i said i just wanted to ****naughty word, auto censor*****, swing , swing all day? lol
You'd have to revert to text speak WBB and XXXXXXXXXXXX all day. :twisted:
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Quote by st3v3
there are automatic scripts in place to remove certain words, try typing it in to see for yourself
:gagged:
Roger
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Can you add me on to the list please Kaz?
I cant confirm just yet but will hope to make it.
Roger
I cant confirm just yet but will hope to make it.
Roger
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Quote by sorts
I am only here for a shag!
ya cant shag in the confessional box
20 hail marys required :shock: 
Is that all you get for sex in the confessional box? :twisted:
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Hi Sarah, any chance of adding me please?
I am not sure if I've been on and off the list once yet for being fickle but if I have then sorry.
Roger the Dragon
I am not sure if I've been on and off the list once yet for being fickle but if I have then sorry.
Roger the Dragon
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Can you add me to the list please - assuming of course that someone will vouch for me? :twisted:
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Ok - I've avoided the thread but as you keep bumping it I couldn't resist.
I think the term BBW depends on how it is used, I like it if the person really means Big Beautiful Woman - but I hate it as a euphermism for Fat.
To explain, having met Darkfire I think her "BBW with attitude" is an excellent description and makes me smile. Also I have used the term myself to describe someone when I really meant all three words.
On the other hand it sometimes seems to be used by women in a depreciating way - as in I am a big so you'll only be interested if you go for big women. For me this seems negative, I like larger women but I also like slimmer ones. It is a lot more about the individual than what dress size they are.
There are people I have met having only chatted to them and who I knew I liked before I met them and would have liked them regardless of their looks.
Roger the Dragon
A lover of big women who I find beautiful but not because they describe themselves as BBW.
I think the term BBW depends on how it is used, I like it if the person really means Big Beautiful Woman - but I hate it as a euphermism for Fat.
To explain, having met Darkfire I think her "BBW with attitude" is an excellent description and makes me smile. Also I have used the term myself to describe someone when I really meant all three words.
On the other hand it sometimes seems to be used by women in a depreciating way - as in I am a big so you'll only be interested if you go for big women. For me this seems negative, I like larger women but I also like slimmer ones. It is a lot more about the individual than what dress size they are.
There are people I have met having only chatted to them and who I knew I liked before I met them and would have liked them regardless of their looks.
Roger the Dragon
A lover of big women who I find beautiful but not because they describe themselves as BBW.
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Quote by davidsplayroom
I think the "enemies" you've made are merely people who don't agree with your points of view and/or the way you put them across. I don't class you as an enemy, and my first post here was utter confusion, the second was trying to help you to understand the terminology of the thread. I can't take away your feelings of umm outsiderismall I can do is try to explain that the way you understood the thread was not the way it was meant. Now I've confuddled myself, and all I was trying to do was help
:crazy:
I feel the same way I have tried to be nice and somehow my jokey lines have been turned into something else, lines mis-intertpreted or taken out of context.
But at the end of the day the truth is Someone here hates me and that person is a mod
FFS
- self pity is never a good look, especially when you seemed to be doing quite nicely settling in! 
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Congrats Silk and Big G - always a good post and way too funny for your own good!
Roger
Roger
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Quote by Angel Chat
Now that's scary.... I just posted almost the same as Roger at the same time :shock: :scared:
I knew what you were going to type because I am telepathic but I got in first because I type faster!
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Quote by davidsplayroom
Ok
I do read newbie = newbie to the site
Vanilla = only ever dated one girl at a time
in most cases vanilla = newbie = vanilla = not swinging at the moment but might like to try it
ie someone like me
or should I just go back to regular dating sites and be a serial monogamist
serial monogamist = different girl every week but only one at a time
???
I think most people on here would read Vanilla = someone not interested in anything other than serial monogamy and who isn't into life's little kinks. :twisted:
I think most site Newbies are either here because they already have a taste for swinging from other sites or personal experience or because they would like to. I dont think this makes most newbies vanilla.
Roger
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Quote by well_busty_babe
can i just point out, even if it was to become the logo, it would not be a good idea to try and incorporate it into the pins..... kind of defeats the who object of them being unrecognisable to the massess!
A very good point, I would also like to remind people that if we wish to keep the pin design a secret everyone should shut-up about its shape, colour etc etc. Pretty soon there is going to be enough information on here for someone to work out what the pin looks like without seeing one.
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Quote by Sgt Bilko
is option one of the poll meant to say 'it can be improved'?? otherwise, it doesnt exactly give us many options!!
I have amended it!!!
:? :lol: :lol: :lol:Can you also make it say Logo instead of Log sarge? - looks like you may have a full time job here. :lol: :lol:
Done!! :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:
...... and you amended your typo quickly before I could get to it!! :shock: :shock: :lol: :lol: :lol:
:lol: :lol: :lol: Bloody hell I must be doing well if I out edited a Mod! Don't worry there will be plenty of others!