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shad
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 65
Straight Female, 63
UK

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Quote by normalbhamguy
:welcome: to the site hope you enjoy your stay.

Hi shad and thankyou very much. Are you local to me just out of interest.
Yes we are fairly local to you.
Nice one. Well I am actually based in Dudley now but can travel and have often had some fun in my 206 cc. Always nice with the roof down. Hopefully you will keep me in my mind for the future.
You never know wink
Give her our best best and hopes for a speedy recovery. kiss
Quote by normalbhamguy
:welcome: to the site hope you enjoy your stay.

Hi shad and thankyou very much. Are you local to me just out of interest.
Yes we are fairly local to you.
Have a great time Dean and look forward to all the stories you will be telling us when you return.
Alex put your microscope away and either stay on the site or go back to the classroom. But for gods sake stop asking such deep and meaningfull questions.
Outstanding post as always Mr D and it would seem that in this as in most things in life, less is most definately more.
Quote by juscruzin
Hi - Can anybody help me out with the gen on Haughley Bends? I'm new to this and made my first visit last night but the only people about were sad single guys (like me!). Is there a pecific day/time for couples to show or do i have to take pot-luck? (Of course, if a sympathetic couple who are not averse to a 50 y/o saddo would like to PM me......)
Cheers,
JC

It's been said many times before that there are far more single men than there are couples. As you have stated above POT LUCK is what dogging is about lol wish you luck though.
:welcome: To the site by the way.
Quote by Lissa
But how do you vet people?

By the posts that they have made or verification by an existing member of SH. Failing that i would suggest a lot of begging, you never know a kind lady may take pity on you and invite you along to a meet.
Um..............Pete doesn't need to beg............he gets me any time he wants..lol.
Poor bugger lives with me!
What he meant though, in how do you vet people, is that even checking peoples posts might not be enough. You can never really tell what someone is like until you meet them. Someone who comes across as ok in their posts might be a total tosser (and not in a GOOD way) when you actually meet them. I guess sometimes you just have to take a chance. We've always been lucky so far, but have no illusions that we will always be so lucky.
Hi Lissa, i suppose that's why we have meets and munches etc. It's a good way to meet people in a neutral environment and get to know them that way first.
Failing this as you say take a chance and see.
Hi Shad
I think that the munches are a good idea, but not something we would be able to attend. We just take a chance on people, and I have to say it's less worrying now that it used to be, probably because we know there will always be a few 'regulars' along when we go out and I'm sure that if we did have a problem they would quickly step in to give us support.
Been meaning to say....love your avatar by the way...............wish I had a cleavage like that :cry:
As you say munches are a great idea, we were looking forward to deans meet this weekend.
Have to ask you why you think you would not be able to attend, it's just a social so nothing is offered or expected.
My cleavage your bottom what a combination that would be, wonder if this has been done yet .
Theres an idea for a thread there somwhere.... wink
Quote by Lissa
LOL Shad.................crossed posts!!

LOL whoops. lol
Quote by Lissa
But how do you vet people?

By the posts that they have made or verification by an existing member of SH. Failing that i would suggest a lot of begging, you never know a kind lady may take pity on you and invite you along to a meet.
Um..............Pete doesn't need to beg............he gets me any time he wants..lol.
Poor bugger lives with me!
What he meant though, in how do you vet people, is that even checking peoples posts might not be enough. You can never really tell what someone is like until you meet them. Someone who comes across as ok in their posts might be a total tosser (and not in a GOOD way) when you actually meet them. I guess sometimes you just have to take a chance. We've always been lucky so far, but have no illusions that we will always be so lucky.
Hi Lissa, i suppose that's why we have meets and munches etc. It's a good way to meet people in a neutral environment and get to know them that way first.
Failing this as you say take a chance and see.
Quote by ChaffeurPete
But how do you vet people?

By the posts that they have made or verification by an existing member of SH. Failing that i would suggest a lot of begging, you never know a kind lady may take pity on you and invite you along to a meet.
Oh have just realised who you are and would say you don't need any verification lol
Ziks, i would advise that you vet people first prior to giving them locations as a venue can fill up very quickly with the wrong type of watchers.
No one wants to be surounded by boy racers and other fools. wink
We second Neils comment Dean and look forward to the new year. wink
Quote by otfkthx 109104103
hey. can someone explain what dogging is? I hear it mentioned alot but I have no idea what it is
I'm thinking it's sex with dogs? or do I have the wrong end of the stick?
thanks
otfkthx 109104103

Is this a serious question because everyone in the country knows what dogging is by now.
If it is serious i would follow the advise given you by Lissa.
:welcome: to the site by the way.
Don't know what is more shocking the overkill employed by the boys in blue, or you eating lunch just after midnight. lol lol
Quote by Hurtful Todger
Nice Avitar shad, who is it? confused

The avatar you refer to is the delectable mrs shad.
Quote by purple warrior
lovin the origional post lmfao
but seeing as I am a newbie I am wondering what the thrill is with "dogging" surely your chosen partner should be able to excite you more than enough in the bedroom or wherever "alone" rather than having other people watch and know this. I know my partner does otherwise I wouldnt be marrying him.
I have heard other rumours about dogging and the rules such as if the interior lights on you can watch and the lights and and the window is open you can join in? Is this true? If so why would people who supposidly love each other and enjoy a good healthy sex life need this sort of thrill to make them happy? Speaking from my opinion it seems that you are unhappy and unfulfilled with your current partner to be seeking out these sort of thrills in such a risky way.
I didnt register to have a go and I am curious as to why you all do this. I am hoping that you can answer my questions.
For me the thrill is that I can satisfy my partner and he me in privacy without the need for things such as this. And no I am not a fridge and I enjoy a healthy sex life and I am not adverce to new ideas and small risks such as having sex outside etc.
Maybe you are all exibisionists and enjoy the fact that other people (men and women) find you sexually attractive?

Curiosity is the first step towards dogging, it seems that you are interested in knowing more about it.
Why don't you go out yourself with your partner and see what effect it has on you both.
You know all the dogging signs as you have demonstrated in your post. wink
Quote by dirtydoggers
i didn't think you could better your last avetar shad, you did wink cmon shakman, you are probably getting carried away son, what with no paper round in the morning and all, but look, tracy-jayne and shad jumping on you is the best result you're gonna get with wank crap shite like that.. :!:

Cheers Dirty we aim to please and more will follow when we can work out how to animate our own photos, hope things are well with you both. wink
Meaty where can i get a simple free download to enable me to animate my photos..? :confused2:
Quote by shakman83
MY DICK IS HARD WAITING TO FUCK UR PUSSY 2NITE NEAR HEATHROW EMAIL ME NOW TO MEET 2NITE

Who are you talking to and why are you shouting. dunno
Quote by Lissa
Thanks Mick!
I didn't break my record, but a great night considering the weather!
Sorry to Jomu that I didn't get a chance to say hello. I could hear you talking to Pete, but I was a bit occupied at the time wink
Best thing about the night though was late on, when most people had left. A couple had been sitting in their car all the time we were there, and we finally got them to come over for a chat. It turned out they had been checking out Dogging locations for a while, seeing what went on, because they thought they might like to get involved. We spent a bit of time telling them about our experiences, what we enjoyed about it, and how 99% of Doggers are decent, nice people. The lady of the couple was obviously intrigued by it all, but wasn't totally sure if she could lose her inhibitions enough.A few guys had stayed on, and they then came back to the car as I was still up for a bit more action wink
I knew the couple were watching.................but then the sight of all that fun must have finally cracked whatever reserves the lady had left, because in a very short time she was out of the car getting a right good shagging. I was so pleased to see her really enjoying it, and her husband obviously proud of her and the attention she was getting. I love dogging so much, and it was great to see someone else reaping the benefits of it. We told them about this site, and hopefully they'll join, we'll keep in touch, and go out again as a pair of couples..There are usually more than enough single males to keep both of us happy. biggrin
All in all a fantastic night biggrin

Glad you had a good night Lissa, we hope to get along to see you one of these nights. wink
Quote by blackbonemonster
that explain it, so then try and put it into use..instead of looking for prople to gang bang u, u sad person...lol i dot give a fuck abut this forum

dunno dunno dunno I think you are not doing yourself any favours by posting in this fasion.
Chill out and go with the flow, it's a great site.
:welcome: to the site, make sure you are sitting comfortably cause your going to be here a while. lol
Quote by 34fun
guess i'm showing my age with that computer then !! and i AM only 38....

lol Only playing with you, :welcome: to the site and enjoy.
Oh for the record we are older than you, not by much though.!!!!!! lol
Quote by Happy Cats
anyone give me any idea how in paint shop pro i take a full photograph and reduce it down to head and shoulders size, preferably no more than 50kb.
i have managed to reduce the picture in size, but always lose the actual shot of me.
sorry if i am asking a repetative question, but i did try searching the site first, and there was no indepth advice for someone who was trained on a commodore 64 !!
thanks in advance
dave

rotflmao What's a commodore 64.????
Dont be silly - its a naval guy nearing pension age
Oh i see, i thought it was something to do with that Lionel Ritchie bloke retiring.!!!!!
Quote by 34fun
anyone give me any idea how in paint shop pro i take a full photograph and reduce it down to head and shoulders size, preferably no more than 50kb.
i have managed to reduce the picture in size, but always lose the actual shot of me.
sorry if i am asking a repetative question, but i did try searching the site first, and there was no indepth advice for someone who was trained on a commodore 64 !!
thanks in advance
dave

rotflmao What's a commodore 64.????
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/30801.html
Hi both, have a good read through the above link.
:welcome: to the site and hope you enjoy your stay, oh good luck with your flashing etc.
Quote by plumbpond
ME!!!

Girl you have great boobie's, just get the bra off and be proud. sillyhwoar: lol