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shaun5x5
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 60
Straight Female, 57
0 miles · Sheffield

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I've had some good fun, last night a fine example, around Doncaster. A couple of years back I used to be quite regular and attended the picnics and BBQs through the old ! groups. Unfortunately the word spread and then PLOD! Been back on the scene last six months and remember some faces smile but have also encountered some quite aggressive unfriendly people (Drives a 4x4, thinks he's God - you've probably met him). Don't let them put you off.
There is a lot of press/police interest and as my past experience has been, publicising locations just kills everything off. However we must strike a balance. Paranoia and not sharing info privately on this board (by PM) will also kill things off.
The only way to get to know and trust people will be to contribute through this board and talk amonst ourselves by PM, then start to talk about locations and arranging meets, in PM obviously. I know this may spoil the spontineity, but its probably the safest way for all.
Enough from my soapbox :)
I was at one of the well known Doncaster sites last night and had a very nice time with a lady calling herself Amy, though it is very hit and miss when visiting. I have noticed a lot of men who don't know what to do. For example at the beginning of January I played with a couple in a dark Vauxhall, blond lady with a blindfold on (If you read this - thanks). The site was quite busy, all the signs were given and we played, but everyone else seemed oblivious. We were not in view but no one got out of their car! Some even drove away right past us.
I can only emplore watchers and players to suppoert couples and visa versa and make the effort to follow boards like this and try to put in an appearance.
I know some of the usual places and will happily pm them to anyone who asks, and if anyone has any please pm back.