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shad
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 65
Straight Female, 63
UK

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Quote by lukewarm
Hi Shad,
Wow that sounds like it was a great afternoon, I have visions of the OAP's with thier faces pushed up against your windows...lol.
Anyway best of luck to you both and maybe see you around one of these days.

:grin: Thanks Lukewarm and you never know you may see us out and about.
We are out Friday night in the Hinkley and Bosworth areas as we are keen to try a night venue. wink
shad
Quote by TanH
Hi , went out to That errr "well known" place near meridan last week for our first expereience of dogging . Were watched closely by a nice non pushy guy and then later by another guy . have since heard that the area is monitered quite closely by police etc and that puts us both off , Anyone know of anywhere really safe in the same sort of area or say within about 15 miles ?

:welcome: I think most areas are monitored by police these days so can only advise you to seek alternative venues that are not listed as dogging sites.
Oh there are posts on here that advise on police views and how they relate to doggers and dogging, i would have put a link up for you but being a bit thick dont know how.
Perhaps someone that is more clued up than myself will point the way for you.
shad.
Quote by poker
hi im looking for some one to watch durong the day in the south essex area or near by. it does not have to be outside. yuor palce would do or your work place even. i have never been able to see any action when iv been out. perhaps you could help me. Thanks for reading this note. please pm me.

:welcome: To the site hope you find what your looking for.
shad.
Hello all,
Are there any dogging venues in the Swadlincoat area of Burton please reply by PM only.
Thanks.
shad.
Quote by vflange
Does anyone dog on foot or pushbike? I've never learned to drive and from what I read on here, the car is a pretty essential accoutrement for the activity that interests us - the lights, etc. I'd appreciate guidance from friendly doggers in the Lowestoft area.
Cheers.

:thrilled: Dont think it matters how you get there just as long as you do. Ask for a ride home if you can and put the bike in the boot.
Turn the music up and you wont here the shouts :twisted: lol
shad
Quote by HornyToyBoy
Im looking for a quick oportunity. Im looking to drive somewhere. Park up somewhere quiet and secluded. Then i want someone to suck my cock and then once complete to drive off. I feel of meeting complete strangers turns me on.
if anyones interested please contact me with a pic preferably. xx martin

It might help if you say what gender you expect this quick opportunity to be with, i for instance have been seeking the same opportunity for the last 20 years and am still hopefull that a lady will wrench my car door off it's hinges in her haste to pleasure me. lol
Some time ago i posted a thread the upshot of which was my wife would not play, well as this post title suggests things have moved on.
Suprisingly enough my wife enjoyed the experience as much as i did, in fact she was more aroused than i have seen her in many years. :shock:
OK we were out last Saturday during the early afternoon and were just driving about enjoying each others company and stopping off at nice country pubs, we spent this time just being close to one another kissing and touching when we could.
I asked my wife if she wanted to go to the daytime dogging car park in the Leicester area which i have also mentioned in another thread, she responded that yes she would.
Now this may have been due to the tia marias that she had been consuming at an impressive rate or my charms, i like to think it was the latter wink well when we arrived at our secluded little spot it was empty as i had expected.
We could no longer keep our hands off each other and i soon removed her top and bra at which point she proceeded to give me the most wonderfull blow job.
Things were going great when another car entered our haven and i thought we are going to get an audience after all, now i thought lets be carefull and make sure it's the right kind. It was just as well i considered this because the visitors were an elderly couple who had brought their dogs out for a walk.
I'll skip over the walking round the car park poop scooping whislt staring at us disapprovingly senario and move right on to what happened as soon as they had left.
As my wife was already topless i reclined her seat even further back and kissed her passionately whilst undoing her jeans this allowed me just enough room to slide my hand inside her knickers, to my surprise she was abosolutely soaking she then said i want you to fuck me.
Well nothing short of a nuclear holocaust would have prevented me from carrying out her request, we had the most amazing sex and due to the cramped conditions inside her car found much to laugh about afterwards.
We have spoken about this experience and we are in agreement that we would like to continue whether we have an audience or not is at this point immaterial to us.
shad
Quote by ansue90
Been to a couple of sites last weekend, but felt intimidated by the men there.
On one occasion, a bloke parked near to us, no problem. But after a few minutes he was hanging out of his car window impatiently flashing some kind of light. Fuck that!!!!!!!!
Next time, we were in the car having " a play" when some guy that had already been with some other couple starts walking towards us without any "invite". "Cheeky twat"
Why can't blokes be patient, you never know what will CUM your way!!!!!!!
Suzanne

Hi both,
All i would say to you both on this matter is take it at your own pace and remember that it's you that's in charge, not the chancers that sometimes frequent certain car parks.
If things become uncomfortable for you just leave, you both are whats important and your relationship.
shad.
Quote by o69_mark
Hi there. Does anymody know what sort of action goes on a xxxxxxxxxxx Nr Peterborough? I will be in that area over the next few weeks and would be interested in going.
If you could tell me if it is gay or straight I would be grateful... Also, any hints, tips or what to look out for from anyone that has been would also be useful.
I've heard that there is a gate to the car-park. Is this ever locked at night?
I know where it is... I just need some info on what goes on so that I can judge if it is worth me going
Mod edit - you have just ensured that the place will be full of boy racers, muggers, rapists or the Old Bill - well done! Try reading site policy instead. . mad mad mad

mad Tell you what you need to look out for after such a non informed post as this.
You will have to find an alternative venue in which to go dogging because nobody on this site will go there now.
Quote by lucylocket
hi all
im actually a disabled girl 36 married with 1 son
we have always fancied swinging but thought people would be put off
i had a car crash in 1992 and has left me wheelchair bound but its only my back thats injuired not my mind
im finding it very differcult to find a suitable couple in the north east area
i dont no why
people tend to back away when they hear wheelchair
thanks for listening
varna xxxx

:welcome: to you both i hope you enjoy this site and all it has to offer and in regards to your post i would say to you great sex is in the mind, and the body just comes along for the ride.
Pardon the pun but seriously you do not have to explain yourself or your desires to anyone.
They will accept you for who you are or not, whether you are disabled or not.
Hope you find what you are looking for.
shad.
Quote by pete279
hi basicaly im been a member of SH for quite sometime now and have had no luck however after reading a lot of topics on the forum i have noticed many ppl know each other very well on the site what i wanted to know is how u all became such good friends ?

:welcome:
Been on here a while myself Pete and like you have not met anyone yet, but it's about making friends just as much as it's about swinging.
So like they say sit back enjoy and join in where you feel the need to and start your own threads.
Oh bugger it looks like you just made a friend after all. Look forward to talking to you.
wink Regards shad.
Quote by Welshlad18
Never posted on here before, hello everyone, just wondering if there are any girls my age on here or am I the baby?
Thanks
Steve

:welcome: to you young sir enjoy the site and all it has to offer.
shad.
Quote by Maia
Hi all.
Apologies if this has been done before but I am going to ask the question anyway. Has anyone of you ever been stalked? An ex boyfriend of mine whom I lived with for a year around 11 years ago stalked me for a year after we broke up. He used to follow me back from work and stand outside my window at my student flat and call me every 15 minutes. He even repeatedly put a screw driver into my then new boyfriend's tyres. Eventually, I moved and managed to lose him. The weird thing is, I think he just moved into my neighbourhood. Seriously, I am not worried as the stalking happened a decade ago.
I guess I was wondering if something like this ever happened to anyone else? I know some friends of mine who had stalkers who tracked them down through the internet.
Thanks

Hi,
I have also been the victim of a stalker so i sympathise with you.
My stalker was a young single woman of 28 yrs who worked at the same company as my self. It started inocently enough with the usual flirting going on at work but very soon progressed into her getting friends at work to enquire about my personal circumstances.
The lady in question would take it upon herself to ensure she was at certain venues outside of work hours with the knowledge that i would be frequenting the establishment at some point.
This made me feel uncomfortable but i could live with this, what i found to be unforgivable was she would try to follow me home.
I eventually challenged her with a view to asking her what the bloody hell she was playing at. To which she responded i was only going for a drive.
I started to see her everywhere i went even when out with my wife. I had to have this out with her again and she said she liked me and thought the flirting would lead to more.
I told her that stalking anyone was well out of order and that doing it to anyone was a sure way for her to end up having a visit from the police.
Things went quiet from then on and i did not see her everywhere i went, however i then started to get phone calls on my mobile.
She had got the number from the work phone number list so i then had to change both it and my home number immediately.
This raised issues at home as i'm sure you are aware but i did not want to tell my wife what had been going on, i am certain that my wife would have gone right off the deep end and caused one hell of a stink.
I opted for a quiet drink with this lady and tried to get through to her that i was not interested in her however attractive she was, oh she turned up at the pub dressed like we were on a first date.
I left the public house after telling her to leave me alone or i would indeed inform the police.
Shortly after this meeting she was dismissed from work which gave me a breathing space, however she knew where i would be at certain times of the day and so i often left work to find her waiting in her car.
I never spoke to her again but i always find myself looking when i leave work and watching for her during the drive home.
It has been 2 yrs now and it has got slightly less all consuming for me and some people may say you should have gone for it while you had the chance, but can you imagine the comeback on that. It makes me shiver just thinking about it.
shad.
Quote by mistresstig3r
We may be out playing later tonight around 10is if anyone wants to watch only from outside the car, you can play with yourselves just dont get it over the car...you name some good spots and we will let you know if we can make it there. Dont want huge crowds ether 1 or 2 is fine.
Wont be full sex on show but some finger/dildo action and oral on him.
Cheers all.

Hi,
You have a PM.
shad.
:welcome: Griff,
The best advice i can give you is this, read the site rules and think about your post.
Use the seach button to find out what has happened on this great site prior to joining.
Oh always carry a condom lol well you never know your luck do you.
shad.
Andy i have sent you several PMs check your profile settings. Other than that dont know why your not getting them. confused
shad.
:welcome: to the site and hope you get your photo shrunk ok, took me bloody ages to figure it out, not being of the computer generation. lol
shad.
Quote by Staffspair
Could anyone please PM us good locations in the Midlands/Staffs.

Hello again both you have a new PM. biggrin
shad.
Where abouts are you in staffs, let me know by PM and i will give you the info you require.
Oh and welcome to SH.
shad. :welcome:
mad Absolutely unbelievable what some people are capable of and what lenghts they will go to in order to prey on others.
I know that others have comented in earlier threads but we are an easy mark for the elements of society that operate in this manner, and i reiterate what they have said.
Always inform the police as you are not a criminal.
I do not know you sir but i wish you a speedy recovery and my heart goes out to you.
shad.
Quote by andy882
Hi all,
I've just been over to xxxxxxxxx for a spot of dogging after an abscence of about a year and found it all locked up (I guess as a result of our gypsy friends' visits).
After spending some time in the delightful company of various boy racers around one or two other likely spots I'm at a bit of a loss as to where the leicestershire cogniscienti meet up these days.
I've had a trawl through the posts and I think the general feeling is not to post locations on the site (which I totally agree with), but I'm quite keen to get involved again so wondered if anyone could pm a few suggestions?
Thanks (I hope!!)
Andy

You have a PM.
shad.
Quote by mickmann
G/F fanatsy is to go dogging and also to have sex with vwe men , but when push comes to shove, she backs out. How do i get her to perform her fantasy.

Got to say this just in case you missed it you dont ever force your wife into anything and if you push it the result will be misery for both of you.
You might consider roll play or as we do when out together pretend you are being watched.
I am hopefull that my partner will come around to full on dogging experience but i will never make her do anything she does not want to do.
Oh by the way if this is her fantasy she will take the initiative and ask you to support her in as far as she wishes to go. Or is it her fantasy......??????????? wink
:welcome: by the way.
shad.
Quote by mistresstig3r
29 views and no pms!!! nosey lot...come on you watchers dont be shy or cples we just need to know some new spots usual ones are on the decline a bit.

You have A PM. wink
Shad.
Quote by pan_bi
Hi to everybody, what a great site!
We've been lurking for ages and decided it's time to introduce ourselves.
We're a couple in our mid thirties, bi male, sexy female, and we're hoping to meet and chat with some of you lovely people!
We'll be putting an ad up very soon, so in the meantime, hi!
P and N

:welcome: to :swingingchair: heaven both of you, hope you enjoy this great site.
Shad.
Quote by outdoor_games
shandy? biggrin
lager? drinkies
beer? :cheers:
spirits? :silly:

Larger for me .. tia maria for Mrs Shad. :thumbup:
shad.
Quote by slave Dave
Received this today & thought I would share:
The Labour government today announced that it is changing its emblem from a ROSE to a CONDOM because it more accurately reflects the governments political stance. A condom allows for inflation, halts production, destroys the next generation, protects a bunch of pricks, and gives you a sense of security while you're actually being screwed. lol

:laughabove: rotflmao rotflmao rotflmao
Bloody hell yes and they will probably win this election as well..
shad.
Quote by dirty_bham
hi im new here and just wanted to say hello. hope to get to know you all better in the future.

:welcome: dirty hope we get to know who and what you are soon... lol
Take your time and join in the fun when you are ready.
shad.
Quote by DePravity
Ok, hi, I've lurked long enough. Dogging...how do I pursuade a reluctant and slightly moralistic hubby that this is something I really want to try. I've tried bringing it up in conversation and all I get is 'tut tut, how awfull and what's wrong with these people' .
My sex drive may be a lot higher than his but I would have to think seriously about infidelity if he doesn't get his act together soon. I have a gf who I've discussed this with and she wondered what would happen if we just turned up on our own. Safety and security being top of the list. Also how would other doggers react if two women turned up without men?
Suggestions, advice etc requested.
One persons DePravity is anothers pleasure
:violin:

:welcome: And i would most definately agree with serendipity on this issue, i am in a similar situation to yourself but at least my partner will go out with me and enjoys what we do together.
The last thing you should do is push the issue to the point of alienating your partner and end up them resenting you for it.
You may wish to try roll play with him and find out what he wants, i wish you luck.
shad.
:laughabove:
Superb, mind i suppose i would have behaved in the same way and ran for the bloody hills. bolt
Did you ever find out if the cars occupants were doggers or not, could have been our boys in blue.
shad.
Quote by PoloLady
There is a well known daytime dogging location in Leicester :shock: ??????

There is indeed PoloLady should you wish to know the location PM me and i will supply the information by return.
Thank you all for your comments and rest assured that we will go at our own pace, after all it is our relationship that's important.
Shad.