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skinny
1 month ago
Straight Male, 77
0 miles · Brighton

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Heck no .. no connection required ... it's just different when there is one. Since there are thousands of guys who, although not gay, will have sex with other guys, the chances of there being "a connection" is remote. So it is, quite often, with straight sex. When a person, male or female, makes a 'phone call and hires an escort for half an hour, the outcome is not going to be dependent upon there being a connection.
There will be all sorts of responses to the contrary, mostly by those wishing to state that for them there has to be a connection. The topic has been touched on before, and we'll hear the "any hole will do" comments no doubt. But if we think about it, where's that connection when we have a wank? ... over porn or otherwise?
Reading profiles? Now there's a strange concept. Surely to read it might imply that you may even wish to meet the person who posted the profile ... an even stranger concept.
Some tennis skirts have a ball pocket inside, and some under-shorts have pockets too, but apparently it's not unusual for a girl to just wedge the ball up the leg of spandex shorts and that'll work for them too.
check out time out for places to go. there are saunas, but never been in one. fantasy video (adult cinema) on city road is a place where I'm told lots of sleazy action goes on, or used to, probably still does. Although it's not gay as such, there aren't many women turn up, so it's generally going to be guys getting involved.
Only ever pulled on a pair of panties at request of a g.f., and can't say it did anything for me. Funnily enough a recent chatroom topic has been panties which ladies seem prepared to leave behind when they visit us...or me in particular... someone suggested that perhaps they felt I'd like to try 'em on.
I have had more frequent requests to wear stockings (from blokes)and again this hasn't ever done anything for me, although I do recognize that some people are really turned on by men dressed in women's attire, and turning someone on can be a turn on in itself.
I think perhaps there is excitement from doing something we ourselves consider risque, and this may explain why wearing a certain garment, even if concealed, might get us turned on. Women actually practice this regularly. They wear sexy, sometimes very sexy, undies which they have no intention of allowing anyone to see, and it excites them just to know they are wearing them.
So wear your panties with pride .... or at Pride even.
have fun
and welcome to the forum.
Sometimes, not always, her lying still,(works for me) well more than likely being pulled and released, usually from a spooning position, is just what's needed to reach the orgasm after the hour(s)of intercourse.....the time is obviously dependent upon who she is and what we think of each other as a partner.
But hey, don't have a guilt trip ... enjoy ... he's doing so.
Heck no groundhog, I think your little sortie into the chatroom earlier today went down well. In fact I was quite surprised, when I peeked at your profile, (not to mention quite pleased with the pics.) to see that you are a relative newbie. Please don't desert us in the chatroom. Most of the members who chat in the pool are fairly longstanding regulars, but an ok bunch on the whole, and will be happy to offer advice to you if ever you feel the need to ask. I look forward to chatting sometime soon.
Stick to doughnuts and sticky buns, much better tasting than pussy.
Hi Dee, safety is something which has been mentioned many times in the forum. There are a few simple rules which should always be adhered to.
As mentioned in earlier responses, always meeting in a public place is very useful ... you might wish to check out that there are cctv cameras recording your visit.
Never get into a car without first recording the registration number ... or texting reg. no. to a friend if it's more relevant. As with hotel meets or meets at the other person's home you should also record details, and let the other party know that you're doing so. Never (sounds silly when I say it here) go into a room, address, or vehicle which isn't the one you've recorded details for. You never have to stay .... if you begin to feel uneasy, for whatever reason, probably just trusting your instincts, then leave. You can apologise later, just go.
it has to be "Love Actually" ...... with perhaps a smattering of "Dangerous Liaisons"
I've never fancied growing a beard .... but sometimes might not shave for 4 or 5 days, just cos I can't be arsed. So I just shower and go wherever I would've gone anyway, and, in answer to your question, it never ever has made any difference to my sex life.... so I'm guessing, (as it couldn't really be called a beard) that having a beard would make no difference whatsoever, as in there's probably someone'll be attracted to a beard as there will be someone attracted without. There's an awful lot of people out there looking for a guy to have sex with.
It just occurred to me that you might be better posting this in one of the other forums, but good luck with it anyway.
I've never actually heard of such a thing as a swingers' bar, in London or elsewhere, but no doubt someone'll correct me. I've always found that touristy bars and central hotel bars are where swingers visiting London are likely to hang out; beyond that I guess it's just about being approachable. I guess it very much depends upon what you're hoping to find too. I mean, as a single guy myself, I've no doubt attracted a very different type of person than the couple or the single lady might.
welcome back indeed, the forum could sure use some new input.
i've gone for Looks. now i'm googling to get some insight into those other traits you've mentioned.
I might come if i can get someone to look after me, cos i'm a bit shy.
If it turns you on, or the thought of it excites you, then it surely could be worth trying .... beyond that you can't really believe there's any difference.
I luv a grapefruit .... but i'm not sure it luvs me back :sad:
I haven't actually read the responses from our friends and fellow forumites, who are generally able to, and willingly share, their pearls of wisdom.
I really don't think you should be concerned about being over 50. I feel sure that the best approach to whatever you are looking for should be led by your own wishes. So, unless you yourselves wish to avoid younger folks, just go wherever you think sounds like fun, or wherever you wish to try.
I'm 65, and generally socialize with people in their 20's and 30's. This isn't by design, it's just that these fun folks share the same preference for the particular venues.
Explore and have fun.
just keep it simple.. I'm ok, but tell me, when you have sex with other guys what are your preferences? top? bottom? lights on or off? and would you mind if me and some friends watch?
The success people have on the site varies tremendously, just as in life really. I don't know anything of your site history, so please forgive me if I'm suggesting something you may already have tried.
The first thing is that you need to be identified as a couple. It sounds daft, I know, but there are many single guys (or cheating married guys) using a couple's profile.
There are two ways to meet people and to verify that you are indeed who you say you are. Firstly, you ought to attend a "social", preferably one of the better attended ones, but any social near to you is a good starting point.
Secondly, you can go on cam in the chatrooms and chat with other members. You'll soon get to know who's who. Don't think of camming as being a sexual experience, although it does serve as such for some. There is still the option to be fairly discreet on cam, and as reserved, or otherwise, as you wish. Should you decide to "cam" you might wish to treat whispers and any communications from unidentified parties with some scepticism.
My ploy depends upon getting naked ..... I take all my clothes off .... then take advantage of em while they're totally incapacitated by laughing so much.
don't knock dishwashin', and if ya do a good job ya might get a shag as well ....... and I won't ask fer anything in return cool
welcome back dee. I recommend you get y'self down to Brighton as soon as possible. No need fer all that old chat nonsense.. .. come to my place and try on a pair o' marigolds.
You could always come to Brighton any time. You'll be more than welcome at my humble abode.
On many occasions, when a man is "caught" with his cock erect it's because he was hoping to be caught. Not all will have the bottle to take things further, but in a hotel bedroom it's a kind of legit' opportunity to "flash", and that can get a guy excited.
In answer to your question tho', no, you're not the only one. Some will carry on with their duties, pretending to pay no attention. (I have a friend who is a housekeeper at a major hotel)
Staying to watch, to be a voyeur is not unheard of, but less likely, and I suspect that those who have done so seldom speak of it.
I've experienced, only once, being watched by a maid, whilst making out with the guest. She entered and stayed, when she was aware we didn't mind, and she watched from a distance and left as soon as we'd finished what we were doing. She never uttered a sound.
Most guys are easy to weigh up, and they like whatever's on offer. Genuinely bisexual guys, some will claim not to be if there's a lady in the company, might have a different, tho' no less fun, agenda. The best way to come at this though, is without any agenda at all, unless one of the party has a wish to try something in particular. Very often it'll depend upon experience, as we all tend to harbour notions of trying something we've only heard about. The possibilities are endless though, and two lovers to one lady is a good starting point, and dp (should you wish to try it) is good for the guys too. Be clear on each's limitations, and be well stocked with condoms and lubes. Enjoy. wink
Didn't get this ...... obviously from before my time :cool: baybee
Quote by Toots
So Toots, when I do my "cock cam" can I make it look bigger? :bounce:

Toots Filth Advice - Tip No 378,320
Skinners:
1/ Ensure your webcam is broadcasting in the SH Chatrooms(s)
2/ Make sure you're in a room that allows Directing
3/ Find Toots and request an invite to her filthy pics
4/ Ask Toots to study your pink bits to gauge it's size when flaccid
5/ Stroke your sticky out bit whilst admiring aforementioned pics
6/ Request Toots takes a further look at your camera so as to see the
difference to your now hardened state (hence the directing room)
Repeat step 5 until a sufficient increment can been validated.
Disclaimer: Any reference to filthy pics of toots is purely fictional
and used only as a reference point, other SH members pics may vary.
I'll expect you in chat sometime soon then Skinny?
I did read it, you's just abusin your position as a mod and hopin i'll succumb to your plan.... well tough, cos when I get an erection (it does happen occasionally), you won't be able to tell, cos it's not visible, unless ya know where to look .... and accept that it's not really what you might've expected.