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sexkittenhfx
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 47
0 miles · West Yorkshire

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Quote by welikesinglemen
What are u supposed to do when one
boob is bigger than the other....at the mo i wear a b cup and let the right boob spill over, or a c sup and the left one looks lost lol.....I'm really not going to buy 2 sizes and stitch them together!!
The way the catalogues told me to measure I came out an A cup ffs...I got more than a handful so soddit!

yeah ive got this problem too...i tend to go for a b cup as its inbetween!
i once measured following some instructions online and the result was "n/a"...slightly diconcerting!
bascially im a 36 or 38 a b or c depending on what the style and make is.
i f*cking hate bra shopping :lol2:
i think the first time i joined....from what i can remember...a couple that id met from a different site told me about here but they called it "minging heaven" lol
ive only just seen this, im terribly sorry earthy, wish id have been there for you at this sad time.
take care x
ive completely stopped chatting to/meeting couples over the last 2 years, ive tired of the monotony of it!
i have found that i have consistantly been approached by couples that want to meet me immediately, approach me with a mixture of either totally fawning over me like im some sort of godess or at the other end of the scale not really giving a shit about who i am, what i look like etc.
in my opinion, its not nice to feel like a thing to be used for someone elses pleasure. i find single bi females are objectified far too much by couples....that "any one will do as long as we get one" mentality that i just cant get past.
ive been cyber stalked - when a couple think its ok to send me a message every single time they see me online and say things like "oh youre online on the site but youre not on msn" or "oh i thought you were going out tonight" ive been accused of being a fake, a bloke, a tease and a bitch (i admit to the bitch part) all because i wont drop my kinckers at the first hello.
im not sure i have any advice in terms of the best way to meet someone......people talk about active involvement in the forum and social aspect and yet -
in all my years on this site i have never been approached by any member of the fourm (which i used to be a regular on but not so much anymore)
ive been to about twenty munches/socials and been approached to take things further by a couple once. as a single person, its quite difficult to just go and talk to strangers at munches and i actually felt ignored at the majority of them i went to (not by friends that i travelled with , stayed with etc) so i stopped going.
what i respond to is genuine normal down to earth every day type chatter. dont call me a "fem", dont ask me what im wearing, dont ask me when i last had fun and dont treat me like im special. always have photos of both halves on the profile and try to be online together as much as possible.
that is all, i think
lol
as an extras member your add will automatically be highlighted with a random colour whenever you post/update it.
oo look, i dont post for ages and when i do im behind poshkate
biggrin
surely though, someone can still be "active" or "looking" without having an ad.
it was just a suggestion as id noticed the premium members search option.
you cant have an ad without being a member though can you? and some people, like me, will choose to have a profile but not an ad?
Quote by wild rose and the stag
what is a premium member? is that an ordinary paid member??

i'd guess so?
in my search, you can choose to only search for premium or premium plus extras members dunno
i love jack vettriano, i rotate a few of his pieces as desktops on my computer.
good luck with the search biggrin
Quote by Freckledbird
seven_up wrote 'Ron Jeremy used to do it'
who's he then?

A porn star. He can count down from ten and cum to order. Wow. Ugly git too, so I suppose he has to be good at something. lol
oops, i missed your post freckledbird...totally agree tho...not my idea of a porn star at all :lol:
Quote by Whipsnspurs
seven_up wrote 'Ron Jeremy used to do it'
who's he then?

the quote button is in the top right hand corner Whipsnspurs biggrin
ron jeremy is a legendary porn star...he can cum on demand i believe? never saw his suck himself off tho...would have thouhgt his belly got in the way lol
i think it looks a bit wierd and uncomfortable but not gay. id rather be doing it to be honest :P
Quote by Aquilo
Please Note: Hitachi Magic Wand is not my pet name for my willy... if only my willy could give as much pleasure! lol

ahhh, thats what those power cuts round here are down to then wink
i cant come anymore...but it looks like you might need the space anyway smile
have a good time everyone :thumbup:
happy birthday kate, im sorry i cant be there to celebrate it with you next week, have a vino for me kiss
Quote by Whipsnspurs
for spurs it's a pleasure, for me i'd rather be fingered!
anyone not washing, male or female need kicking out of bed rolleyes

i absolutely agree, on both counts!
i can really take or leave receiving oral...its pleasant, most of the time lol, but its not essential dunno
Quote by TheLovelyOne
By the way, condoms don't actually contain the casein; it's used in the manufacturing process.
A bit like why wine isn't vegetarian - bits of fish used in the process!

eww i was about to go buy a nice bottle of rose for tonight til i read that sad
hmm i guess i have the time it just never seems to work out.
sorry for the slight hijack orange2sum and good luck
wink
my advice would be to try more clubs or the b&b type places, sure youve had a bad experience but dont let it put you off, try a different one. look at the clubs section here for reviews etc
i wouldnt have thought that randomly picking people up from "vanilla" environments to "swing" with would be that successful tbh
good luck, have fun whatever wink
i have to agree with foxylady and would add that maybe you question why youre in a relationship with someone who is obviously so mis-matched.
i do see where youre coming from though amd it is difficult to get it right. i think to stop looking is the most common and most successful method, so ive heard anyway wink
your profile says a couple of things that i think might be putting people off...you say youre an attractive couple looking for similar....lots of people may see that, look at your pics and think theyre out of your league, so to speak?
also you make a comment about parties with 50 people crammed into a little house....i guess lots of the parties that go on here are just that or similar, maybe it makes you sound like you think youre "above" that?
these are only my suggestions from what reading your profile made me feel, no offence intended at all smile
Quote by earthchild
im just confirming that i cant come anymore sad
have a good time everyone and i will really miss the opportunity to catch up with some good friends :cry:

Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo! :cry:
i know :(
bloody inconsiderate best friend having her husbands 40th on a SH social night! how dare she!!
:cry:
im just confirming that i cant come anymore sad
have a good time everyone and i will really miss the opportunity to catch up with some good friends :cry:
Quote by Cherrytree
Havent we had i nthe last 2 weeks or so..
The death penalty, smoking ban, abortion and smacking of children?

Yes

yes we have, and a few other emotive threads too.
im not a big poster anyway, im pretty sure most of the current regulars wont know me anyway dunno
but these overly contentious, provocative and sometimes argumentative threads kinda put me off posting altogether, to be honest.
im here to have fun, a laugh, make friends, give an opinion if im asked and want to contribute....but i dont like feeling that i cant say anything in case someone takes offence and has a go or cant agree to disagree ...(not because im scared of debate but because i really cant be arsed getting into it, like i say , im here for fun, not confrontation)
one good thing about these threads that id rather not get involved in though, it really does show people up for what they are and allows me to know who to give a wide berth!
Quote by dundeecpl
i really like buxom blondes to be honest :twisted:
i do like a curvy woman, and you can be curvy at a size 10 just as you can be at a size 20, it totally depends on the individual.

wave :wave: :wave:
oooo, hello wink
Quote by naughtynymphos1
Right to those who dont know me im female, i do and always have though men like more slimmer women, i have lost over the past year just over 7 stone in weight and get far more offers not than i ever used to before, when i was bigger i used to get turned down a lot by guys i met, even tho i always said i was a BBW, one guy i met didnt even get out the car me pulled up, looked at me and drove off :shock: which dont do your confidance much good lol but since i have lost weigh i never have any problems finding guys to play with at clubs etc and have lots more offers on here too, so in my experiance guys prefure slimmer women

well isnt that odd...ive also lost over 7 stone in the last year and im axactly the opposite!
i got far more interest when i was fat...i never called myself a BBW as i personally dont like the term.....but i always got interest in any of my ads and when in the chatroom etc, i hardly get any now!
i cant comment on club visits becasue ive yet to find a willing victim to chauffer and escort me at my whim
lol
i really like buxom blondes to be honest :twisted:
i do like a curvy woman, and you can be curvy at a size 10 just as you can be at a size 20, it totally depends on the individual.