I am trying to talk her into trying sex with a W/E male while I am in the same room watching. This could take a bit of time

as she would be very nervous but she is sexually adventurous at times so see how far she wants to take it.

Please don't expect any developments quickly as we will have to take it slowly and she will have to be seduced by you.
It will probably be email communication trying to show her what she is missing followed by a meet up for a drink perhaps
a couple of times. If all goes well perhaps a hotel or back here with and see what developes.
Guy must be respectful and patient and not sure if she'll be ready to fuck just yet.
What I would like initially is a nice, vivid, explicit description of how you intend to use by wife and if suitable I will
put you both in touch.