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skinny
1 month ago
Straight Male, 77
0 miles · Brighton
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I'll mention something not related to your question, but something you will be made aware of, no doubt, as you become familiar with the site. Your profile is new and doesn't have photographs, and these are not essential. However, if you wish to be considered genuine then you will almost certainly have to be visible, either by showing your face on cam in the chatrooms, or by attending a social gathering of bonafide members who will then vouch for you.
There are a number of "unreal" couples profiles on sites like this, and experienced members are likely to be sceptical of people who are not confirmed as genuine.
There are a number of "unreal" couples profiles on sites like this, and experienced members are likely to be sceptical of people who are not confirmed as genuine.
There are many longstanding members who are BBW's, and they seem to attract plenty of admirers on the site. As with everything else in life some are more popular than others, but I'm not sure the size comes into it. The answer to your question is that there are both men and women on the site who happily meet BBW's, and anyone who doesn't like bigger girls just isn't going to become involved in the prelim's.
As with everything else, you will have to decipher, if indeed it matters to you, whether or not any admiration shown and declared is genuine, or whether it's simply a guy saying what he thinks he should in order to get what he wants.
In many cases, when a man declares that he "adores" a certain type of woman, be it big or small, what he really means is he likes those who will accept his bullshit and him along with it.
As with everything else, you will have to decipher, if indeed it matters to you, whether or not any admiration shown and declared is genuine, or whether it's simply a guy saying what he thinks he should in order to get what he wants.
In many cases, when a man declares that he "adores" a certain type of woman, be it big or small, what he really means is he likes those who will accept his bullshit and him along with it.
Welcome to the forum flirty.
I couldn't give a stuff about basques or corsets, but then to each his own, and I prefer my girls in smaller proportions anyway. Generally I'd say you should go with whatever you feel good in.
I'm sure you'll have no trouble whatsoever in attracting guys who couldn't care less about your personal circumstances. Your problem will be deciphering the timewasters from the genuine guys. You should aim to appear on cam in chatrooms yourself, thus confirming that you are both genuine, and female. (don't laugh) You'll also get a better idea of who's who.
I couldn't give a stuff about basques or corsets, but then to each his own, and I prefer my girls in smaller proportions anyway. Generally I'd say you should go with whatever you feel good in.
I'm sure you'll have no trouble whatsoever in attracting guys who couldn't care less about your personal circumstances. Your problem will be deciphering the timewasters from the genuine guys. You should aim to appear on cam in chatrooms yourself, thus confirming that you are both genuine, and female. (don't laugh) You'll also get a better idea of who's who.
:cheers:There are still a number of countries where dog fighting is commonplace and is not legislated against.
These include Brazil, most of latin america in fact, and Russia.
That's just another reason, on top of their persecution of gay groups and individuals, why none of us should be visiting for the world cup or olympic games respectively.
These include Brazil, most of latin america in fact, and Russia.
That's just another reason, on top of their persecution of gay groups and individuals, why none of us should be visiting for the world cup or olympic games respectively.
The "add ons" at the end of the selections make it almost impossible to vote, and this is something common in these polls.
If my answer were "very important", the notion that I would "aim for a club at least once a week" is laughable. To me personally, very important and once a week don't belong in the same sentence when talking about sex.
I actually would have answered "not at all important", but then the definition invalidates that for me, and I'd expect to have sex, with people whom I'm not involved with, at least once a week just in the normal course of living.
Different people will have their own take on what suits them, and no doubt it will vary from time to time, depending, in part, upon how good their personal relationships and sex lives are at any given time.
If my answer were "very important", the notion that I would "aim for a club at least once a week" is laughable. To me personally, very important and once a week don't belong in the same sentence when talking about sex.
I actually would have answered "not at all important", but then the definition invalidates that for me, and I'd expect to have sex, with people whom I'm not involved with, at least once a week just in the normal course of living.
Different people will have their own take on what suits them, and no doubt it will vary from time to time, depending, in part, upon how good their personal relationships and sex lives are at any given time.
I consider "swinging" to be recreational sex with a non regular partner, and between two, or more, people who (and this is important) have considered and are intent upon participating in same as a purely recreational pursuit.
So meeting someone in a bar then finding yourself in bed with them at the end of the night doesn't mean you were swinging. Might just mean you were easy :cool:.
So meeting someone in a bar then finding yourself in bed with them at the end of the night doesn't mean you were swinging. Might just mean you were easy :cool:.
:kiss:I'm sure that if your wife appears on cam then she will receive plenty of attention from the guys and girls who use the chatrooms. On the other hand, if she doesn't appear on cam then you are unlikely to be taken seriously....you will still get whispers, but it'll just be from guys who are into the cyber chat, and who wouldn't meet even if invited.
These safety tips should be applied to everyone thinking of meeting up with strangers for sex. You can say, as often as you like, that it wasn't necessarily for sex, but the context of the site is enough to ensure that most parties, men in particular, are thinking sex when they arrange a meeting.
I have turned up at someones house to find more than one other person there who was expecting to become involved in the activities.
I have had someone in my own flat whom I later identified, through local news, to be a convicted murderer who had absconded from a semi secure mental health facility.
I have met someone who was so wasted on drugs that she wouldn't have known who I was, and this transpired to be her normal state.
Don't be scared, but always be alert.
I have turned up at someones house to find more than one other person there who was expecting to become involved in the activities.
I have had someone in my own flat whom I later identified, through local news, to be a convicted murderer who had absconded from a semi secure mental health facility.
I have met someone who was so wasted on drugs that she wouldn't have known who I was, and this transpired to be her normal state.
Don't be scared, but always be alert.
