Experienced but new to this site....I'm not really a hardcore swinger who is immersed in the lifestyle...and certainly not a player looking for notches on the bedpost. I just love good sex...sometimes with a kink. I'm looking for a similar soul who would like to be lead astray when the mood takes her. I like to lead and love to learn....taking time to discover and pleasure is the part of the journey that I enjoy the most. A woman with sub tendencies would be desirable but not a pre-requisite. Invites to club or play with couples would be amazing...I'm adaptable to most scenarios. I'm also qualified in massage and enjoy giving sensuous touch so if you'd like an hour under my hands with some laughs, conversation and kinky innuendo then come say hello ;-)